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Joined: 31 Oct 2007 / Female ♀ 		Last Post: 5 Nov 2007
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Posts: Total: 6 / In This Archive: 5 		From: us, chicago
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stasha   
31 Oct 2007
Love / hi ya, im stasha from chicago, in love with a man from warsaw ;) [37]

im not polish and have been attracted to polish guys since i was 10 yrs old.... ;)
my husband left 3yrs ago... im now in love with a polish man from warsaw, we've been seeing each other for the last 2 yrs..we're taking it slow, and its deff. growing... but im here tonite, because i need help "reading" this guy... He was alone previous for 5 yrs... never married, but had a few relationships. He just seems to get distant, then needs his space...and thats fine, if he'd only tell me. He had a hard child hood, so i keep giving him the benefit of doubt... it's like he loves me, then leaves me up on a shelf? .... is this typical?
stasha   
5 Nov 2007
Love / hi ya, im stasha from chicago, in love with a man from warsaw ;) [37]

maybe you are pushing him at a pace that is too fast for him

this is what could be too, so i think my stepping back and day by day is good. I believe he loves me in (in his way) in face i spent the whole weekend alone, it was peaceful, didn't know silence could be so energizing .... :)

i meant .... (in fact)
stasha   
5 Nov 2007
Love / hi ya, im stasha from chicago, in love with a man from warsaw ;) [37]

Maybe he's seeing other women when he gets distant with you.

i thought that too, and confronted him early.... but i believe him, very loyal person. he has just become comfortable alone.. as i said, he has been the sweetest since my X left.... i have time.

it may not be typical but who really is? on the shelf: he doesn't talk to you for weeks at a time?

oh no, maybe 2 days.... the longest was 3. sometimes i think he just needs to be told, this isn't acceptable...so i have also become a much tuffer person with him. (i like it!) LOL
stasha   
5 Nov 2007
Love / Real Intimacy [32]

Why does the word " Intimacy "
Conjure up thoughts of sex..?

oh my! thats my kinda intimacy.... reading this makes it not easy to go to sleep alone.... boo hoo! but thanks for the warm thoughts... ;)