Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


Now, now, now, you are attempting to somersault from fact, and thus have landed on your buttocks. Here is what I stated; "if a woman hits you then it is ok to defend yourself and attempt minimal force such as grabbing her flailing arms for instance. If absolutely necessary then yes, a good swift smack might be needed."

I will say this though; if a wacko woman smacks me hard on my face then I would likely smack her right back. I believe in teaching women real equality.


According to you thats foreplay.


In another thread I discussed 'women's shaming tactics' and listed a batch that women use. Examples include; "you're gay"; "you hate women"; you have a small ....."; etc.

As a woman, it is too bad that you are still stuck with your attempts at 'shaming' and sexism. It belittles only you and your inability to debate.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


Sokrates has too much 'character' to save his life when a female attacks him. He's quite the gentleman.


Is there no end to your envy?


Yes, I believe it's in England and it is known for its 12-step Envy Annonymous programs.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


Tell me you're not that stupid. Let's say she's coming at you with a bat, or a gun, or a knife, or a (fill in the blank).

Hope that helps Pilgrim.


You're still stuck in your small box. I've previously explained that in some situations, there is no such thing as "allow" with women. They'll do something whether you want them to or not. It's not 1955 anymore.


You wouldn't say that to my face (without trembling). As to character, the next time a woman hits you with some object, lets say she pokes your eye out, just tell her you're leaving because you have more character than she does.


Yes, you've been quite silent. Perhaps you've been knawing on a Porterhous steak?

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


Hey, I know a woman who is a "fat and ugly" freak. She's "fat and ugly" too; maybe the two of you can...................(?)


Now you know how to get my goat; the answer is NEVER!


Never said that; you are projecting. Now, if a woman hits you then it is ok to defend yourself and attempt minimal force such as grabbing her flailing arms for instance. If absolutely necessary then yes, a good swift smack might be needed.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


I don't know about your "something"; I do know that I don't do dating portals (ugh) and my attempts at poetry have been mediocre at best (and I'm too old for the goth nonsense).

The example about the 'come-on' woman is true. Perhaps you haven't experienced such advances?


In our current western culture a man can walk away (usually recommended) and still get in trouble if a woman files a false accusation. That's the point!


Agreed; women constantly test men. Unfortunately, too many are such manginas.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]

You are right there are too many 'ists'. I do have one correction. While there are hundreds of feminist organizaions (usually funded by tax dollars in whole or in large part); there are really virtually no so-called "Malist" ones as you put it. It's really been a one-way show and it's purpose is to portray men as perpetrators and women as victims. Another way to put it is: men are bad, women are good. Unfortunately, the general media (including advertising) has done just that.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


Yet, in the U.S. if he did strike her she would immediately be claimed as a "battered woman" by the viral anti-male feminists who run various political organizations including abuse shelters. Conversely, if she hit him it would rarely be reported. That is why objective organizations like the "feibert" one which is independent tell the real story; the full story about domestic violence.

Too many women (and politicians) only want to hear one side of this as is evidenced by what goes out in the news media. Feminists actually fear 'real equality' otherwise they'd demand it in full and not in their pick-and-choose methodology.

Feedback / Can someone tell me why my threads are disappearing from the forum?? Aniol X [10]

Rub your tummy counterclockwise and simultaneously say the words, "Abracadabra" 7 times and your posts will reappear. You also get 3 wishes.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


lol, they should give you a Platinum Membership


Not bad, you'd make a decent fiction writer.

Actually I threw in the "mental abuse" aspect to tweek some of the women and manginas here. I just found it rude and uncivilized that this woman would assume my interest and all she had to do was to be sexual.

Of course lots of women in various degrees dress and some 'act' in this brazen manner because that's pretty much all they know. By the way, the restaurant/bar is the "Capital Grille", a place I recommend to those who have certain culinary appreciations.

Shelley, "Thought you'd lost your appitite?"

In rereading you'll note that I stated that I was quickly losing my appetite, not that I'd lost it. Of course the Porterhouse at the "Capital" is the best anywhere and even well fed women like you would be hungry upon casting your senses on it.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]

Well, it happened, I was (mentally) abused yesterday. Here is what happened. I was sitting in an upscale restaurant/bar in Streatorville waiting for a friend of mine to show up.

