Return PolishForums LIVE
  PolishForums Archive :
Posts by Bubbles  

Joined: 13 Aug 2007 / Female ♀ 		Last Post: 13 Mar 2008
Threads: Total: 1 / In This Archive: 1
Posts: Total: 120 / In This Archive: 113 		From: USA
Speaks Polish?: Enough to get me into trouble.
Interests: Skiing; travel; socializing

Displayed posts: 114 / page 1 of 4
sort: Latest first   Oldest first   |
Bubbles   
13 Mar 2008
Love / Meaning of Friendship (my friends is going back to Poland) [57]

everything else around me is falling apart...
Any thoughts?

PG It is really really tough. And the last time my world was falling apart you totally were there to help me through it.

You will keep in touch, and when you are together for visits and such you will pick up right where you left off. You will make new friends and you will slowly fill the void, but in the mean time just hang in there.

You have us to lean on. :-)
Bubbles   
11 Mar 2008
Love / I have met a wonderful Polish woman, but she has a 9 yrs old daughter [66]

I Have met.
A Wonderful Woman..

Hey FIRE that is totally awesome.

Just be yourself. You are such a great guy I am sure she will love you. Just treat her like a human, get down to her level and give her your undivided attention when it is your time to hang with her. Both your new ladies will love you for it. :-D
Bubbles   
15 Jan 2008
Life / Horticulture in Poland [63]

I work in horticulture

:-D

Totally off the subject. I am working a fram show tomorrow!! So I get to go play in the dirt with horticulturists!! :-) I will think of you donkey.

Good luck with your thread.
Bubbles   
7 Jan 2008
Travel / Donkey visits Poland [76]

Thanks for sharing donkey!! I am jelous!! Sounds like you had a great time.
Bubbles   
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

how does that sound

If you are willing to live with whatever happens, what does it matter what anyone else thinks.

Best of luck to you Belngin. I know you will be happy one day.
Bubbles   
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

so should i just say were fininshed and wait till he pusues me,

That is very wishful thinking that he will pursue you.

You are asking for advice, but I think your mind is already made up that you are going to take him back. No one knows but you if he is worth putting your heart on the line for. My guess is you are going to take him back and you will be hurt again and it will be worse. But noone but yourself has to live with your decision.

If you are happy with him and can live with the "what if" then do what makes you happy.
Bubbles   
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

i know if he really loves me and wants me, then he will do it. how long, say 3 months?

Ok so you give him 3 months to clean up his act. He has to be on good behavior for 90 days. So on day 93 he can go back to his old ways.

Don't give him a time limit. In fact don't give him anything no this is what I need you to do. If he is really sorry he will do what it takes all on his own.

Don't hold your breath.
Bubbles   
27 Dec 2007
Love / meaning of receiving empty text [21]

It could be some cryptic way of saying... I have nothing to say to you. Or... I'm too busy at the moment.

If had nothing to say he wouldn't of sent anything at all.

He is too busy.

Leave a message on his voice mail.
Bubbles   
27 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

btw. those are regular working hours

Point made!!

really read below, she will take him back. first off, he already gave her a reason to walk and the fact they are in different countries is also a clue to walk. ldr never works

I stand corrected!! I thought she needed support I was wrong.

he will not get away with what hes done, he deserves to be punished. im no judge, but he needs to be sentenced, im still seeking revenge. it aint over, im thinking straight and im strong.

I feel sorry for you!! You have the opportunity to make a clean break and be the bigger person. I know it hurts, but why drag it out. Why would taking him back just to get revenge help anything or anyone. You are in for a LOT of pain, and if you think it hurts now if you pursue this you will regret it forever.

For him, one day, to find out you are in an honest, loving respectful relationship with somebody who really wants to settle down with you and seeing what he missed out on when you left him and moved on.

Sofi, you are wise beyond your years!!

your thinking like the teenager that you are.
act like an adult and walk away. no revenge, punishment or whatever you may want to plot.
truth be told, your in your strong mode now or whatever, but he will play you, youll fall for it and will be kissing his ass soon enough, we all have seen above happen many of times over.

