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help dating polish lady [78]
i cant qoute as im on mobile phone.
But kameron your spot on. Everything you said is like you are at both ends telling us what to say but spooky to read lol. Like i feel used in a way but i said after 2night i wont sms her no more and i wont c her for 2wks as i off holiday. So i wont interact with her 2night. Im gona chill out and empty my head and prepare for my dri
Ing test friday. Listen to music. Thanks for advice lady n gents shamefully tho nothing good come of it. Mate said keep on her as i still stand chance. But i dont so i give up. So thanks again :)
hi people :)
i work for company at called asda doin nights for the xmas period stackking shelfs. whilst working there i noticed a nice polish girl whom i liked and was very intrested in. few months back i started talking to her alot and found out she had a boyfriend which i was ok about. tho we went out for a drink 2x. we had each other's number's by then and was txting each other quite alot (40-50 aday) untill one night she split with her bf and she never spoke to me the whoale night. and i didnt like it when we no speak to each other. next morning a gave her a sms to see how she was and we talked about the situation. her bf split with her and she wanted to split with him anyways, and she say that he done this 10x before but want back. (he also cheated on her) now at work i got the feeling she gave me the IM SINGLE NOW COME GET ME signals so i brought this. now before we met (im 20 she 22) i was a very quite lad never went out much due to personal reason's. but after i go with her 2x i become a better person. im more active im more talkative and more confident becouse of her. i found it hard to get her on another night out or get more then 10 sms out of her a week. i told her i like her before work one night in a email and asked if it would go further. but i got no reply :/
but on sunday 23rd november i found out that she had gone back with her bf. now when i asked her portuguese friend who very lovely girl if true and she say yes. and i also found out that in the first place i was part of the reason they had split as he see 1of my sms on her phone. now she didnt tell me this and i felt angry,sad,guitly in 1go. i was mixed reactions to it. was angry she never told me anything (tho she didnt have to) sad they back together and even more so guitly that i was part of it :( so i sent her (polsih girl) a email saying that i was very sorry that this happend and wouldnt sms her no more if it gets her in trouble unless she wanted me to keep sms. i also said i think her bf a silly boy for dumping her and wanting back all the time. and also sad that me n her didnt become boyfriend and girlfriend as i would treated her much better and said i thought we make good couple. also said talking to her made me happy which it did. she replyed with she understand msg and wanted speak at work.and said sweet dreams ( we say this when go sleep after work at 6am) but last night she never spoke to me at all not on break not nothing i didnt attepmt as she done this before. i smile and she smile back but lil bit tho. so i ask her friend to have lil word with her on way home this morn and i show her the msg and she say it lil deep which i agree but she say it weird that she wont sms now she with bf. what shall i do? should i carry on be friends with her or what? i mean like her so much i got in trouble speaking to her too much. i tryed learn polish. i changed the way i act. basiclly im diff person. im mad at her for making me beleive she was intrested and wanted to go further tho i dont know if she did or not. i duno if true but i heard she likes me but when we go out i was quite. which i agree as it was hard for me not been out for drink since 18th and go out for 1st time in 2years with somebody i only met month ago ( now 2months). im gutted i really am gutted but i want keep her as friend but at the min untill i find out whats wrong i just want to leave the work place and get new job. how i feel as i cant stand now talking to her not sms her. drives me nuts! all i do is think about how cool she is n stuff but i got get this out of mind now :/ sorry if this sounds dull boring and stupid but i need thoughts on i can do next as i got noboddy i can trust to talk to. i dont trust nobody at work at th minute.
thanks for time :) hope you can help me make the right choice