F15guy
22 Apr 2009
Love / I'm pregnant by my Polish boyfriend but he wants me to abort it! [132]
Hey, thearcher. Not knowing where you, I'm presuming Ireland since he wants you to go to the UK, You have three options.
1 - Abort, but you're running out of time. A few friends who have had abortions in the long run regret doing so. It is very traumatic for the mother.
2- Adoption. Also traumatic for some. Less for others. I have cousins who have done so. One so regreted it (in my opinion) with in five years, she had three more children. Another cousin feels it was the best thing she did for the child and herself. (She finished college, married six years later, raised a family.
3- Become a single mother. Your family may well surprise you and be very supportive. Give them a chance.
Hey, thearcher. Not knowing where you, I'm presuming Ireland since he wants you to go to the UK, You have three options.
1 - Abort, but you're running out of time. A few friends who have had abortions in the long run regret doing so. It is very traumatic for the mother.
2- Adoption. Also traumatic for some. Less for others. I have cousins who have done so. One so regreted it (in my opinion) with in five years, she had three more children. Another cousin feels it was the best thing she did for the child and herself. (She finished college, married six years later, raised a family.
3- Become a single mother. Your family may well surprise you and be very supportive. Give them a chance.