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The Problem i have with Culture Differences (UK + Polish) [32]
So the question is... Are Polish people generally unhappy? or is it just my girlfriend as an individual? Is she wrong to judge the English way of living? or are we both wrong to categorise something in a culture?
No, the Polish are not generally unhappy, they just like to complain, that's a very Polish thing, and although I don't like complaining and try to avoid it , I am catching myself doing it from time to time, too.
I can't actually say much about English culture as I am living in Ireland but I see a lot of differences between Irish and Polish people. The Irish are more outgoing, open and more eager to talk to strangers. They generally trust other people more. They're much better at socializing. I don't know why we are so distanced and shy sometimes, really...
Your girlfriend probably calls some of your friends "fake" as there is a small difference in asking "How are you?" in Ireland/UK than in Poland. If a Polish person asks a question in Poland he/she usually expects a longer answer, and that's the way it works. It's not just "How are you?", " I am ok, thanks" thing as here. And in Poland it's not that you ask "how are you" everyone you meet on the street, it's generally related to people you know a bit. That's why "how are you" in Ireland/UK seems a bit fake for Polish people: if you ask everyone and are satisfied with few words answer, it looks like you were actually not caring about it at all. BUT, after some time spent in Ireland I wouldn't say that, I think it's just a cultural difference which doesn't necessary mean Irish/English people are fake or sth.