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Real Intimacy


Sunflower 10 | 76  
4 Nov 2007 /  #1
What is real intimacy? And can it ever really be achieved with someone who doesn't speak your native language? What do you all think?
Mufasa 19 | 358  
4 Nov 2007 /  #2
good question. I have never thought about it.
krysia 23 | 3,057  
4 Nov 2007 /  #3
Real intimacy is the ultimate trust in someone, accepting the other person's downfalls and give yourself to that other person wholheartly.
It's harder with a language barrier and two things can happen:
1. It will be short-lived because you need to communicate not only physically but also verbally. Being intimate is giving the whole body and mind to that other person which means your thoughts are very important too.

2. If it is very strong, the language barrier will be overcome by learning that language and can lead to everlasting happiness and with the undenying trust in each other it will work and it will be beautiful.
Mufasa 19 | 358  
4 Nov 2007 /  #4
Krysia - you a romantic too?

Suppose that's why I liked you scent ;-)

... from one animal to another, of course
plk123 8 | 4,149  
4 Nov 2007 /  #5
Suppose that's why I liked you scent ;-)

you've been sniffing her butt? lol

What is real intimacy? And can it ever really be achieved with someone who doesn't speak your native language? What do you all think?

hard to do if you can't fully communicate. if you're talking sex, not talking could be good for you. lol
Mufasa 19 | 358  
4 Nov 2007 /  #6
you've been sniffing her butt? lol

No - Krysia is a lady. Ladies are not my thing ;-) lol

Spaniels' sense of smell is highly developed - we even pick up scents with our ears!
krysia 23 | 3,057  
4 Nov 2007 /  #7
No - Krysia is a lady

Oh really? interesting..hmmmmm I run free and wild with my herd and no one can ever catch me to sniff my butt. hehehe :).
Mufasa 19 | 358  
4 Nov 2007 /  #8
I didn't know mice lived in herds! LOL LOL LOL

Krysi you just made my day! LOL LOL LOL
Firestorm 6 | 400  
4 Nov 2007 /  #9
Why does the word " Intimacy "
Conjure up thoughts of sex..?

Intimate moments. ( To my mind )
Are the times you spend/Share. With another person. One to one.

When sometimes. Words have no real place.

The moment.. When your hands.. Eyes Meet..
And the feeling you have.
Says everything you ever wanted to. But never knew how to.

Intimacy = Togetherness

A shared moment in time. However brief.
Mufasa 19 | 358  
4 Nov 2007 /  #10
mmm ... another real romantic :)
johan123 1 | 228  
4 Nov 2007 /  #11
Why does the word " Intimacy "
Conjure up thoughts of sex..?

At my age anything conjours up thoughts of sex!
Firestorm 6 | 400  
4 Nov 2007 /  #12
LOL

<-- Scared to say anything else. (Wouldnt want to create a fantasy ) Loooool
OP Sunflower 10 | 76  
4 Nov 2007 /  #13
The moment.. When your hands.. Eyes Meet..
And the feeling you have.
Says everything you ever wanted to. But never knew how to.

That's beautiful
dtaylor 9 | 823  
4 Nov 2007 /  #14
And can it ever really be achieved with someone who doesn't speak your native language?

actually im seeing someone now who doesnt speak too good english, but when were together everything clicks
its really weird because sometimes its easier to express our feeling without using words.
i forget the saying, but something like 5%of communication is through language
anuska 1 | 30  
4 Nov 2007 /  #15
its really weird because sometimes its easier to express our feeling without using words.
i forget the saying,

ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS!!!
johan123 1 | 228  
4 Nov 2007 /  #16
Yes, that's right! I always pinch bums!
dtaylor 9 | 823  
4 Nov 2007 /  #17
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS!!!

agreed
anuska 1 | 30  
4 Nov 2007 /  #18
What is real intimacy? And can it ever really be achieved with someone who doesn't speak your native language? What do you all think?

I think intimacy is confusing for some people i guess.......

The meaning of intimacy varies from relationship to relationship, and within a given relationship. Intimacy has more to do with shared moments than sexual interactions. Intimate feelings may be connected or confused with sexual arousal. Intimacy is linked with feelings of closeness, safety, trust and transparency among partners in a collaborative relationship........

And yes you can achive them with someone!!!!

Ever stood across the room from someone and made eye contact with them not once but a number of times i guess this is a phyical attraction....how do you know that person can speak the same language? If its the same body language then arent you understanding each other anyway?

Yes, that's right! I always pinch bums!

do u get lots of slaps to the face too he he he
dtaylor 9 | 823  
4 Nov 2007 /  #19
what about animals what mate for life, they dont speak any language....stupid example but you get my point.
johan123 1 | 228  
4 Nov 2007 /  #20
do u get lots of slaps to the face too he he he

To tell the truth I do! But at my age a slap is better than nothing! I once pinched a girl's boobs in Tescos and was later arrested. I spoke about intimacy to the police and mentioned that I was picking up the wrong signals almost all the time.

what about animals what mate for life

I am not into beastiality at all and neither is my dog! I read about a guy that tried but nearly got his old boy bitten off. Wouldn't fancy that I can tell yah!
krysia 23 | 3,057  
4 Nov 2007 /  #21
He means certain animals like swans who mate for life, when one dies, so does the other. That's because they can't talk and can't put a personal add in the paper to find another mate. :)
dtaylor 9 | 823  
4 Nov 2007 /  #22
when one dies, so does the other

when i worked in hospitals, if a patient died, very often there wife or husband would within the week, really sad.
alot of people cant deal with a broken heart
anuska 1 | 30  
4 Nov 2007 /  #23
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww, you people really know all about downers!!!!!
dtaylor 9 | 823  
4 Nov 2007 /  #24
i try to forget all that, instead cheer myself up by thinking what positions could we put a "stiff person" :)

downers..i know all about drink beer in one go :P
anuska 1 | 30  
4 Nov 2007 /  #25
well put the beer down more to life
dtaylor 9 | 823  
4 Nov 2007 /  #26
put the beer down....are you crazy!!!! lol
anuska 1 | 30  
4 Nov 2007 /  #27
nope u can get more enjoyment out of a woman ;) but i guess u might still get up with a headache lol
dtaylor 9 | 823  
4 Nov 2007 /  #28
bouncing of the head board...........hehe
anuska 1 | 30  
4 Nov 2007 /  #29
no more along the lines of a woman moaning ( NONE SEXUAL)
dtaylor 9 | 823  
4 Nov 2007 /  #30
( NONE SEXUAL)

none sexual.....bugger, ill go back to sleep:) hehe

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