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sapphire   
8 Dec 2006
Love / Are you in a Polish-nonPolish relationship? [150]

hey.. this is definitely the thread for me. I too am dating a Polish guy who barely spoke any English when I met him.. now we are living together, but its not been easy. We love each other but there are so many language and cultural differences that lead to arguments at times. Also I know that his family will never accept me as he left his wife for me.. but Im not a bad person and we love each other... any comments welcome.
sapphire   
8 Dec 2006
Life / Polish Divorce laws and stigma attached to it [21]

Can anyone tell me whether a Polish person can get a divorce if they are the guilty party and their spouse is not in agreement? Also, how easy is it to be accepted by a Polish family if you are seen as the person who broke up the marriage of their son/daughter?
sapphire   
15 Dec 2006
Love / Are Polish men generally possessive? [51]

Is it normal for Polish people to only go out together if they are married or live together and not to go out with their friends seperately? Do all Polish men want their women to be at home most of the time?
sapphire   
15 Dec 2006
Love / Are Polish men generally possessive? [51]

Im only joking... but I appreciate the manners and romantic nature of Polish men...having said that I only know one.. so maybe they arent all like that. Ive never liked English men.. they seem to be lacking something for me.
sapphire   
15 Dec 2006
Love / Are Polish men generally possessive? [51]

really or are you joking? My bf says that this is the Polish culture that is so different to English... I wondered whether this was just an excuse to justify that he doesnt like me going out with my friends so much or if it is really true.
sapphire   
15 Dec 2006
Love / Are Polish men generally possessive? [51]

Thanks guys.. I appreciate the comments. Yes, the cultural differences are huge.. mostly its good, but at times difficult to understand. From my point of view its seems almost like 1950s British values.. old fashioned, but also strangely appealing, as I do think that in the UK we have lost some of those traditional family values over the years.
sapphire   
15 Dec 2006
Love / Are Polish men generally possessive? [51]

more than a bit.. he is insanely jealous... which can be flattering, but also drives me crazy at times, because he has nothing to worry about from me.
sapphire   
15 Dec 2006
Love / Are Polish men generally possessive? [51]

ok sorry.. that only what my bf told me... that all Polish women are looking for men with money...he was totally shocked to find that I didnt care that he doesnt have much money... but obviously he's been tainted by years spent with a Polish fish-wife.. Im sure there are lovely genuine polish girls... good and bad people of all nationalities.
sapphire   
15 Dec 2006
Love / Are Polish men generally possessive? [51]

are any of you really Polish.. .Rafik you look kind of Ozzie on your pic... and Fitz.. you seem to be a Scandanavian snow boarder
sapphire   
15 Dec 2006
Love / Are Polish men generally possessive? [51]

thanks eurola.. i agree with you.. he is great at cleaning too! I consider myself to be a very independent person with a good job and large circle of friends.. however, I know that I have changed pretty radically since Ive been living with 'the Pole'. He doesnt really mind my girlfriends, but male (platonic) friends are a bit of a problem. My best mate is a guy and they hate each other.
sapphire   
20 Dec 2006
Life / Polish Girl Fashion - "less is more"? [108]

C'mon guys.. dont wish to be rude, but Poland is hardly Milan! The men wear baseball caps and trackie trousers and the women wear hideous make up, strange shoes and tight white clothes...or perhaps I am generalising here?? Of course Ive never actually been to Poland, but have seen enough of them over here (Uk) to make me not want to go clothes shopping there.
sapphire   
20 Dec 2006
Life / Polish Girl Fashion - "less is more"? [108]

well I'll have to take your word on it.... maybe the shops are good, but many people are lacking in sense of style then?? I am generalising here.. and I know that there are stylish Polish people, but not many of them here in the UK. My bfs mate take the p*** as they say he dresses like an English guy now.. but hes bardzo happy with that as he doesnt want to be seen to be typically Polish and reckons they are jealous.
sapphire   
20 Dec 2006
Life / Polish Girl Fashion - "less is more"? [108]

PS: His English was crap, he dressed awfully, and you still decided to give him a chance? Maybe it’s really true that Polish men are special.

Nah.. I was just desperate for a s***! I did fall in love with him later though... god help me.
sapphire   
20 Dec 2006
Life / Polish Girl Fashion - "less is more"? [108]

Well in my experience, those groups that tend to ver do the make up are either young girls or Grandma's and prostitues.

Sorry, but I love the image of the 3 types of women you mention all swapping make up tips in the Ladies.
sapphire   
20 Dec 2006
Life / Polish Girl Fashion - "less is more"? [108]

Well I have to disagree.. cos Im only talking about Polish people in London, of which there are many, so therefore I am entitled to an opinion...and yes they may be trying to fit in with other ex-pat Poles, but that doesnt make it right ....and I wasnt being entirely serious..
sapphire   
20 Dec 2006
Life / Polish Girl Fashion - "less is more"? [108]

my polish lodger has just gone out... he was wearing a henri lloyd jacket and carhart jeans...

Sounds GROSS!... and why cant he afford his own house.. for gods sake!:)
sapphire   
20 Dec 2006
Food / What are the best Polish sausages? (apart from by bfs) [22]

Ooh blimey.. dont get me banned... I'm merely expressing a healthy interest in Polish cuisine. .. now is it best to eat them hot or cold.. and should they be eaten whole or with the end chopped off?