/ I'm pregnant by my Polish boyfriend but he wants me to abort it!
hi all i've been with my polish boyfriend for almost a year until last month he started ringing and texting another girl constantly and i overheard his plans to go meet her in poland and telling her he was completely single so we had a huge fight. now i find out that i'm 2 months pregnant.
About this, if he told this other girl he was completely single then he has no respect for you in the least. Just to be sure, was he talking/texting in Polish with her and if so, do you totally understand it?
Regarding the rest...
Ultimately it is not this guys decision. It's yours. You are carrying the being inside of you. This guy might have got you into this situation but clearly he cannot cope with being a father, yet probably you can cope with being a mother. Speak to people around you, trusted friends, trusted family. Your father might have opinions but they are based on thought and opinion rather than reality and when faced with reality his opinion might change. You were in a relationship for a year with this guy so it wasn't casual and your dad will realise that I am sure.
In the end, as I said, the decision is yours so please do not let this guy decide for you as clearly he is going to pursue the relationship with the other female. So either way you don't end up with the guy. Basically he wants you to abort to protect his reputation with this other female and that's not right. Make sure if you choose to abort the reasons are nothing to do with the guy.
Good luck with whichever decision you make. :)