Posts by hdmiman

hdmiman

12 Jun 2009

Love / Real relationship with a polish girl [26]

Hi friends, I'm new in this forum and I'm not from Poland, but I have a doubt and I would like help on solving it by polish girls preferably, but anyone with a lot of experience with polish girls might help me.

I met on a social network a nice polish girl (she's an adult, not a teenager) and we started getting along pretty quickly,we became friends, then, after a time, we chatted using messenger and we saw each other via webcam and stuff like that.

A few days ago, we started a "relationship" and I quote it because I usually don't believe in long distance relationships and specially if we've never been really together.

She is very kind, she gets online a lot and she stays late for her usual time (we used to chat until 10 pm in polska time, now she says goodbye almost at 1 am) but all is by messenger, webcam or microphone.

I would like to know please, based on Polish culture, ways and believings, do you think this girl is really feeling something for me??
For me is hard to believe, but maybe someone has an experience like that one and advice is very welcome, do you think a polish girl can really feel something over the internet or she's just playing with me??

We've talked about seeing each other but it involves long distance travel, I've never been in a situation with a girlfriend on messenger and I really don't know what to do (I know that with a girl in my country it doesn't work, due to my countrie's way to be)

She seems to really love me, she says so and she acts like it, but maybe it's just her way to be...

Any hint are appreciated, thanks in advance

byee :)

hdmiman

12 Jun 2009

Love / Real relationship with a polish girl [26]

LOL dude, what's that supposed to mean??

hdmiman

12 Jun 2009

Love / Real relationship with a polish girl [26]

George8600, where are you from??
Well, thanks for this advice, is very good and believe me I'll consider many of the things you've told me =)

Thanks for all the hints, and for the luck wish, that's very useful information and maybe you should open a thread and paste it complete as "advice on How to treat polish women" or something like that.

See you, good luck to you too =)

mmm The comment frome George8600 dissapeared from my thread, how strange, how did it happened?

hdmiman

13 Jun 2009

Life / Why are Polish people cheap? [126]

Hello there, the person who started this thread is obviously stupid and mentally retarded.
He says he's from scotland but I've read better english grammar in 10 year old kids from Spain that speak french as second language and english as third, so really ignore him.

I know Polska has a high pretty girl population, so his comments about girks are pointless and without value, and it's not a rich country, so people grows with the values of saving money, which I must say is a very good value.

Please, I recommend people to ignore the man who started the thread and if someone has the power to declare it closed, it's getting way off topic, why don't we leave the forum to people really interested in Polish things and not only in making everyone angry

Good luck to everyone (and to the loser who started the thread, good luck too)

hdmiman

13 Jun 2009

Love / Real relationship with a polish girl [26]

rohit85 and Wyspianska,
Based on my experience with this girl and the things we've talked about, I also think she's sincere.

I'm thankful for your comments n_n

And so you don't think bad of me, I'm not the kind of guy who let women down, I wanted information in order to know if I could really expect something good from her, and now I think I can (based on your comments and some other things I've talked to her that I can't write you about because it's private)

Of course I'm looking forward to meet her as soon as we save money to see us.

And well, any further advice is welcomed, if anyone has any more opinions feel free to write them :D I hope this information works for anyone in the future if they find themselves in a situation like mine.

Thank to everyone who has written something so far ;)

hdmiman

13 Jul 2009

Love / Real relationship with a polish girl [26]

It's been exactly a month sincfe the last answer D: and we've gotten a vew days over 1 month in our Internet relationship.

She will go to another country, what if men there start hitting on her :O I know this sounds naive but, does anyone here thinks she'll stay loyal to our commitmen?

Since the beggining this relationship looked like an impossible dream but through effort we've somehow make it go on.

but now she goes to another country... Can I expect her to keep her word D: ??

regards ñ_ñ

hdmiman

20 Jul 2009

Love / Real relationship with a polish girl [26]

Well, maybe for some of you doesn't look like a real relationship, I promise, I'll come and tell you the conclussion once it happens (even if it's a happy ending or a sad one) but I agree in the point that some people in real life dissapoint us too, it happened to me once with a former gf who seemed sincere and I realized she only had time for me when she needed something, so things didn't finished well between us.

