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Joined: 15 Sep 2008 / Male ♂
Last Post: 23 Dec 2008
Threads: Total: 2 / In This Archive: 2
Posts: Total: 30 / In This Archive: 28
From: england,southampton
Speaks Polish?: no
Interests: polish lady's and football

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helghast   
15 Sep 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

hi im 20 years old from the uk. there's a 22year old polish girl at work. we work for asda and i only recently started talking to her. (about a month) i joke with her and talk alot and get in trouble :P today at work i was in a freinds asle talking and she came in wanting something and i joked and she walked past and like done somthing to my neck like a gentle push or something. she has a boyfreind but said its complicated but i think something could happen. so is there any tips people can give please?

thanks
helghast   
15 Sep 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

so continue to the way iam? i walked her home as she lived near me. little did i know she USED to live near me and i went 25mins out of my way but i still had a nice convo with her. she was intrested that i might have a car if i pass my test in 3weeks.
helghast   
15 Sep 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

from the back like a really gentle push id duno how she did as i couldnt see :P but i know it was gentle felt like she didnt know what to do so just nudged me instead. sorry just hard to describe it.
helghast   
15 Sep 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

i dont mind bein hurt not end of world. but i feel as tho something could happen. as she said its complicated story between her and her boyfreind who also lives in uk. but what does this push thingy she did mean tho? ill take things slow but want to go in the right direction in dating and making her my girlfreind if i can. just likes of me saying i allmost driving sparked her and she made intrest in that so i duno i hope things will go to plan ( me and her happy together )
helghast   
15 Sep 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

thanks for the adivce people. lot of mixed veiw's. so my choice

to carry on way i am and just let things take it course. as i wasnt really goin in for the kill i was just joking around like you usally do with new people to make them feel comfetable. if we date then we date but we dont then no hard feelings as i not falling fer her... YET hahaha but yea thanks for reply's
helghast   
16 Sep 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

no not really just when i said i might be driving soon her eyebrow raised as in 'cool' but i was talking to her with my other foreign freind from africa and i said to him we go for drive IF i pass then i asked her if she liked to. and she replyed goin all shy yea ok. so i just hope to god god i pass not only for that but for job reasons aswell
helghast   
17 Sep 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

if ya all taking the **** out of me then keep ya mouths shut! I was only asking for advice on dating a foreign girl. I can get myself eng girls but i like polish as eng girls go for anything. And no i not retarded shelleys and i havent hit the credit crunch. Bargain bucket or nandos may be your choice mrbubbles but i go higher like fancy restraunts and arrive in a 2.2 vauxhall astra sri so if your all gona come on here and mock me then dont bother im still young and learning but many thanks to shewolf for helping.
helghast   
17 Sep 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

wasnt trying to say that JUSTYSIAS lol just polish act diff to eng woman like quite or shy but yea thanks and will keep to freinds :) better to be freinds then to be hated. Thanks again
helghast   
17 Sep 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

if i wanted stupid replys like yours or a comedian i would of posted on a lee evans site. Stop with the sarcky posts ok?
helghast   
4 Oct 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

ok.
I asked her for a drink last week and she said 'sure why not' was suprised as i thought she would say no or make excuse. Got her number and talk to her everyday. Think she like me as friend then boyfriend but iam ok with that. Rarther we dating but way it goes. So just waiting for friday now 4 are drink and maybe i get signs if she like/dislike me. Thats it really sure u all get kick outta this but i dont care as i dont know so...
helghast   
5 Oct 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

was txting her for 2hours last night and got into convo about me n her. She said she aint type of girl for me and i dont know her. Yet i kinda do. And she said her life complicated and turns out are lives similier. I.e my last girl was just like her but english but she had problems. Her dad passed away the her nan in 1month and it got to her and said she cant live without them next day was her birthday 18 years old went round with prezzie and there she was hangin from a rope with a letter saying she sorry and loved me. Now with polish girl is just same and tha she told me she happy with her boyfriend and still be friends and go for drink still but i dont know if i want to now. As she gave signs out as if she were single and liked me. I should of seen this would happen ages ago yet a kept tell myself and people around me also said i may stand a chance. Im REALLY REALLY GUTTED but i cant force her to date me so my search continues :( wish i knew fluent polish so i really explain my feeling for her
helghast   
5 Oct 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

i cant qoute as im on mobile phone.

