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Joined: 20 Sep 2009 / Male ♂ 		Last Post: 22 Nov 2009
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motoman   
22 Nov 2009
Love / Does a Polish lady expect the guy to make the first move? [6]

I think that maybe you can read in to things a little too much because the girl is Polish.

Forget all the first move stuff, what does it matter? You like her, she likes you so just get on with the start of something good. Take it slow and see how things progress over the next 6 weeks.
motoman   
20 Sep 2009
Love / Broken Heart, An amazing girl from Poland [139]

Never had the blues like this for long time! I have met a few Polish women and I have always liked them. Yeah, there are some nice English girls but to me there is a difference. This one was different. Only knew her about 5 weeks, Pathetic I know. We had a connection, I feel like a mug.
motoman   
20 Sep 2009
Love / Broken Heart, An amazing girl from Poland [139]

I would like to add that she was not married and was in a unhappy relationship that she was going to end when she got back home. So she told me. She could have been telling porkies, guess I will never know.

It does not change anything anyway, but if she was in a happy relationship I would have stayed away full stop.

I am going to just try and move on.....
motoman   
20 Sep 2009
Love / Broken Heart, An amazing girl from Poland [139]

Polish Coffee,

Many still brew it the Polish way by putting a spoonful or two of ground coffee into a glass and filling the vessel up with boiling water.

Nice and strong, but a biscuit would have been nice!

I can not go after this girl, it would be selfish and I do not want to cause her problems. I will just have to move on. Part of me wants to do something but more reasons not too.
motoman   
20 Sep 2009
Love / Broken Heart, An amazing girl from Poland [139]

Krystal

I knew she had a baby and she was in a very unhappy relationship. I am no home breaker so I would not even think of trying to get her to leave and be with me, I would not go chasing her either! What will be will be.

Its just I have feelings that I did not expect, sad and stupid yes. I will get over it.

Experience added.
motoman   
20 Sep 2009
Love / Broken Heart, An amazing girl from Poland [139]

I feel a bit silly writing this. I have NEVER felt like this before and to be honest, not sure what to do.

I met this Polish girl, she was working over here, in the UK. The first time we met I felt a connection. We got talking a few times and I very quickly realised that I was getting feelings for her. I did not tell her this as I did not want to scare her away! Also, she told me she had a boyfriend and baby back in Poland and she was working here to get some money to pay off loan. She said she wanted to leave her boyfriend.

Basically, I knew she was leaving england to go back to Poland in 2 weeks, but when I went to see her, I was told she has gone and not coming back. I was shocked but now I realise how deep my feelings are for her and I never got the chance to tell her how I felt. I really am truly broken hearted and I have never felt like this before. I feel like my heart has been ripped out. I actually feel sick and quite ill. I have no contact number for her and I would not hound her anyway as I am no stalker! I did give her my number but I am not sure if I wrote it down correctly as I thought she would have rang me.

I am stupid, and I know many people may laugh but I just want to know how to move forward now. I am 32 and she is 24.

I feel like all is lost and really very sad, nothing else matters right now and I can;t stop thinking about her. I can not sleep. I can not focus. They say time is a healer and I really hope it is because I feel the lowest I have ever felt.

I want to get my life back together and not sure I have the strength right now.

I would appreciate any help or advice.

Oh, she made me a Polish coffee and I liked it. I will never forget THAT coffee, it was so special as is Anna.