I know I'm taking a big leap of faith trusting a woman I've never even actually been with, however, maybe it has a good ending in the future :P

I must admit it was harder for me to believe her in the past and now I trus her more, however, well, until you have someone face to face you can actually tr to read her intentions.

I'm thankful for all your comments, feel free to keep posting your opinions.

oh, and dnz, maybe you're right and this relationship doesn't seem real in the first place. and believe me, I used to be in bars and dance clubs where I met "real" women and although some are very good and nice people, some of them are... well, imagine it yourself. So I've decided to give this long distance relationship a chance (and if it doesn't work out, it'll be the last LDT I'll be part of) but in the meantime, I'll try to make it work. Thanks for your comment too =D

hdmiman

20 Jul 2009

Love / Polish girls devils or angels? [15]

johncardwell:
Jump Bunny, I didn't ask for your opinion.
Why did you give it?

Hahaha, well, it's an internet forum, in a not private thread, so I believe everyone has the right to give their opinion hahaha.

If you don't want people crashing with your ideas, write a diary and don't let anyone read it =)

Gool day n_n

hdmiman

23 Jul 2009

Love / Real relationship with a polish girl [26]

Men, are you fo real?
If you're so open, why aren't you hanging around with others instead of writing in a forum??
I think most people here have true friends outside, and they're giving the chance for something good happening using the internet as a media, noone's talking about always living in darkness. If you don't understan it, the ones who need opening yourself to a new world are you!

By the way,

open the front door to their house. That is of course if they know where that is

come on man, where are you from, dumbland? Only there a comment like that would be smart...
I invite you to open your eyes to a wider world and consider that people do other things beside using the computer and ocmputers are complementing real life ;)

Well, by the way, thanks to everyone for their comments, but maybe this thread has gone too far, I'll stop it before it becomes a flame war and declare it closed.

Special thanks to everyone who really offered sincere advice.
My experience has been so far good concerning the girl, it's very hard for me to keep a relationship with a girl I've no physical contact with, but I'll keep fighting for we to see each other this year.

Good luck everyone!!

hdmiman

17 Sep 2009

UK, Ireland / An emergency, Embassy information and advice [9]

Hi all.

I'm sorry but I'm in sort of an urgency, a very close friend of mine has gone from Polska to England, she says she was going to stydu there, however, when she arrived, things started going badly for her and she's very scared, she's just hung of the phone and she doesn't know what to do, I'm afraid she might get in trouble.

Please, help me help her, I don't know what to do
The only thing I can think of is, can someone please send me the Polish Embassy adress in London, so she can go there, if she arrives, she's supposed to get immediate help, right??

I'm in Mexico and I've no way to be there for her, but I have to help her, I almost died when she told me she was really scared and that the man who was "helping her and her other friend" seems to be a liar and now is asking money for everything.

Please, give me the address and if anyone has an idea of what can I do please tell me.

NOTE: This is not a joke, please, I'm too far to help her in person but I want to call her. Right now, we're sending us messages by cellphone, but I'm worried something might happen to her

hdmiman

17 Sep 2009

UK, Ireland / An emergency, Embassy information and advice [9]

Thanks for your quick response, I'm sending her the address now.

Does anyone know any other information she might find useful? I'm afraid she left with not much info and I'm afraid of her getting into some more trouble =(

hdmiman

17 Sep 2009

UK, Ireland / An emergency, Embassy information and advice [9]

Oh, Thanks, she's a lot more relaxed now.
Her problem is mainly she (and her friend) got scared when their cellphones stopped working (I told her it would happen but she didn't believe me) and the man who was there to pick them didn't have a cab and they saw the appartament they were going to rent, far from their school, not like they've told them it was very near. When we talked she was really scared feeling she had no idea what to do, now she's a bit better, I'll keep in touch with her.

Thanks for the address, I feel better now she's more calmed, I hope tomorrow is a better day for her

hdmiman

28 Sep 2009

UK, Ireland / An emergency, Embassy information and advice [9]

Hahaha, well, it's true the embassy is a last resort, but I gave them the adress to run there in case the have a big problem, besides, it helped them feel more relaxed =)

Thx 4 the help

Thread closed :D