UK, Ireland /
All That Manners Business [I'm Polish, moved to UK as an au pair.] [87]
is not really ok in the GB or the US.
Im going to ask nicely - please don't bracket UK with US...we don't like, at all, :-)
Let me clear something up:
In the UK, we don't ask every tom dick and harry "how are you" that would be just stupid, we may say "good morning" when greeting someone or "hi". "how are you" is generally reserved for someone you know who you haven't seen for a while. We say please and thank you regularly because it's good manners.
Some families sit down to dinner at the table as a family, some families dont.
Some mothers / fathers like their sons / daughters partners some dont...
"Some" is the key word here, it has nothing to do with culture - it's all about the individual.
In the US it's ok to took off shoes in some public and put their stinky feet somewhere near you
That's just rude! certainly not a cultural thing, it's a class thing.
on the other hand some Russians blow their noses into sink which in its turn is not fine in the US
If it's in private, what's the problem? Some people wee in the shower :) Not sure it's a cultural thing, it's just habits people have, like you said Sash, only some Russians blow their noses into the sink.
I think we tend to get mixed up with individuals good / bad habits and cultural customs.