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Joined: 20 Oct 2008 / Male ♂ 		Last Post: 1 May 2010
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Arien   
4 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

She is right. Kids should be the center of every parent's world.

True. (But maybe you can agree with me that she made it sound like guys are worthless?) You've worded it better. I mean, imagine I would say something like: They are worth more than any girl, they are your life. I'm sure you know what I mean.

;)

If you have kids and divorce your spouse, you shouldn't neglect them just because you are busy looking for someone else.

Absolutely.

I saw at the store, a woman with a small child and a new boyfriend and the boyfriend was being mean to her child. I think women should dump men who are like this.

It wouldnt double if most couples only had one or two children, which is becoming more and more common.

I hope so, I know it'll save future generations a lot of mess.

I certainly wouldnt want to have any more than two. Its becoming a financial risk to have one let alone three or four.

Oh, I hear you!

;)
Arien   
4 Nov 2009
Love / Polish girls lying [193]

Okay, that's understandable. I will say something in defense of the guys aswell, because I'm sure you're aware of the fact that some children can be pretty nasty towards a new dad or a new mom aswell? (It's no excuse for cruel behaviour though!)

I agree that parents, including new boyfriends or girlfriends should always treat a child with love and care though. No doubts there. I wouldn't accept a partner who treated my children like garbage either! (But ofcourse there's a huge difference between a moment of frustration and frequent abuse!)

It depends on the situation.

Well, I meant guy as in father of her child in a healthy relationship. It just came across a bit like worthless guys in general, if you get my drift.. (No offense!)

;)
Arien   
7 Nov 2009
News / 14 year old rape victim from Warsaw denied abortion! [348]

Have you bought any prams/strollers for your embryo 'person?'.

If an embryo is a person, would a spermcell also be a person? If that's the case, then I'm afraid I'm a mass-murderer!

:O
Arien   
7 Nov 2009
Love / Personal issues with two women, they want to be my friend - a Polish thing? [49]

I wouldn't dream of phoning up a young woman to tell her I'm lonely

Why not? Maybe she's dreaming about you phoning her up to tell her that you're lonely? I can't see anything wrong with that?

You go boy! (Geez, I wish I was that unlucky!)

;)

And if they still cross it you have to take appropriate actions to make it stop.

Yeah, then you have to pick one, and have lots of fun together! Such terrible dilemma's you guys have to deal with! Wow.. I wouldn't want to be in your shoes, really! Nevermind me though, I probably just don't get it?

;)
Arien   
7 Nov 2009
Love / Personal issues with two women, they want to be my friend - a Polish thing? [49]

Seanus

Well, I suppose you're the man with experience, so he should listen to you, but whatever you meant to say was too complicated for me at the moment. Angel - Devil situation here?

:)

A-J (Angel - Seanus: 1 Devil - Arien: 0)

..but you know you wanna have fun with those girls!
Arien   
7 Nov 2009
Love / Personal issues with two women, they want to be my friend - a Polish thing? [49]

Permanence is key and there are too many players on this or that chemical these days.

..atleast they don't destroy your heart?

:|

Girls call you up and tell you that they miss you and you are still wondering what they want? Shall I draw you a map?

I'm going to have to agree with you for once, because I'm a simpleton.

:)
Arien   
7 Nov 2009
Love / Love my polish girlfriend alot but under pressure from family [166]

I've heard this phrase once, and although I didn't understand it back then, I do now..

''Don't desire what you can't have.''

:)

Hope it'll help you. (It's a bit cryptic, but it's true!) You should forget about the ones you want to have, and think about the ones who want to have you..

;)
Arien   
7 Nov 2009
News / JEW YOUTH SHOULD CLEAN UP THEIR ACT IN POLAND [420]

Unfortunately the New Testament that is full of hate towards the Jews

That whole book is full of hatred. If you can't see this, you're blind. If you want to believe in God, then believe in love, not listen to hatred. If you want to be Atheïst. Also good, just be okay person. Good enough.

:)

So just shut up about Jew youth and Polish youth and whatever, (Not directing at you, no worry!) we're all people. End. Period. Simple.
Arien   
8 Nov 2009
Love / Do not marry Polish woman [212]

You know, I once worked with a Polish girl called Sabine. She had cramps one day, and I told her that is was okay to take a day off, and that I would make sure she would keep the job so if she was worried about that she didn't have to! (I knew the boss, local, and a friend of mine.)

She refused a dozen times, and I let her. She then nearly collapsed a few times, and she had to run to the toilet to throw up a few times. She came back, I told her she should go home and take some rest. She refused again! I got angry and lifted her up, and drove her to her Bungalow, and said she would stay there for atleast two days!

