Huegel
9 Oct 2006
Love / Illegal Polish girl wants me to marry her for citizenship [124]
Tlum
You're talking a whole lot of sense there my friend.
An ex of mine did what yours did. Hit me hard, as it was 2 years for me, but like you say, though it hurt like mad at the time, now I know that it was definitely better to find out before children and mortgage etc.
As for Guest, hmmm. It is ultimately your decision of course, but my 0.02€ on this issue are, especially as you do have feelings for this person, walk away.
I just think that if you do this marriage thing, there will be a little part of you hoping that it wasn't just for the citizenship or whatever and maybe she really does like you after all.
It would be setting you up for a lot of pain in the future if she got what she wanted and left without a second thought.
Protect yourself, nobody else will. :(
Hope i haven't come across too harshly.
Tlum
You're talking a whole lot of sense there my friend.
An ex of mine did what yours did. Hit me hard, as it was 2 years for me, but like you say, though it hurt like mad at the time, now I know that it was definitely better to find out before children and mortgage etc.
As for Guest, hmmm. It is ultimately your decision of course, but my 0.02€ on this issue are, especially as you do have feelings for this person, walk away.
I just think that if you do this marriage thing, there will be a little part of you hoping that it wasn't just for the citizenship or whatever and maybe she really does like you after all.
It would be setting you up for a lot of pain in the future if she got what she wanted and left without a second thought.
Protect yourself, nobody else will. :(
Hope i haven't come across too harshly.