But kameron your spot on. Everything you said is like you are at both ends telling us what to say but spooky to read lol. Like i feel used in a way but i said after 2night i wont sms her no more and i wont c her for 2wks as i off holiday. So i wont interact with her 2night. Im gona chill out and empty my head and prepare for my dri

Ing test friday. Listen to music. Thanks for advice lady n gents shamefully tho nothing good come of it. Mate said keep on her as i still stand chance. But i dont so i give up. So thanks again :)

hi people :)

i work for company at called asda doin nights for the xmas period stackking shelfs. whilst working there i noticed a nice polish girl whom i liked and was very intrested in. few months back i started talking to her alot and found out she had a boyfriend which i was ok about. tho we went out for a drink 2x. we had each other's number's by then and was txting each other quite alot (40-50 aday) untill one night she split with her bf and she never spoke to me the whoale night. and i didnt like it when we no speak to each other. next morning a gave her a sms to see how she was and we talked about the situation. her bf split with her and she wanted to split with him anyways, and she say that he done this 10x before but want back. (he also cheated on her) now at work i got the feeling she gave me the IM SINGLE NOW COME GET ME signals so i brought this. now before we met (im 20 she 22) i was a very quite lad never went out much due to personal reason's. but after i go with her 2x i become a better person. im more active im more talkative and more confident becouse of her. i found it hard to get her on another night out or get more then 10 sms out of her a week. i told her i like her before work one night in a email and asked if it would go further. but i got no reply :/

but on sunday 23rd november i found out that she had gone back with her bf. now when i asked her portuguese friend who very lovely girl if true and she say yes. and i also found out that in the first place i was part of the reason they had split as he see 1of my sms on her phone. now she didnt tell me this and i felt angry,sad,guitly in 1go. i was mixed reactions to it. was angry she never told me anything (tho she didnt have to) sad they back together and even more so guitly that i was part of it :( so i sent her (polsih girl) a email saying that i was very sorry that this happend and wouldnt sms her no more if it gets her in trouble unless she wanted me to keep sms. i also said i think her bf a silly boy for dumping her and wanting back all the time. and also sad that me n her didnt become boyfriend and girlfriend as i would treated her much better and said i thought we make good couple. also said talking to her made me happy which it did. she replyed with she understand msg and wanted speak at work.and said sweet dreams ( we say this when go sleep after work at 6am) but last night she never spoke to me at all not on break not nothing i didnt attepmt as she done this before. i smile and she smile back but lil bit tho. so i ask her friend to have lil word with her on way home this morn and i show her the msg and she say it lil deep which i agree but she say it weird that she wont sms now she with bf. what shall i do? should i carry on be friends with her or what? i mean like her so much i got in trouble speaking to her too much. i tryed learn polish. i changed the way i act. basiclly im diff person. im mad at her for making me beleive she was intrested and wanted to go further tho i dont know if she did or not. i duno if true but i heard she likes me but when we go out i was quite. which i agree as it was hard for me not been out for drink since 18th and go out for 1st time in 2years with somebody i only met month ago ( now 2months). im gutted i really am gutted but i want keep her as friend but at the min untill i find out whats wrong i just want to leave the work place and get new job. how i feel as i cant stand now talking to her not sms her. drives me nuts! all i do is think about how cool she is n stuff but i got get this out of mind now :/ sorry if this sounds dull boring and stupid but i need thoughts on i can do next as i got noboddy i can trust to talk to. i dont trust nobody at work at th minute.

thanks for time :) hope you can help me make the right choice
helghast   
13 Nov 2008
Genealogy / 20 y/o female (pics & summary) trying to clarify my polish heritage [26]

@nikkifl07

do you get called polish?

not taking the **** or anything as im born n bread english tho i have had fair few polish people at work and random people speak to me in polish. and you do actually look slightly polski as we have plenty roaming around and when you see enough of em you can tell who eng and who polski. as polski lot more good looking thats for sure

good luck finding out :)
helghast   
25 Nov 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

desperate is kinda harsh mate lol but i rarther be my friend then nothing at all. like i say tp her friend im not out to hurt noboddy i just done what any other male would do. i didnt think OH SHE LEFT HIM NOW I GO IN FOR THE KILL was nothing like this. just i maybe got the wrong end of the stick. whats made me more sad is her friend noticed we was getting along well and thought of an idea were me polsih girl her friend n her bf got out for drink but as she went to ask polish girl is day she found out they back together. tbh i still think we could date if ig to 2nd chance and with lil help from herfriend but im gona let things go as they are now as i cuased trouble when i didnt mean too :/ no matterwhat i want her as my friend or girlfriend with friend being the only option now. :(