She really thought she would lose her job or something, and I left her crying. (I wasn't sorry!)

After those days she came back to work. She had went to the doctor and she had something serious. She worked there 5 hours, and I can tell you most people would've stayed at home. (Even men!)

My point? She did work most girls wouldn't do. She worked for her own money. She even did the work when she should've been in bed, sick. I respect such girls, and I've met a lot of those girls.

So all your proof and pictures (Not accusing you or anything, but for all I know those girls in the pictures could be your nieces or cousins! Or some other picture you've jacked off the net somewhere!) and claims about how most Polish girls are golddiggers don't exactly move me.

;)

In short, I happen to know better.
Arien   
8 Nov 2009
Love / Do not marry Polish woman [212]

Not most.Some of them are.(20-30%).

Okay, 20-30% could be a realistic figure among young girls, but then again it doesn't have to do much with the fact that they're Polish..

;)

i have always told bosses/directors to give them double salary than guys get.

I'm happy if they earn the same. (Which she did!)

:)
Arien   
8 Nov 2009
Love / Do not marry Polish woman [212]

I'd say that's pretty foolish of him, even if she was beautiful. You should be with someone who wants to be with you.

If it's only about money, or if you're looking for a wild night then you really don't have to spend thousands! I'm not really selfish, and ofcourse I don't know how much exactly your friend earns, but I know that 10.000 € (Taxed!) would be how much the average girl here would earn from a year's work. (Maybe a little less, and in some cases, a little more, only talking about the average here!)

So spending 10.000 € on my girlfriend? Maybe if I earn 80.000 € a year!

;)

he even paid for her boyfriend to come

Nuts!
Arien   
9 Nov 2009
Love / Do not marry Polish woman [212]

I think you need a slavic woman to bang your brains out.

I wouldn't mind. (At all!)

:)

i been carrying this brain for ages and seeing useless at all.

You know, too much thinking isn't always good for you. Sometimes you'll just have to act, do, enjoy, learn, and not ask too many questions. Just let your feelings wander and experience..

That's life, and a book can't predict your life, or even determine what will happen throughout yours. You know, it takes two to Tango, and you won't always have it your way..

;)
Arien   
9 Nov 2009
Love / Do not marry Polish woman [212]

I'll give you very realistic advice then, without sounding too complicated. If you're looking for love then don't look for it untill you really feel something for someone. If you're looking for love, then make sure you have what it takes to care for her. First, do these things for yourself, and have fun, and she'll be there eventually.

A woman needs and wants things like security, a future, stability and safety. Maybe she even wants children. Think about it, if you have zero money, could you offer her any of this? (Don't blame her for this, because life isn't always a fairytale, and things like work and a decent meal on the table are important!)

Unless there's a girl out there who wouldn't mind a poor guy, maybe even a rich girl or woman who doesn't need this type of security from you, and if she really likes you for who you are that much, I think you'll have to make up your mind about your priorities and take your responsibilities as a man.. (It's your own choice though, I'm not forcing anyone or dictating it as a must!)

If you're looking for a wild night, you don't always need money to take her home, atleast, you don't have to be rich or whatever. (Only humourless guys who don't really know how to talk to women need things like money!) You'll have to find out your own approach, and do what feels right for you.

:)

brain still can do anything to find a woman for love?

Hey, having character, personality and intelligence always help, but you should remember girls are more about feelings.

;)
Arien   
9 Nov 2009
Life / What are people in Poland REALLY saying about 'swine flu'? [41]

I'm interested to know what the ordinary person on the Polish street is thinking about swine flu.

I'll ask around if no one here manages to satisfy your curiousity. (It so happens to be that a lot of ordinary Polish people live and work in my area, about 40.000!) I bet they're going to say the same though!

:)
Arien   
9 Nov 2009
Love / Do not marry Polish woman [212]

so, with zero money, can we say this it is impossible to find even one woman?

You could find love with no money at all, but you'll have to possess other qualities, skills and talents.. (And an adventurous attitude!) If you like some Asian women, African women, Indian women.. Amish girls, Gypsy girls or even travelling hippies, who knows you might find the love of your life?

I'm sure I haven't mentioned all of the options, but maybe you should know that there also places where people work in self-sustaining or self-relying communities. (Just trying to tell you it's possible!)

so, no cure, no remedy to me?

Yes, the cure would be to get of your butt, and work for yourself to begin with, so you can try to realize your own goals. (For some girls, it's not all about the money, but more likely about the fact that you can be there, and that they can rely on you when they need you the most!)

;)