I was sipping my Merlot and minding my own business when a 30-something woman sat next to me and began to flop her bosom in my direction. As she sat on her stool I noticed that she kept pivoting my way while her dress kept hiking up her thighs. I pretended not to notice but she started the conversation by asking me if the restaurant served good food.

I told her that it was a very good restaurant but looking at her attempt at provocative moves I was quickly losing my appetite. Yes, I can and often am that direct. She flipped, created a scene by shouting and walked out without paying for her half-finished drink.

The female bartender (whom I knew as I'm a regular there) just raised her eyes, shook her head and said, "it takes all kinds". She bought me the next drink, my buddy showed up and I had a terrific Porterhouse steak dinner.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


Perhaps you should go to this thread: Gay Poles of Chicago


You'd be surprised how well I get along with (real) women; you know, the ones who don't nag, don't use sex to get their way (although at some level all women do), and who appreciate a man who doesn't take bullcrap from them. Try it.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


I'm just telling the objective truth; of course it is one that many women (and men) don't want to hear. There is a pretense about all this anti-male stuff.


I've noticed that many more men are marrying foreign women. Of course that doesn't guarantee domestic success either but it does up the odds.

Speaking of foreign women, here is a link that is instructive for 'some' women.
ananova.com/news/story/sm_3434479.html

Sound familiar guys?

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


There are many ways women abuse men without the men being able to do anything about it, or at least not without lots of expense and sorrow. For instance:

cnn.com/2009/CRIME/08/11/georgia.child.support/index.html?eref=rss_latest

The above link shows that a man can be held liable for child support and can be thrown into prison (in this instance for one year) even though the child is NOT his. Of course the woman is not held liable for child fraud.


See above link. As Orwell said, "all animals are created equal" (men and women) "but some animals are more equal than others" (in current western custom and law, women are "more equal").

Life / Why the Poles don't like AC (air conditioners)? [16]

I am boiling in this fcuk Office and those people (yes my work collegues ) keeping out the AC almost off !!!!!

Get a large ice bag and sit on it!

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


All "PC" is connected. It is vested in government overview.


There is no 'allowing' anything; women do what they want to do. You write as if women were chattel or children.

I've seen a woman walk up to her ex boyfriend in a bar and smack him in the face. I suggest he didn't "allow her to behave like that"; she did it because she was a typical jaded female who was accustomed to getting her way and of course using the excuse of being female to get away with it.


Making a point about something is not being obsessed with it. How else does one discuss a particular topic? As to your comment on "emotion" I had to laugh as I'm the one who is always suggesting that too many people make decisions based on emotion instead of logic.

You are confusing strong opinion with 'feelings'. I'm probably the most linear thinking person you'll find. Indeed I posit my opinions not from one vantage point but from an overview as I did with the Feibert studies. (which include both men and women and domestic violence).

csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm

Those 254 scholarly investigations: 199 empirical studies and 55 reviews are objective and not emotional. Who could logically argue with that?


Todays "liberalism" is unfortunately leftism. It is not the classical "liberalism" of yesteryear.


That comment used to be funny (years ago). Today, it isn't. The best way to understand something is to reverse the situation (in this instance the genders) and see if it's still funny. Of course such logical transposition is too much 'real equality' for the majorty of women.


Ah, therein lies a real challenge for women who are accustomed to western societies which indulge them in law and various protective customs.

News / Poland to ban Che Guevara image [55]


I didn't see the movie but the reviews suggested that he was portrayed favorably. His role in executions was downplayed.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


It is mens' truths that are finally being expressed. Surely you are aware of the thousands of feminist books (yes thousands); and magazines, and various articles, etc, that have inundated our societies these past several decades. Virtually all of them are not only one-sided but full of anti-male bias and lies. Men's expressions in these areas have been almost non existent, indeed, a very small fraction compared to the avalanche of women's studies etc. The ratio is something like 30 to 1!

Courts and laws have been affected by this viral antimale misandry and its liberal proponents.

So you'll forgive me if I dare to express the flip side, one that contains much truth not expressed in general media thus unknown to many, as evidenced even here.


There is great disparity between men and women when it comes to sentencing. Additionally, women are not convicted at the same ratios as men are [i]for the same offence]. Courts have even justified women's defenses which are not applicable to men.


Lol, yes indeed "per definition". Thank you for the chuckle.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


Men who think this way get burned by the legal system.

I had to guffaw as to your "lacking confidence" comment. I probably have more contact with women in one week than you have in several months, and there's a reason for it.

