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WINKING - A GOOD POLISH SIGN??? [28]
Hi, just stumbled into this site on the web, hope you dont mind me crashing into this thread?
I'm Ecoprincess a name given to me by a group I do voluntary work for in Marine Conservation are.
I live in the North West of Ireland where I run my own smallholding and I work in a local company. I am originally English, well travelled and am now officially Irish having lived here for 27 years. So many interests I couldn't list them all here, I love life, like to live my life to the full.
Thanks for the above information in the thread. There is a a group of Polish men working as drivers where I work and one winks at me, I have never known how to interpret this. I am naive and had no idea what it meant so growing more confused I googled it and landed with you lot. :) When I came to Ireland things were a lot different to how they are now, no one ever offered me any assistance, so I go out of my way the help the Polish Community at work. They all seem to appreciate this and wave at me as they come and go.
So this chap winks at me a lot always smiles and sometimes when we are in a group of other Polish men, he repeatedly winks at me. He also waves at me coming and going from work, if we meet in the warehouse we always catch eyes, and make a point of speaking, he will go out of his way to meet me. This may all sound very teenagerish, but after 20 years in a good relationship I am now widowed for the last 7 years, and well this whole realtionship thing has moved on so much. I can not help but think I may be reading these signs wrongly, and that he is just been friendly and not interested in my romatically.
Ok it would be easy to tear me apart for my niavety, but some constructive help would be useful:
1. is it more than friends hes after.
2. how do I let him know discreetly that I am also interested, what would a Polish woman do next?
thanks to all the postive assitance responces. :)