Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


no no no no, you need to be direct, this is just avoiding the issue really, anyway if they are sleeping together do you think there going to tell their parents???

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


i wasn't trying to offend you by telling you that your way was the wrong one to describe it :) I was being diplomatic :)

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


no of course its not :)


but they have done it more than once, thats a lot of conversations that end in sleep, must be a pretty boring conversation :)

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


kind of, its because the creative side of your brain is on the left, so it is natural to look up and left when you are creating a lie, you are using the creative part of your brain :)


when they are looking at their left hand side


hay filming a steamy session between you and your partner is fine, i wouldn't disagree, but filming your BF with his SISTER in the bed, i don't think thats cool, do you?? :)

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


for sure, but it is good to undress each other :) But i agree without clothes off wins hands down :)

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


if you do that it shows you don't trust him!!! can you not see what i'm saying, your FILMING YOUR BOYFRIEND BECAUSE YOU DON'T TRUST HIM!!!!! how many relationships that work have one or the other secretly filming each other, even considering it is a shore sign you don't trust him

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


let's not get down to petty details, people can put on or take of clothes, you can even have sex in clothes its not difficult :)

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


exactly, do you know why this is???

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


listen sweetie with the greatest respect you have two real options:

1. You forget about feeling sick about asking him the questions and just ask them, if you don't you will always have doubt in your mind, this is not good and you cannot carry a relationship on with doubts such as these.

2. You can't pluck up to ask the question so you tell him that its over, if you leave him before you find out something you won't like it will be much less painful for you.

Sorry to put it too you like that but thats about the top and bottom of it. People can say all they want and talk about different scenario's but the real question is, do you want to continue the relationship in its current state??

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


yes thats one out of three markers, nobody who is lying unless trained etc can lie without leaving some sign.

haha, ok you can discredit me all you like, i can take it :) it works for me anyway so we'll leave it at that :)

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


it sounds to out there to be a lie, nobody has that kind of imagination :)

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


exactly my point, if you were comfortable in your relationship you wouldn't need to post this here, you would either speak with him or trust him out right that he is not sleeping with this girl.

This is why i gave my advice to leave him, better of you being in control than not :)

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


look directly into his eyes, if he's not looking directly at you then there is a chance he is lying, if he is looking anywhere else but at you, he is lying.

Also watch his body language, if he looks like he's hiding something, arms crossed or making his body small then he is closing up, which means there is a good chance he is lying.

If his body is relaxed and open then it means he is not hiding anything, then there is a good chance he is telling the truth.

How long does it take him to answer, there is a good chance if he is lying it will take him a while to come up with an answer, on the other hand if he just comes out with an answer then there is a better chance he is telling the truth. This third point though is the most unreliable out of the three, they eyes and body language are most important to watch

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


nothing to do with religion, if he tells you otherwise its total bull :)


exactly my point, simplistic but true :)

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


correct, i totally agree, this seems rather obvious to me that the only thing needed is for the questions to be asked or one of those 'talks' if he is telling the truth then fine.

The questions need to be asked directly and without warning so then there is no time for a lie, people cannot hide the truth if they have no time to react. The more direct you are the more likely you are to finding the truth, its what i found when one of my ex-gf's was cheating with my best mate, i just asked her straight out eye to eye and she had not time to lie!!. Simplistic you call it, i call it getting to the truth :)

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


ask him face to face and exactly what you want to ask??

Why do you sleep with your sister?? &
Do you have sex with her??


i understand what your saying, however if you haven't got trust or communication then its a very very very bad base for a relationship, don't you agree??

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


another fundamental part of a relationship, which obviously is a problem too!!! without this and trust there is nothing to base a relationship on

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


that may be the best option even though you don't think it now!!!


this means you don't trust him, trust is one of the fundamental parts to a relationships, if you haven't got trust what have you got??


which is exactly why you should leave him NOW

Love / POLISH SIBLINGS SLEEPING TOGETHER! [172]


To be honest darling it sounds like you have a problem there, A guy sleeping whth somebody he calls his sister, or that could be a friend or girlfriend.

Either way it dosen't look good for you. If he is sleeping with her then your looking at a serious case of 'inbred' loving, which is not healthy for anybody. Of course on the other hand you have option 2, he is lying to you and she is actually his girlfriend from Poland.

It sounds to me like you have one option, LEAVE HIM, no matter what you think you feel for him or what you think he feels for you. There can only be tears shed at the end of this, at least this way you have control of those tears. Better sooner than later.

There are plenty more guys out there who will treat you with a lot more respect and better than this guy seems to. You've never met me, you don't know my name, i know nothing about you. You know what they say, the best view is the one of those who are not involved in anyway possible.

If i have got something about the situation wrong then i'm sorry but it seems to me the only way your relationship is giong and thats in the same direction as the titanic, DOWN so get out while you still can and make the pain easier than it will be later.

Sorry for my very forward view and advice, its just the way i work, I hope things work out for you in the future, all the best to a fellow Brit.

T

History / Poland-Russia: never-ending story? [1341]


the Russian government are the oppressors and the Russian people are the victims


Even if they ever did rise up, they would have to many enemies to deal with :)

Life / English man is getting married in Poland - Polish Church issue [37]


Of course it does!!!! Religion sets rules, you follow the rules of god, so it does in some way determine what you do. Your one in millions of people who are religious, look how many people are brain warped by religion or religious beliefs :)

History / Poland-Russia: never-ending story? [1341]


they can falsify all they want, i'm sure everybody who is anybody knows exactly what the Germans have done in the past and their views in the Modern day. Everybody knows there is still a big 'NAZI' problem in Germany yet what are the government doing about it??


thats what you get when you can't control a communist state properly, it blows up in your face :)

History / Poland-Russia: never-ending story? [1341]


firstly i love the use of the slang names :)

Well isn't that the Germans attitude to every other nation!!! We just have to ignore them and let them get on with their imperialist thoughts :) While the rest of the world gets on with making an effort to get along

History / Poland-Russia: never-ending story? [1341]


well deeerrrrr of course i have an idea its hard not too, we all went to school didn't we, we've all read books haven't we. we all know what Russia did to Poland but in the same way with Germany isn't it about time we put all this stuff behind us, yes remember it fine, all those people who were killed or pillaged throughout the course of time.

However we have to stop pointing the finger at some point, don't we???

Life / English man is getting married in Poland - Polish Church issue [37]


exactly yet another part of the world where religion interferes, love, when will people realise that Religion is not the answer and that it serves no purpose

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simple answer NO, go take your African Prince story else where along with your self indulgent, self important excuse of a person. Go and marry and African Princess :)

History / Poland-Russia: never-ending story? [1341]

I'm no specialist on Russian or Polish politics but surely both countries would like to be in the same economical, political and social situation, say of the UK. what i'm saying is, there is always something better in the world than what you have.

Every country is in its particular situation due to actions in the past. Russia is in its situation because of Russia, same for Poland or any other nation in the world, unless of course you have been invaded, i.e. Iraq, DR Congo etc etc

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that is so cool, we have a lot of those types of storms in england well especially this year for some reason, the lightning looks amazing.

Life / "Finalistki Miss Polonia 2007" WHO'S THAT GIRL?? [34]

actually i think she's very average, thats only in my opinion but really i think she isn't all that

actually i'll sum that up, shes like the Polish version of the British Plain Jane :)

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Because Poland would love a leader like Maggie Thatcher, it would be better than the jokers they have in place at the moment :)