man i sound like a man pouring his heart out to random people. haha
helghast   
25 Nov 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

im english and i dont see it as a problem else she wouldnt go for drink or anything would she? yea i wrote a long post but its better you get the full story then some of it. like i said i got noboddy to talk to as everybody i know seems to be backstabbing me at the moment. so i counting on a bunch of people i dont know to give advice so id appreciate if you keep stupid post's to yourselfs. not that im accusing anybody of doin so but this fireif could be a joke i wouldnt understand.
helghast   
26 Nov 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

ok :) i over this now i face facts. i now happy becouse i know she like me but i quite when we go drink. but i like this becouse it new person and long time i go drink with sombody 1 on 1. normally it be in loud place were you cant hear or talk haha. i sorry wasting people time and sound ******* idiot. i re-read what i posted and its stupid what i say. but i stay friends with her and maybe oneday something happen.
helghast   
26 Nov 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

Are you really English? You are writing like a foreigner,

yea im english but were she speak like that and i try to put my words as simple as i can i typed like she does and now its rubbed off onto me and now n then i it like that lol.

and yea when people like another person you kinda act weird n want be with them as now i stand back and relise how much an ass i been and said. i know this weird but i bought good luck chuck and i relised that near the end when he find his girl it matchs up watch if you havent done so. he finds out she got date so he act weird to keep her. but yea im shut up now i know what i did n said wrong
helghast   
26 Nov 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

admin please deleate had enough peple on this site. and deleate my account. ask for help and get ripped up. wish i never come on this stupid ass site now.
helghast   
26 Nov 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

Are you by any chance A little bit dyslexic ?

little bit yea but why you ask ?
helghast   
26 Nov 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

i dont regret it, its the people who make stupid remarks that make me regret i came here for help.

@lir- none taken thanks for your help. but people see a long post dont read it all and think OOOOO ANOTHER PERSON TO TAKE **** OUT OF. been about 4-5 people who helped out and others who just took ****
helghast   
26 Nov 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

yea but its nice if there like you and say on the side the crappy remarks but keep it nice post. otherwise other people get involved and do same. like with you, you put it in nice way and then put on the side not bein nasty which makes me think ok cool this person seems nice enough trying to help and not bein a idiot about it. wish more people like you and sausage on here be much better.

and im going to learn polish as there beautiful woman and sound so nice when they speak.its tough to learn, more on the pronunciation side. i accepted the facts im ok with it now and will stay friends maybe oneday something will happen? but in mean time i focus on other things.

you came on a site asking for opinions from total strangers... you got them. just because their opinions on your situation dont agree with what you wanted to hear, is no reason to be getting all nasty.

i know i did but im not getting nasty im getting angry with the people who stupid reply's. i got nobody to turn to at the moment of time as things aint to good and i dont want to explain
helghast   
20 Dec 2008
Love / polish boyfriend has wrecked my english [48]

okay, so my boyfriend is polish and has been living in england for two years. He arrived only knowing how to say hello but after one year he could already speak fluent english. The only problem is the sentence structures. i go to the shops becomes i be go to the shop... and with all the time i nspend with him i've picked up this. I find this very weird considering i have spoke english all my life.. Is this normal or am i just a freak?

i get this also. while and still chatting up polish girl i like we sms ALOT i mean i had deleate my inbox and there was 697, 600 bein from her! i noticed i speak like her now and then. really is weird like a rub off effect
helghast   
20 Dec 2008
Love / polish boyfriend has wrecked my english [48]

i know you didnt :) but thats what 600 sms to her does to me. it just kicks in and i dont relise it. untill somebody like you spots it
helghast   
23 Dec 2008
Language / Is is possible for me to learn basic Polish in just two weeks? [22]

is it possiable for me an 20 year old english lad to learn and speak some polish like the basics in 2weeks? if so can people re0direct me to pages please :) as all i know now is

jak sie masz - how are you
dobrze - good
sypka - faster

i also play games so i think im gona change my settings to polish if its a option so i learn more
helghast   
23 Dec 2008
Language / Is is possible for me to learn basic Polish in just two weeks? [22]

she did yea but i couldnt remember the spelling's to them. and she not from the city from small village. she's away for xmas and new year and i want to impress her the faster comment is just something silly we have as we work together so we joke around by saying that but i want learn more polish to impress her and surprise her. any sites recomended?