Kochana_Babcia
23 Jan 2007
News / Countries in Europe where abortion is allowed/not allowed? [110]
I really don't like to judge people..but I can't understand why birth control wasn't used
after the first abortion. I can understand one mistake and the pain of making such a drastic decision but to be so irresponsible to get pregnant so soon afterwards is something I can't understand. I also can't understand why wait so long to have an
abortion unless this person thought that if she waited long enough the father would
give in and change his mind about having a child...and to marry this guy after all you
went though is beyond me. I hope you have a happy marriage and don't go though life
regretting the decisions you made.
I was pregnant when I got married 37 yrs ago..I was 20 yrs old and my hubby was 23.
I have a lot of friends/family that have had similiar situations and they have stood by
their daughters and helped raise the babies. I'm sorry that you didn't have family that
you could turn to for help and moral support.
I really don't like to judge people..but I can't understand why birth control wasn't used
after the first abortion. I can understand one mistake and the pain of making such a drastic decision but to be so irresponsible to get pregnant so soon afterwards is something I can't understand. I also can't understand why wait so long to have an
abortion unless this person thought that if she waited long enough the father would
give in and change his mind about having a child...and to marry this guy after all you
went though is beyond me. I hope you have a happy marriage and don't go though life
regretting the decisions you made.
I was pregnant when I got married 37 yrs ago..I was 20 yrs old and my hubby was 23.
I have a lot of friends/family that have had similiar situations and they have stood by
their daughters and helped raise the babies. I'm sorry that you didn't have family that
you could turn to for help and moral support.