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morella   
21 May 2009
Life / Does Marriage with Non EU citizen cause loosing health İnsurance for polish ? [6]

Morrella, why doesn't your girlfriend just ask her parents if they will be willing to continue to pay private health insurance after she marries or will they expect her huband to pay for it for her.

I m asking how is the health insurance system works there.will she loose it automatically by marridge or not?

Probably because your post is not very clear, I am not sure I understand exactly what you are asking. You haven't made it clear (at least to me) if your fiancee's insurance is private insurance or through ZUS.

Her insurance is through ZUS.

Ok ı will try to make it more clear ;

1- She is not working. She has ZUS through parents.will her marridge cause her loosing this ZUS automatically?

2-İn Turkey if one of the spouses is under insurance, the other has it through him/her too.İs there sthg like that in Poland? İf ı pay for ZUS after marridge will she have it too without paying ? or we have to pay for 2?
morella   
21 May 2009
Life / Does Marriage with Non EU citizen cause loosing health İnsurance for polish ? [6]

My polish fiancee has health insurance.She has it coz of her parents.She is 26 and studying univ.I m Non EU citizen.When she marries me, will this marridge cause her loosing her insurance? İf marriage cause the lost, then only my payment for my ZUS altough ı dont have a job at the moment will help her getting the insurance again after marridge? any ideas?

isnt there any reply yet? sorry for putting this title in Polish Sports part mistakenly.
morella   
16 May 2009
Life / Buying monthly food service in Poland? [4]

İs there a possibility to find somebody who will cook lunch and dinner for 2 people in Poland?İt will be homemade food..and will be paid to the cook of course...I m expecting to find somebody in Katowice...and if it is possible, how much should be paid per month u think?
morella   
16 May 2009
Law / Need help about an invitation letter from my Polish friend [9]

if u will be invited by a polish citizen for the first time, it has to be official. She/He will go to the governorship of his/her city and will apply for the invitation there.They will need your passport's serial number, your adress, date of birth....İf same person will invite u again after the first visit then the she can prepare the invitation letter on her own, she doesnt need to go to the office again.As I know with invitation u can stay in Poland up to 3 months.
morella   
2 Jan 2009
Law / Marriage Procedure in Poland [56]

I need information about the marridge procedure in Poland.I m Turkish and I want to marry in Poland with Polish fiancee.

1- Do I have to apply personally with my documents at the beginning or she can start the procedure alone if ı send her my documents via mail?

2- After the application with all documents, how long does it take us to get a specific marriage date?

3-After the marriage, how long does it take me to get a temporary/permanent stay visa and what about work permit? As I heard ı will be given a temporary stay visa first is that right?

4-Should I enter Poland with a tourist visa (valid for 3 months) or is there another kind of visa for marriage purpose?
morella   
31 Dec 2008
Work / Poznan - Career Path [22]

The ones who r native speakers of English r very lucky.They can find job wherever they want in this world without any extra skill except speaking english..so dont worry for sure u will find sthg.
morella   
29 Dec 2008
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

I'm not Turkish...

I am from Bangladesh.

Wow, I m surprised..I see that asians r same more or less ;)

SHELLY: I can understand why you hate Muslim or Pakistani

How did u figure out that he/she hates Muslim or Pakistani, she/he didnt say anything like that, she/he just shared her/his opinions about the topic.
morella   
29 Dec 2008
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

I made my comment about the specific issue.I adviced the guy to break up with the girl and continue happy life with parents.Or choose girl and live abroad away from country & family.No other solution is available for his situation.I didnt do generalization, ı just said the reasons why a family behaves like that to be able to support my advice, ı put my proof on table :)

generalization won't help people to know what is good and it leads people to wrong directions like racism.

So to avoid Racism we should keep hiding our bad sides or discuss on them and try to change them?
morella   
29 Dec 2008
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

just don't perceive Turkey as being a "poor" country, I've only visited once but found it an easy place, you know we even have poverty in the UK and people have hard lives, it's no different.(

I didnt say Turkey is a poor country.Of course it is a super power when u compare with Irak, Pakistan, Afghanistan, or any african country :D But infact it is as rich as Poland. :) Like every polish youth who wants to move UK or USA, Turks dream it too :)

And the problem of lovewithpolish is not his family. There is even no pressure as he even haven't told the situation to his family.

What is my comments connection with being unrespectful? When people change others religions by force it is respectful but when ı tell the reality is it unrespectful? And what is my point of view? İf u noticed at the beginning I told that, it is a middle anatolian turkish style what the guy told us.So I m commenting here about undeveloped parts of turkey and conservative parts.and the only city which doesnt suit this crieteria is İstanbul,and a little bit İzmir :)

Good that u showed another common property of turks that İn Website forums we cant stop arguing eachother :D coz we cant stand opposite thoughts :).

