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Polish guy broke this black womans heart, now he wants me back....what do I do?? [27]
HI,
i am not from Poland - i am from Russia. But men here and there are really similar .
Your story is a tipycal love story with slovenian man.
OF COURSE !!!! we can not put ALL men in "one shoe" - but here we are speaking about things that is "normal" for "our" men. I can not say anything about intimate life - its just between you two, but the way he treats you - i recognise my russian ex -husband and husbands of many of my girlfriends. For me such kind of thingd doesn't sound strange. Another story, that i can not accept it. Did you ever asked why so many men in USA are looking for West Europenian/Russian wives ? Cause the are ready to give, ready to take FULL care of man, house, future ,etc etc etc . That'a why West Europenian- Russian men behave that way. Of course , i will tell one more time - not all men are same !!! As well important family education - by the way , did you ever met his parents ? -important age - young people are more flexible, important level of life etc.....
About your conflicts. I had some funny moments with that.
Its a game. Woman says- i split up with you !!!! Man cries, run after her, promice love for ever, change everything ang bring the full moon from the sky. He as well can write sad poems, sing under ur window, send you sad letter or blackmail you- he will kill his self - depence of how many talents he got.
After that woman with her big loving heart forgives him. For some time he is sweet and nice - but at the end he comeback to his usual behaving. Means if you want to see your boyfriend nice - you must ALLWAYS play this game. This men likes woman who makes them suffer , have this sharp emotions, etc etc . It is nice in first year. But later, believe me - its not funny any more . You choice ONE MAN from billions of men and you must all the time play games with him. \
I can not menage this kind of relation. I think its important to help eath other, support, cover from problems and respect your partner.
Sorry, maybe its sound painfull -but it was no respect from his side. Slovenian men in general doesn't respect women (in general!!!!! but NOT all of them !!!!!)
So .... the choice is yours.
PS sorry for long comment and terrible English.
Wish all the best you just deserve !!!!
