Love / A flying Dutchmen..deep in the Polish forest..... [34]

I know what you're talking about Dutchman but I wouldn't spend 7 years in forest, alone.

I need people around me, I hope not to filll the emptiness in my head but to share my life, interests, to laugh and bank on.

My trick not to get carried away by TV, Internet, people you don't really know but they appear in your life, career, money, buying loads of clothes, gadgets etc is to step back from time to time and ask yourself if this is really what you want or this is really the direction you're willing to go.

I read somewhere that you can compare your life to a bowl full of water, it's usually being moved very often and the water is moving aswell but to keep your life in balance you sometimes need to sit and calm down, go somewhere away from the noise of busy life. It's like you were letting the water quieten and stay clear so you could see in it like in your head what is really good/bad for you.

Or...maybe... I'm just talking rubbish ;) Take care

UK, Ireland / The Problem i have with Culture Differences (UK + Polish) [32]


No, the Polish are not generally unhappy, they just like to complain, that's a very Polish thing, and although I don't like complaining and try to avoid it , I am catching myself doing it from time to time, too.

I can't actually say much about English culture as I am living in Ireland but I see a lot of differences between Irish and Polish people. The Irish are more outgoing, open and more eager to talk to strangers. They generally trust other people more. They're much better at socializing. I don't know why we are so distanced and shy sometimes, really...

Your girlfriend probably calls some of your friends "fake" as there is a small difference in asking "How are you?" in Ireland/UK than in Poland. If a Polish person asks a question in Poland he/she usually expects a longer answer, and that's the way it works. It's not just "How are you?", " I am ok, thanks" thing as here. And in Poland it's not that you ask "how are you" everyone you meet on the street, it's generally related to people you know a bit. That's why "how are you" in Ireland/UK seems a bit fake for Polish people: if you ask everyone and are satisfied with few words answer, it looks like you were actually not caring about it at all. BUT, after some time spent in Ireland I wouldn't say that, I think it's just a cultural difference which doesn't necessary mean Irish/English people are fake or sth.

Life / Polish Men and Fashion [90]

Shelley, the thing u wrote about socks and shorts is sooo true ha ha, some guys even wear socks and sandals which is really killing me!!! And not only me...

But i agree with Matyjasz, the situation is improving.

Life / Why do Poles drink so much? [161]

So maybe lets change the question: why do some people all over the world drink too much? :)

Real Estate / Poland Property...should I be scared [127]


This is a complete nonsense, you have no idea about the real estate market in Warsaw/Kraków...

Life / Why do Poles drink so much? [161]

K, so the figures above are sales, now i understand, thanx.

Life / Why do Poles drink so much? [161]

Wow, i didnt know people drink so much in Luxembourg...interesting

Law / Polish companies *think* they are smart... [29]

Hanke, it happens not only in Poland with foreigners, i am Polish, and when i was studying in France i was sometimes paying more for some services coz i was a foreigner, that was really annoying, some companies should simply realise such practices damage their image...

News / Poland has now 2 presidents? [26]

So how about problems with organising the gay parade in Warsaw a year ago when L. Kaczynski was the mayor of Warsaw (he's now the president but he comes from PiS) ? Or W. Wierzejski (from LPR which is now in coalition with PIS) comparing homosexuals with pedophiles or simply criminals (yep, he said it once) ???

I'm not lesbian or sth I am just trying to know what's THE PROBLEM? Cant we just live in a country where people are normal and tolerant???

I am not talking about concrete actions taken by the government or PiS and parties in coalition with PiS, I am just talking about the atmosphere they create and the opinions they express in the media, do you like it???

News / Poland has now 2 presidents? [26]

And Wujek, what do you think about the moral standards the new government and the majority in the parliament are trying to impose on the Polish society? Should everybody be a catholic, listen to Radio Maryja and not be tolerant of gays...???

Food / Poland's Summertime! Let's BBQ [79]

hahaha, good!

Food / Poland's Summertime! Let's BBQ [79]

Well, od course it happens, but I think it is not very common. You simply have to go to the forest to pick mushrooms with someone who's a bit experienced in it :)

Language / The Value of Movies in Learning Polish [40]


I have to disagree, too.

Life / Tadeusz Kapuscinski, Waldemar Lysiak - book help [10]

Unfortunately I haven't read any book of Wilbur Smith, but maybe someone else can help you? And I've been talking about Ryszard Kapuscinski all the time

Here you have some info from English wikipedia about him:

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ryszard_Kapu%C5%9Bci%C5%84ski

Life / Tadeusz Kapuscinski, Waldemar Lysiak - book help [10]

Yeah, I think it's possible to buy them in English cause Kapuscinski is known not only in Poland, also in Germany and in some other European countries. I reckon his books should be available in English, too.

Life / Tadeusz Kapuscinski, Waldemar Lysiak - book help [10]

Kapuscinski is an author of great travel books, he wrote very good ones about Russia (which is called "Empire", not quite sure about the title in English) and Africa, he has very good knowledge of countries he discribes and a lot of sense of humour, just try it!

Life / Poles need to learn to save! [73]

Nita, arent you a bit too crazy about that idea with papertowels ?