Yeah, the guy hasnt told his parents that he is with a polish girl yet.İt is more pathetic situation than we discuss.Because of pressure he cant even tell them.
morella   
29 Dec 2008
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

And ı have to add one more thing, except the 3rd 4th generation turks who borned abroad, The Turks who moved to Europe has one common thought/dream/plan stocking money as much as they can or retiring abroad with a good pension then turning back to Turkey one day. :) They even dont think to live abroad, they dont have fun of exploring a new culture. And this way of thinking cause problems like Adaptation.
morella   
29 Dec 2008
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

I am honestly quite surprised I actually didn't realise that Turkish people practiced "arranged marriages" anymore.

I will try to explain u the reasons of it.But I m not sure if ı can manage to explain well, coz u have to be turkish to understand :) The mentality is difficult for a foreigner to understand

- First of all exporting wife/husband to Europe is a way of escaping from Unemployment in Turkey, and the only and the easiest way for the person to get visa to Europe.

- Second, Turkish families prefer marridges with relatives or at least with people from same town, same city..the reasons of this can be very different.One of them they may think they can get on well better with people from the same surrounding..another profitable reason , they think the money they earn or the heritage they will get wont be divided with strangers :D, or in holidays the couple will go same city to visit parents they wont argue whose parents they will visit in this holiday coz they r not from different cities :D, I can count u 100 turkish reasons..

No, converting religion isnt my condition and it wont be.She will stay christian till ever if she wants it.
morella   
29 Dec 2008
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

I m almost sure that he is Turkish :) I m waiting for his reply.

I see you are married or marrying a Polish girl - how did your parents take it - or are they "modern" mulsims :-D.

As you said it is a cultural thing, I feel that the more educated the family the less problems they have with cross cultural marriages, the problem with the less educated is they cannot see further than the end of the village and also there is the chain immigration - marrying someone from "back home" takes another family member over to europe...and this is more a Pakistani thing or do Turkish famlies living abroad often send "back home" for a wife or husband?

Hahaaaa, Bingo ! yeah ı m going to marry a polish girl soon :) yeah me and my family are ''Modern Muslim'' :D. U gave the answer already yeah, it all depends education level of the family members.We didnt have such problems as the guy mentioned.But many turkish families r like his family.So I can understand his situation clearly. And yes exporting husband or Wife to Europe is a pure Turkish way :D when u check the turkish immigrants in Europe(Germany,France,Belgium..) u will notice the people r all coming from same cities, towns, and families :) there r some towns in Turkey, exporting husband/wife to Belgium, some towns to Germany, some to France..:D as u see it is not only Pakistani way.

I am also Turkish and Muslim and In our country it is even hard to impose a local girl from different lifestyle to the family. But If you are decisive enough and capable of making your decisions In most cases it won't be a problem.

Mephias, Do u really believe what u said?:) You know the reality as well as me.There r families u can never ever persuade for such marridge.

Yeah, u can persuade some families with a condition '' wife will convert religion to İslam'' . :) Really Funny!
morella   
29 Dec 2008
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

haha..nice comment Shelleys, I agree with all what u said.

He used the term ''modern muslim'' :D this is a term used in Turkey very often lately, thats why I asked him if he is a Turkish or not.And the family behaviour he described is a typical Middle Anatolian Turkish style :).

I suppose, he meaned with that ''Modern Muslim'' term; yeah he drinks,smokes,having sex out of marridge, go mosque to pray very rarely or on special days only or he never goes..ı can advice this guy only to make a choice btw The girl or the Family.There is no alternative solution.İf u choose The Girl then u have to live abroad.Coz u wont be able to stand the pressure on u in your country.

İn coclusion I would like to say, İslam & Christianity are all same.But the customs and traditions create the huge differences btw them.So this guys problem isnt created by religion (İslam).The main reason is the tradition,customs in his country which makes pressure on him.
morella   
7 Sep 2008
News / Gold Prices in Poland? [17]

Can somebody tell me a website about the gold prices in Poland per 1 Gram? 22 K, 24 K gold prices ı m trying to find since hours but couldnt discover any website about it.
morella   
19 Jun 2008
Law / Some questions about running a Hostel in Krakow [28]

morella, are you looking for a 10 year rent agreement for a hostel or to buy a place?

I am planning about a hostel which is rented for the beginning Sean..I dont have enough capital to buy it at the beginning:(
morella   
19 Jun 2008
Law / Some questions about running a Hostel in Krakow [28]

Yes ı didnt understand the situation clearly either.I wrote above what the guy said me exactly..I may send him another email for detailed information..I m from Turkey Sean and planning to move Poland max.in 1 year.