He is absolutely right!! He knows what he is talking about.
Bubbles   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

so what should i do.

Have yourself a really good cry!! Be sick for a few days, feel like you are going to die, get a really good pillow to burry yourself in and let it all out. But know in time you will be ok, in fact you will be better off.

He lied, he lied, he lied and he got caught, don't let him lie his way out of this. I am sorry.
Bubbles   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

she is only 19...her heart is going to be broken a few more times

Sad but very true.

Don't waste your time and energy on that.. work on healing your feelings instead

Well said!!
Bubbles   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

I think she should confront him so that they can get it out in the open.

I agreee, she has to confront him... however there is a difference between a confontation and a good bye, then revenge. Every relationship has to have some closure or it will haunt her for ever.
Bubbles   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

(nice to see you back on PF by the way!!)

Good to be back!!

She has got to be dying. But things ALWAYS get better, sometimes it is amazing what comes out of something like this...
Bubbles   
26 Dec 2007
Love / IS MY BOYFRIEND CHEATING? I went to Poland with him. [158]

As bad as it hurts................ you need to just end it. It will save you a lot of pain in the future. Don't be evil and get revenge, be the bigger and better person. You will be glad you did in the future. Take your shattered heart and start the healing process. Just let him go. I am really sorry for you. I am. I know how bad this pain is...

If he is willing to start a new relationship with someone he hasn't even met then what is he willing to do in the future.

I am so sorry Blingin!!!

I hope you find happiness in the future.
Bubbles   
8 Nov 2007
Love / I miss my best friend [22]

Its our 3 year anniversary on the 11th of November, do you think it would be wrong to call her?

Yikes........... what are your intentions here?

If you want to be friends you should be friends and not confuse her anymore. However I kind of get the impression that you miss her deeply. (I understand I really do.) But wanting to call her because it is your anniversary definetly sends a different message.

Love just sucks sometimes. I don't have the answer. I just know that anymore there are more misserable days than good.

It almost makes you not want to open your heart to anyone

Sorry, I am just having a tough day today.

Call her!!! You need to for your own piece of mind!!! Good Luck!!
Bubbles   
6 Nov 2007
Genealogy / Rykowski name [4]

Hello and Giddy Up!!
Bubbles   
6 Nov 2007
Love / I miss my best friend [22]

I can truly feel your pain Dannyboy. I am not polish, but I will give you my female perspective if you would like it.

My guy and i broke up not to long ago due to the same type of situtauion. Pressure more than anything else. It was total heart break for me. I had a hard time even functioning. I really did think I was going to die.

Anyway he contacted me not to long ago just cause he missed me, we are speaking and our friendship is closer than ever. I will be honest we haven't had THE discussion over why things ended and I am kind of reluctant to as it hurts way to much. However he is my best friend and I am thankful to have him in my life again. And who knows. No breath holding here though.

I would contact her without any expectations... just a friendly hello and see where it goes. If she is that hurt, it might not go the way you want, but then at least you know you tried.

Best of luck to you and I hope the heart heals soon. :-D
Bubbles   
31 Oct 2007
Love / My girlfriend thinks she's pregnant! Pomocy!! [75]

Again you won't be the first 21 year old to have a child. And guess what your dad will get over it!!!

Don't freak out. Take it one day at a time.
Bubbles   
31 Oct 2007
Love / My girlfriend thinks she's pregnant! Pomocy!! [75]

agree....but she wont go to doctor....it costs too much and we dont have the money.....she does not believe in home tests and she just wants to wait a couple of months to see what happens...but i cant take the wait and not known.....

That's an issue. Take the test. Wouldn't you want to know now vs a couple of months. Take the test.

not when you are 21...........

You won't be the first 21 year old to have a child. It will be ok
Bubbles   
31 Oct 2007
Love / My girlfriend thinks she's pregnant! Pomocy!! [75]

will it really be ok??!!

Yes it will.

The love of a child can do amazing things to your perspective if that is what has happened. If not plans procede forward.

It will be ok. In fact if you have the right attitude about it this whole thing could be the best thing that ever happened to you no matter how it turns out.