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Caro_Ireland   
3 Oct 2008
Love / Need advice re: Polish man. What can I do to make him interested? [50]

Hi! I found this forum last night when I was looking for a way round my dilema...
I know this topic has been covered before kinda but if anyone could give me any advice I would appreciate it very much!

I work in a shop and there's a Polish guy who works across the street in a factory and he usually comes in on his breaks and uses our outdoor smoking room for a cigarette and I really fancy him, (don't know why as I can't bear smoking but there's something really cute about him!)

He and I are both early 40's, well I think he is anyway, he doesn't wear a wedding ring and lives locally with a couple of Polish guys so maybe he's single, maybe he's not. I'm recently separated from my husband.

I mostly work on the shop floor and when he comes in our eyes often meet but I get tongue tied!,,,,oh jesus this sounds like a MIlls and Boon novel!!!, I've learned some Polish words from one of the girls who works with me and I've used them in conversation with him, now when I say conversation I mean things as simple as please, thank you, nice day and how are you,,,,all in Polish of course! and he chats back. One evening he showed me some Polish coins.

What can I do to let him know I'm interested .... apart from stalking him when he's in the shop! And how would I know if he was interested. I saw in another post that Polish men often hold your gaze when talking to you, well he does that already, does it mean anything?

I have it really bad!

Any advice on what to do next.

Dziękują
thank you!)
Caro_Ireland   
4 Oct 2008
Love / Need advice re: Polish man. What can I do to make him interested? [50]

Thanks guys.
What I do know is that he initially came to Ireland with his brother about 4 1/2 years ago. I don't think his brother is still here.

He does speak some simple Polish to me and really looks intently at me when he's speaking it, do ye think he's interested or just seeing to make sure I understand. I feel such a twit. He is lovely!

I suppose I will have to take the bull by the horns so to speak - LOL ;-) - and say something directly. Being recently separated I am out of the singles game for so long I just don't know where to start and as neither he or I go the local pub it's kinda hard to bump into him outside when he calls into where I work.

I was thinking of attending the local church tomorrow for mass just to see if he's there. I AM NOT GENERALLY A STALKER!!!! Ha ha!
Caro_Ireland   
4 Oct 2008
Love / Need advice re: Polish man. What can I do to make him interested? [50]

You're all Brits you just come with different flags.

Oh dearie, you've done it there Dekameron, I'll have you know I am an Irish person from the deep south of the republic of Ireland, the free state as it would be known to Brits!! Calling me and my country men Brits is akin to calling Hitler a jew!

Smile. Ask him how are his wife and kids. You'll find out if he's married then.

Good advice there Bartolome, ta!
Caro_Ireland   
5 Oct 2008
Love / help dating polish lady [78]

It might be as well you found where she stands and how she feels before you got deeper into this.
Caro_Ireland   
11 Oct 2008
Love / Need advice re: Polish man. What can I do to make him interested? [50]

my polish boyfriend says...ask his name, say that he seems like a nice guy, and would he like to go for a coffee with you. Say he looks interesting and it would be nice to talk to him more. Say you are interested in learning more about the Polish culture as there are a lot of Polish people here.....and remember to speak slowly so he understands you. Sounds simple...!! Good luck.

Thanks for that doubtfullove! I'm just waiting to get an opportunity now! I did go to the local church last Sunday for Mass and BINGO! He was there too. I met him after on the way to the car park and I said wadno gen (polish for nice day, sorry don't know how to spell it), he thought I said vodka gin! Unfortunately I was on the opposite side of the street to him so that was kinda the end of the conversation but I gave him a dazzling smile .... even if I say so myself - lol! and he gave me one back. I can't go to that mass for the next 2 sundays either :-(

I saw him very briefly in the shop yesterday while we were both on our break and I went to join the queue behind him but an old lady asked me to help her get phone credit from the machine and opportunity missed!

I will update ye if anything progresses! Here's hoping!
Caro_Ireland   
13 Oct 2008
Love / My polish girlfriend will not leave [47]

I am not long over a situation like this with my estranged husband. You HAVE to tell her you want her to leave and give her a date, two weeks should be more than adequate for anyone to make arrangements. Then follow MAfKETIS's advice to the button, you treat her with civility, no more no less. When the time comes pack her bags if necessary, remove the key to your apartment from her keyring the night before she is scheduled to leave and once she's out do NOT let her over the threshold. Yes, it's hard but it's the only thing that's going to work, you are going to have to be so tough here.