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nomaderol   
25 Oct 2009
Love / Do not marry Polish woman [212]

what the hell are you on about? you saying she turned into a nun?

Not that. I thought only god could seperate this Romeo from his Juliet.
nomaderol   
25 Oct 2009
Love / Do not marry Polish woman [212]

i still love her but i let her go because i didnt want to force more. I am still waiting for her to come back, maybe she will. i will wait as much as i can, maybe more.

What force? What can you do? All laws protect girls. I mean, maybe not laws, but judges are mostly married men and they are biased towards the girls. Maybe, you can do this following me. Be a pigeon and draw a circle around her. She may think this circle is a circus with rigid walls and can stay inside your circle. (seriously though: i suggest forget god mod everythings and see what'll happen. If she doesn't return, then, face the reality. Her love is god, not you.)
nomaderol   
25 Oct 2009
Love / Polish Gay Life [142]

Can catch gayness by listening to his music?

How sexual interests can be caught in public?

Gays: By their walks?
Lezs: By their hair style?
Virgins: By their partially red faces?
Vags: By their nervous laughs?
Prostitutes: By their eyes rolling like watching tennis?
Heteros: By their talking more than others?
Wifes: By showing fingers in the air?
Husbands: By hiding fingers in the pants?
?
nomaderol   
25 Oct 2009
Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]

screaming cant be stopped they just keep a pilow on their mouth

Freedom to screaming. Damn pillows.

muslim woman in a muslim country dont cheat

Muslim men in a muslim country cheat a lot. This was what i said. If I were a wife of a muslim man, I'd cheat a lot. Freedom to cheat of both sides.
nomaderol   
25 Oct 2009
Love / Polish Gay Life [142]

we dont all have to accept gays

then, don't be a gay. enough.
nomaderol   
25 Oct 2009
Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]

Being in a muslim country turkey (half muslim anyway as secularity here), i heard from some religious local men saying this "my wife should not scream/moan pleasure when doing sex." They say they feel their wifes are like whors when they scream/moan loud. I asked them "who will scream?" They make the women outside scream, they said. This is understanding of closed societies. As a man, if I were a wife of such men, I'd cheat my husband a lot. Think all unhappy wifes. Much different than prostitues?
nomaderol   
25 Oct 2009
Love / Why are Polish girls constantly ill? [166]

All due to phobias of virginity, pregnancy (abortion legal there in pl?), prostitucy and so on then if mostly girls.

However, single reason of all these reasons is lack of economic freedom of female world. This is a big pressure on female world. Dependency is a hard thing, makes people sick. I've seen many mothers who have spent their lifes by looking into hands of their husbands, sons, relatives throughout their life and passed away. I've seen many old women, who weren't taken care of by their children, lived a life of misery before passing away. Women have to say stop to this going.
nomaderol   
25 Oct 2009
Love / Polish Gay Life [142]

I wont even bother with the religious nuts...

Being a totally and purely nonreligious one, I can say this gay thing too has a religious background. Virginity, vaginismusity, homosexuality, lesbianity, bisexuality, even viagra sex, etc etc. All have religious backgrounds. Cause, religions are built around the sex. Even science today is built around the sex. Chaos around the holes. What is latest finding? Black holes? Heh.
nomaderol   
25 Oct 2009
Love / Why are Polish girls constantly ill? [166]

"How many days will you be ill?"

This summarizes all then. Doctors. And, they write drugs, medicines a lot. Doctors and pharmacies are best friends in all businesses. They have to be made enemies of each others, but, how.
nomaderol   
25 Oct 2009
Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]

Been to Iran. All statistics show little unmarried sex. But, I was told there many hidden behind doors, invisible to statistics. I think same in muslim Albania. Just invisible to us. Being in Turkey, I see same things. However, much more visible especially in western parts as it is a secular country. Been to Europe, things just more visible.

Local ethics are mainly built around religions. If there is such a logic "prostitutes, brotels, SHOULD exist", i fear religious societies more than nonreligious ones. They support "existence of them" and this magnifies either visibly or invisibly. We need to think more why little sex business in countries like Venezuela, Cuba, etc.
nomaderol   
24 Oct 2009
Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]

True. Economy model (income differences in a society) is biggest factor.
Unavoidable obligatory result. Holland is somethings different. It is a tourism for them.

Then, next reason, religions. But, true problem is religions support "existence" of brotels, prostitutes, etc. They say prostitues should exist to prevent the rape.
nomaderol   
24 Oct 2009
Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]

You should know that if there are no prostitute there will be alot of rape everywhere

Disagree. Such statements are claimed by religious mentality who want their sons get experience before married by using money and forget after easily. (not saying Ebony, you are so, but, this is just mentality.) Take Venezuela. To me, this is an open society. Criminal rate is only 1-2% while in closed societies (yes including England, Poland, Germany, USA, etc) it is about 20%. You can think of rape crime in these percentages easily.

My claim: The more religious society the more prostitutes.
nomaderol   
24 Oct 2009
Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]

This is a contradiction of Europe mentality.

There was this boy (see closed thread below) who says he is muslim and loves a polish girl and came here and said somethings like europian girls are prostitutes and such things.

Suddenly, he attracted offenses (or defense?) from community here. Community here defensed by using concepts "freedom in sex", "civilization", etc.

Now, I read in this thread being prostitute isnt good for Europians either.

Confused.

For Europian society in particular, western society in general, being prostitute is a good thing or bad thing? (my feel: it is not.)

