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Joined: 9 Sep 2007 / Male ♂ 		Last Post: 18 Sep 2008
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marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / why wont he communicate? going crazy [90]

i am not a stalker

if i do decide to go see him when i am in poland it is not to cause a scene but to genuienly say hello to someone who i care about-

above is stalking. the guy wants nothing to do with you, yet you keep trying to get in touch with him.
he wants nothing to do with you, have some diginity and let it be

he had so many dreams and i encouraged him to follow them-but he has been in poland for so long now i think he has given up on his dreams

what you do know is that hes given up on you and you should do the same.
marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / Polish-Islam Relationship Union [450]

You never hear about Christians rallying against other religions, telling other they will go to hell, God hates fags, burning down abortion clinics, using religion to justify something horrible etc etc

you dont hear about christians killing women because they dont cover themselves in towels from head to toe now do you?
marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / why wont he communicate? going crazy [90]

Dont be so damn mean...

just driving my point across.

If I ignore someone its because I dont want to speak to them, simple....

totally agreed.
marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / Polish-Islam Relationship Union [450]

Now that's your position in Christ. If you don't want that position and want to be treated like a slave and not like a son

yet another believer in some fable

No, but they kill for oil

really which religion.

damned to hell if you don't believe or burned at the cross for being a witch

that was long ago. show me in modern times where women are burned to a crisp.
ohh, wait, muslims just kill their women because they dont wear enough towels
marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / why wont he communicate? going crazy [90]

Really, Marek, there's no need for that

calling him and him not answering, texting him with no answer either now shes going to go to poland and find him. if thats not stalking, what is it?

marek if you loved a girl really loved her would you without reason accept-nothing in response to your love?

well, if she was avoiding me for six weeks, yes. lets be realistic here.

i have been reading the post by men and love on this forum and they are encouraged to do what it takes-win her heart.

sure, you do what it takes for a person you care for, but she hasnt heard a word from him in 6 weeks. its really plain to see he does not want anything to do with her.

to top it off, did he ever say he was afraid of a relationship?

so- if okay has strong feelings for this guy and she feels he has given up coz he doesnt think it could be- why shouldnt she try and convince him otherwise?

because maybe he played and used her. maybe the guy has a wife and children back at home. ever think theres a reason why hes not calling her back?

until she gets an answer either way why is it wrong??

in the movies you get answers, in real life you dont.
some people are not realistic and think they deserve and answer when they deserve not one thing.
why is it when women get dumped, women always want answers.

truth hurts, doesn't it.. i think he is just warning her that is how she's coming across.

you know, i do hope she goes to poland and makes a total fool of herself.
maybe that will teach her a lesson
marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / Polish-Islam Relationship Union [450]

Ask Bush and his holy crusaders :)

bush went to war with iraq, it had nothing to do with religion. he did not declare war on muslims.
marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / why wont he communicate? going crazy [90]

the other thing.. polish jails aren't somewhere i'd want to spend even a minute in.

stalking is a crime in alot of countries.

3 : to pursue obsessively and to the point of harassment
— stalk·er noun
marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / why wont he communicate? going crazy [90]

Do you know for sure that he is even getting your messages? If you know that for sure...and he still does not respond..

f you care about somebody, you make sure that he/she got your massage, and you don't stop trying..

as she has posted, shes called his house and he doesnt pick up.
when people avoid people, the last thing they want to do is talk to the person they are avoiding. clearly this has been the case.

i cant believe that some people would even advocate for her to go to another country and keep trying to get ahold of him. its not like they were married or even had a serous relationship.
marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / why wont he communicate? going crazy [90]

if he doesn't want to keep in touch with her, he should let her know that it's over.

if it was a novel or movie sure he would.

being a gentelman, he should...

ever think that maybe just maybe she was so totally clingy that he just had to get away from her?

I think there comes a point when you HAVE to stop trying. Or where do you draw the line? If you just keep trying and trying and trying, you lose your dignity really and when does it stop? Does she find herself still texting/calling in a year? For Okay's own sake she should stop now. Really, if he is trying to ignore her the more she texts/calls, the more he will dislike her for it. If you care about someone, it doesn't really mean they care that same way about you.

totally agreed.

He hasn't contacted her though. Even if he is married with kids and very busy...he would have contacted her by now if he truly wanted to...

yup
marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / why wont he communicate? going crazy [90]

im not trying to bad mouth the poor girl, but shes obsessed and thats just not a good thing.
rejection hurts, but its part of life sadly
marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / why wont he communicate? going crazy [90]

some people are co dependent and no matter how bad a relationship may be, they still wont walk away. its one thing if your married and dont want to walk, and another if you are single.
marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / why wont he communicate? going crazy [90]

It just seemed kind of mean to say that, that's all. But, judging from your other posts in other threads that I've read Marek, you are the king of tough love :)

I'd like to see a thread about Marek's Life Experiences that have led to the tough love attitude. Now THAT would be a interesting read.

im just a very blunt person. i dont believe in sugar coating answers.

