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Jeska   
6 Jul 2007
Love / My Polish boyfriend never says 'l love you' to me, what should i do? [93]

It would seem that he really does love you, he likes to show his feelings through action.. If he's anything like me he won't make any promises that he may not fulfill, so he rather prove himself to you than pour out phrases that could mean a multitude of different things, to different people. Love can be decieving, so, sometimes we like to dig further to reveal the true feelings within, which is great for you and your relationship with him because you need somebody truely in touch with your soul desires.

Please remember some guys only say certain things b/c they feel it's like a way in. Maybe he feels secure enough that he need not say or do certain things b/c he thinks you will not leave him. Don't let him feel any better or more secure about the relationship than you do.
Jeska   
12 Apr 2007
Love / Are all Polish girls skinny? [85]

Jeska...can you please reference this "fact"?

Lol sweetie, I really shouldn't have to. Did you pass 5th grade math course even? But of course, I shouldn't assume...
Jeska   
12 Apr 2007
Love / Are all Polish girls skinny? [85]

Having a fast metabolism will help in keeping you look slim. But, those of you were blessed with a more normal rate of metabolism, consider yourself lucky. It's nicer to be curvier and have the option of working out, dieting (healthfully..) and such than it is to have a celebration over gaining 10lb over a month-2.

Most importantly go out for a walk daily, visit the gym, incorporate vegs and fruits into your diet. No larger than the size of your fist should you need as a daily consumption of meats. Pasta and brown rice for good health and carbs, energy for working out... Drink 8 - 10 glasses of water per day. Water cleanses and replenshes us from the inside out making you look and feel ultimately better than if you only drink when you're thirsty (and by that time you're already dehydrated).

A good friend of mine had an obsession with her body image. After each meal or snack even she would either dance around like a crazy fool, do jumping jacks or take the air-cycle stance and work that a bit. I thought it was rediculous, but years later she's very proud of the way she looks, and who wouldn't be? Years of work into a better state of self has made her confident, attractive, active and very healthy looking.

And do not stop eating or skip breakfasts. Breakfast is the meal which basically strokes your energy source and keeps you going throughout the day. With the lack of nutrients you won't feel able to do the things that your mind and body calls for to look and feel the way that you want to be.

So, just be healthy. Things you want to cut out of your diet are unneccesaries like, soda, orange juice or other sugary and sodium based drinks. Milk is good if you aren't an obsessive-compulsive dairy feind... I try to not drink more than 1-2 glasses per day, and never forget to stay hydrated with water all throughout the day. No one needs pastries, sweets, fatty treats, too much pizza or pastas, too much ice cream or brownies. For breakfast try wheaties or cheerios with fruits. I'm partial to Honey Bunches of Oats. It's not only delicious but is chalk full of heart-healthy goodies.

Key word for weight-loss is discipline, not obsession. If you focus on how you look too much you will loose sight of what it is like to feel good. You want to be healthy not sluggish and horse-drawn.
Jeska   
12 Apr 2007
Love / im falling in love with a polish girl ive only just met [13]

Also, don't try to be a 'loving wimp' - I think few women like it when their partner shows too much of a feminine side. Stand by your beliefs. Good luck!

You can pour out your emotional side when the time calls for it, like, some people are clearly put off by so much emotional intensity when you're just getting familiar with the feel of the ball in your hands, you throw a little too hard or soft and you may not land a second date.

It's a matter of compatibility. Most importantly stick to your guns. Be you and the right one will like you for who you are. But on showing your real feelings, well definitely wait until she is ready to hear about it. Some people are rather sketchy when it comes to it. I prefer a guy to get to know me before he tells me he loves me. You can think you love someone because of their basic image, or even personal aura but these things will change over time. The core of us hardly changes at all. Getting in touch with that side of a person is the real test.
Jeska   
27 Mar 2007
Love / Discussion about Polish Men's Tempers [103]

Sweetie let me tell you this will only get worse. You are in a bad position now and you have all the freedom to make the best decision for you and your future. If you don't leave him, you need to at least expect the most gruesome and cruel of behaviour possible of a human.

He may or may not have enjoyed it, but he definately was out of control, and all sorts of horrible things can happen when ppl lose their senses. I have a girl friend even who is abusive toward her boyfriend, and she says she is not even thinking when she goes into attack mode, she is only driven to destroy and cause horrible suffering and pain. Really she just need a punching bag and an occasional glass of wine, a bit of therapy and good friends. Maybe she ought to find God, but the very last thing abusers need is an enabler. Sometimes it is the last thing they get 'til they are either killed themselves or put in jail for life sentence.
Jeska   
13 Mar 2007
Love / Gift for Polish girls - question [56]

Think about things that will make her look and feel good/better!! Like jewelry, nice clothes she's been fantasizing over, shoes, lingerie (very nice pieces), expensive chocolate, perfum, fine wine, or other lusty delectables... flowers (try to be imaginative - put together something less conventional, and still classy)...

As for jewelry, you can never go wrong with the classic 14k gold or some other sort of diamond-esqe adornments. If you know what she likes that would help, yes?