(btw, such things are not less in muslim communities, either. They just do behind doors, things stay invisible in closed societies.)
nomaderol   
24 Oct 2009
Love / Why are Polish girls constantly ill? [166]

My newphew is a doctor. He says hospitals are half empty now due to global economy crisis and getting emptier. Go crisis go. Nobody will be ill soon.
nomaderol   
24 Oct 2009
Love / Do not marry Polish woman [212]

I was thinking about her twice. Now, I will think more.

She was my first love!

(if "was", was not love.)
nomaderol   
24 Oct 2009
Love / Why are Polish girls constantly ill? [166]

Not only Polish women. World women.
Main reason is economic dependency (to husbands, sons, relatives, etc.)

Read world statistics. More (?) than 80% of women have no economic freedom.
This makes them either prostitutes or sick.
nomaderol   
24 Oct 2009
Love / Girls in Poland so desperate for$ Poland has the greatest no of Prostitutes [135]

However I have to admit that the vast majority of polish women seek normal jobs and try to avoid prostitution

If I am not wrong, some girls are being used as prostitutes by so called serious companies to make them business connections and profit for company. Seems to be mutual benefits. No, company makes more profit and generates new prostitutes. Women everywhere think clever and smart, but, they are abused and exploited everywhere. Sorry, women. Just a truth. (experience? not at all, just observation and mind conclusion. i avoid. i never give any money to women.)
nomaderol   
23 Oct 2009
Love / All Polish girls are like that? If you were her would you do the same? [62]

I think you need to build a relationship from ground up, with strong ground level, so in case of a storm, the structure won't be shaken.

Exactly so. A relationship must have a strong ground, will resist to storms, earthquakes, etc. Togethership in happy times is easy. Actually, my only ground where I'd like to meet with my long term gf is economy, or better to say, model of economy. We need a common agreement about this in advance. All the rest is easy.
nomaderol   
23 Oct 2009
Love / All Polish girls are like that? If you were her would you do the same? [62]

I wouldn't say that we isolated ourselves from the community. We do have both Korean and Polish friends, on top of that Chinese, Canadian and many other.. My parents love Jae (my husband) and accept him, we never had any problems. Jae's parents like me too (I hope^^), we spent summer together, went camping and so on.. So no, we're not isolated.
But if you'd ask me if we care what other ppl think - no, if someone has a problem with us being together, we don't give a sh**, it's our life, right?

Definitely. Your togethership isn't/mustn't be a problem for anyone. I meant you isolated yourselves from community problems. For example, right now, there is a global economy crisis all over the world lasting for a year. Does this have any affect in your togethership? When I think of such things with my gf (potential anyway) I feel I need to think and agree also on such things and feel a need of common ground in advance before being together.
nomaderol   
23 Oct 2009
Love / All Polish girls are like that? If you were her would you do the same? [62]

EvieSeo, people have "common grounds" mostly due to bad experiences/problems that they have lived in the past. You look like you "two" isolated yourselves from the community. I'd love to do that, either. But, somehow, some community problems coming and pulling my legs and i then trying to find another ground. And, you know my ground. When people face such hard problems they feel they are in marsh and they mostly do easy simple things and hold already available branch such as religion, nation, etc etc to protect themselves as and in a community.
nomaderol   
23 Oct 2009
Love / All Polish girls are like that? If you were her would you do the same? [62]

EvieSeo, I see. Travellings, campings, cookings, different cultures, joys, funs. All good happy things are your "common grounds" where you meet actually. I'd love to do all such things when (if) i have this silent girl as gf. But, when I think more I see also problems surrounding our potential togethership. Do you think your togethership will continue when you face some problems? You can't always stay away problems around and can't always have such happy times as you are having now, can you.
nomaderol   
23 Oct 2009
Love / All Polish girls are like that? If you were her would you do the same? [62]

EvieSeo, may I ask this if you don't mind. You and your Korean partner are giving out of yourselves and learning things (cultural, language, etc) of each others. I understand this well. But, where is your meeting point? (understand heart meet, but, in mind?)

Ps:
I asked you, so, i should give info a little about me.
I am a purely socialist single man, in all sense, with no gf, yet.
(so, no need to mention any identity/label.)
I enjoy different cultures for fun and joy, but, not adopt any label to myself.
nomaderol   
23 Oct 2009
Love / All Polish girls are like that? If you were her would you do the same? [62]

I am not coward, When i decide i take action, but i take considerable time and research and experience before i take a decision.

Cowardice isn't about the action. Think. Bush is so brave that he showed he could kill millions of people, but, also shown that he was scared by a small shoe thrown onto his face.

Cowardice is in the mind. It's about the fear of "first love."

(You are still braver than many people including her.)
nomaderol   
23 Oct 2009
Love / All Polish girls are like that? If you were her would you do the same? [62]

If my values are wrong then why? if hers are then why? and how can she be convinced

What's not wrong where everythings in world wrong?
You are trying to find a clean hand in marsh?
A Polish proverb i like. One hand washes the other hand.
But, first, wash your own hand. I see she can't do this at the moment.
Maybe, you can. But, you are a coward.
nomaderol   
23 Oct 2009
Love / All Polish girls are like that? If you were her would you do the same? [62]

well i wud now like to end the thread since the purpose has changed. End of the story, i just wanted peoples opinion about the cross religious\ cross culture relationships nothing else and some helps how to convince my lady

Your purpose wasn't to get a help about cross thingy relationships? I do true help.
No need to fear. No fear in true love.

Anyway, cross religious/culture relationships have a better chance to close the gaps, but, much more difficult. If you can say humans are humans everywhere, you put a real step ahead.