Okay, now I really don't think that's the case here. The girl just wants an explanation...is that so much to ask?

quite frankly at this point yes it is. it is painfully obvious that he wants nothing to do with her. after six weeks of no return calls or anything, thats you answer, he doesnt care, he doesnt want to chat or anything, he wants to be left alone.

pinkjewel said it best, there comes a point when you stop.
wanting an answer from somebody that she wasnt married to or even had a serious relationship is asking for too much 6 weeks later.
remember this isnt a novel or movie that everybody walks away knowing everything.

I dunno, maybe it's a bit obsessive, but I think I would have the same feelings in this situation to be honest. For some people (such as myself) it's very difficult to just let things go with no explanation and no understanding of what happened. It would make me crazy.

what is she holding on to, it never was a real relationship to begin with.
they were not boyfriend and girlfriend. i have a feeling shes making more of it than what it was.
marek s   
11 Dec 2007
Love / Married a Polish guy. Now what? [40]

well if you are unhappy with him, tell him so. if he doesnt care what you say or doesnt want to change and work on things, leave him.
marek s   
12 Dec 2007
Love / why wont he communicate? going crazy [90]

what if he has tried to explain to his family that he has found an english girl he carse for but they are so against the idea.

okay said he told her there were "issues" in poland so what if these "issues" have something to do with his silence-he doesnt know how to explain them.

he knew how to talk to her before, and now he doesnt?
when people avoid others, they somehow seem to forget how to talk because they dont want to.

she obviously cares for him and i think he has feelings for her-it seems strange that there is no communication.

he cares so much that he hasnt bothered calling or anything in close to two months, you calling that caring for somebody?

what if he has tried to explain to his family that he has found an english girl he carse for but they are so against the idea.

you are making up excuses that you dont even know are true.

okay has said if she goes to poland she doesnt want to make a scene was to see how he is.

going from the u.k to poland to find a person who has been totally not wanting a thing to do with a person is stalking.
marek s   
12 Dec 2007
Love / Polish-Islam Relationship Union [450]

Does it make you feel any better to dump on the Muslims

so by posting news stories about muslims and the non violent lives they lead, thats dumping on them?
marek s   
12 Dec 2007
Love / Polish-Islam Relationship Union [450]

without tolerance and respect it will never be possible to live in peace with each other.

when they stop waging jihad for stupid ****, locking people up because a teddy bear was named mohammed, stop killing women because they dont want to wear towels and so on.

maybe then tolerance will come around.
marek s   
13 Dec 2007
Love / Polish-Islam Relationship Union [450]

.Maybe set some rules.U can always put down questions and if we muslims don't know the answer in Islam we promise to find it according to Islam and not according to us.the2nd rule is not to post anything that u don' have a clue to...

your the new guy are you want rules set down, ha ha
marek s   
13 Dec 2007
Love / Polish-Islam Relationship Union [450]

so do tell, why is it muslims find it necessary to go and beat/kill women who dont wear burkas?
why do they find it necessary to throw people in jail because somebody named a doll Mohammed?
marek s   
14 Dec 2007
Love / Polish-Islam Relationship Union [450]

Well we think women are much more precious than diamonds and thats why they wear thier hijab to be modest,

maybe they wear that because the men are insecure?
why else make them be covered from head to toe (unless they are butt ugly)
marek s   
15 Dec 2007
Love / Polish-Islam Relationship Union [450]

To stop possible violence and to keep the family - not saying about many other reasons, which are way more important.

if your wife really loves you, married you of her own free will, not some arranged marriage what are you worried about?
why would there be violence?
marek s   
16 Dec 2007
Love / Polish-Islam Relationship Union [450]

cause when men see a beautiful woman many and many of them "get interested".

so basically what you are saying is that you dont trust your women and given the chance, a fellow muslim would try and seduce your women.
marek s   
18 Dec 2007
Love / Polish-Islam Relationship Union [450]

'Cause if anyone has a clue what fornication can lead to (just nice one-night-stand out of wedlock) , think he would thought that lashes (if it will save him from what is going to come) is most beautiful thing in the world. Sounds apalling to you, I know - but this is for people who prefer to stay sober and realise what life is and why it was given to them.

god gave a dick to use.
marek s   
18 Dec 2007
Love / Polish-Islam Relationship Union [450]

CONCLUSION IS SHELLY IS NOTHING BUT A RACIST

so are muslims in some countries. they will not allow to build catholic churches.

Dude is still waiting.....

you have any clue on how big of a tool you sound typing in 3rd person?

After all fornication is a sin in most religions

thats if people are weak minded enough to believe above *********.
if a so called god would not want people having sex before being married, he would of made it to where people would not be able to.

You can pee as well.

its not the only reason its for.

Allah can cut off every western dick in one second.

then why hasnt he?
its only a matter of time before the muslims and western people go to war.
ill personally enjoy lining up some men wearing towels in my sights.

I know there is wisdom because Jihad fighters enter a beautiful garden with 72 virgins serving them.

hopefully a westerner will help you meet those 72 hoes

If the virgins are polish girls,I am ready to die for Allah.

they are infidels