Love / Need help in relationship with a Polish man [33]

hi i would like a little help in my relationship with my polish guy....how do i get my polish husband to fall in love with me or at least show that he loves me?

Love / Need help in relationship with a Polish man [33]

intially...but we now have a relationship but when he came here. he brought his gf at the time over 6 months later. they were fine and then 4 1/2yrs later she met another guy at the GYM of all places...moved out while my guy was at work and cleaned out almost all of his bank account and took his car. so he is very reluctant to share his feelings and all talk of the future is his favorite reply...we will see....but everything we do together and the way our lives are we basically are a couple we just dont have a title..well except husband and wife...lol....my friends all say he is falling for me by the things he does... but that he just wont admit it because of getting really really burned by that girl...just wanted some advice to turn it into an even more real marriage than it mostly is already...

USA, Canada / My Polish husband is having trouble finding a sponsor for his green card [8]

no that isnt the answer. my income doesnt qualify because i didnt work for 2yrs due to complications with a pregnancy. so being married to me the citizen doesnt automatically get him his green card.

Love / Does a Polish lady expect the guy to make the first move? [6]

i may not be polish but as a woman i know i definitely like it if the man makes the first move for the simple reason of knowing he is interested in me. if i have given enough subtle and (sometimes not subtle if the guy isn't getting it) hints that i like him in the romantical sense then yes he needs to make the first move. because for women sometimes we want to be romanced and feel the guy has the balls to actually step up to the plate and take charge without the woman having to wear a neon sign saying kiss me. hope that helps alittle.....oh and im not saying you need to tear off her clothes or anything...but slow progression is very nice...it shows you are into her...oh and personally im a sap for this move...it works everytime.....

you lean in and put your hands on the sides of her face and slowing bring her towards you and just a brush of the lips once or twice...lean back and look in her eyes....then move in slowly again and just slowly devour her lips like you havent kissed any other girl that matters....it works everytime....surefire way to make the first move...