You are a dinosaur in your thinking and there are women in this forum who hate what I say yet understand the truth of it.


Agreed, so you should stop being 'macho'. It never wins in court and besides, women find it stupid.


No, but men should be smart men not like the ones who fear having recourse to legal protections, especially in our society which nourishes cries of false abuse and yes, even false charges of rape.


It's liberalism that has infected our courts with anti-male bias and (it) keeps men second class citizens when it comes to justisce for men.

Real Estate / Foreigners: Please don't buy Polish Land! [823]


As an American of Polish ancestry, I am thinking of buying some land in Poland sometime within the next few years; no set date. I speak Polish (well enough anyway) and am seriously considering having a European homestead.

I presume that would be ok with you?

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


How archaic; women reading that comment would just smirk and laugh at such antiquated thinking. Today's women don't accept being 'handled' and indeed attempt to prove it in many ways. Your comments are reminiscent of someone talking as if it's the 1950's. Such macho bravado always hurts men especially in modern times. Times have changed, evidently you haven't.


Such men should just meekly accept that which our courts dish out at them, and as you put it, not concern themselves with a "state apparatus" which will nevertheless, concern "such men" when they lose their kids, house, money, and anything else the courts decide because women will use the legal structures even if men don't. This is the definition of stupidity.

I admit that I am amazed at how little some men know about the realities of modern domestic life and how they don't know how to (legally) protect themselves. Macho thinking indeed.

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


You answer so simply yet leaving someone is a very complicated thing to do. What about finances? furniture? contracts between the two of you? kids? etc, etc. Does she get the house then?

{Sokrates]must-arrest" policies:
I agree with these policies completely, read up on how women wont report abusive partners even if the children suffer.
---------------It's obvious that you are oblivious to the information provided in my link. Perhaps men with outdated ideas like yours are the ones responsible for the one-sided anti-male policies that govern domestic relationships.

Example; a woman seeking a divorce decides to call the police to claim that she is being beaten; the police arrive and find the innocent husband watching television. The "must arrest" law which you foolishly champion makes it imperative that you are arrested - and yes, no immediate proof is needed, just her word. Now she has the upper hand in divorce and custody of kids (which women have anyhow) while you sulk in your cell for a day, pay for a lawyer and otherwise blow lots of money for your defense.

As to your comment that women don't report abuse, that is true but a much higher percentage of women do report abuse (even if there isn't any) than men. It is much more shameful for men to report being hit or beaten by women than the other way around.

For you not to understand the inherent unfairness in our systems which govern these laws is shocking. ...and there are so many of these one-sided laws.

Your lack of logic in these matters is astounding.
csulb.edu/~mfiebert/assault.htm

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]

{Sokrates] my girl tried to kick my ass i'd restrain her, Szwed is right we're stronger, if you're getting beaten by your spouse it only proves something is wrong with you as well as with her.

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That was the thinking in the past but unfortunately you are way out of date on how things are now. Thanks to feminism, even restraining a woman who is beating on you can get you in trouble.

Not infrequently, when a woman starts a physical fight and the man calls the authorities, it is 'he' who is either arrested or asked to leave the premises. For those men who are unaware of the feminist anti-male policies, I'd suggest you get up to speed in this century and find out what the new realities are. The old male bravado does not work in our feminized western cultures.

I suggest you take some time and read the link I posted (post 29). Here is just one scary and unfair tidbit from it;

"Hundreds of jurisdictions have adopted what are called "must-arrest" policies: that is, when local police are called to a scene of reported domestic abuse, they must arrest one partner (almost always the man) even if, by the time the authorities arrive, the incident has cooled off and there is no sign of violence, and even if (as is often the case) the woman doesn't want the man arrested. Many of these same jurisdictions have also enacted "no-drop" policies--meaning that if a woman does press charges, she will not be permitted to change her mind and drop them later. Under VAWA, $33 million will be spent this year on the "Grants to Encourage Arrest" program, which uses federal money to induce localities to adopt must-arrest policies. Next year, the budget of the "Grants to Encourage Arrest" program will jump to $59 million."

Love / Abuse in relationships (my first Polish girlfriend) [216]


Perhaps the most underreported abuse and violence is female domestic abuse of spouses and boyfriends. Men are too embarrassed to notify the police when they are battered (to use feminist terminology).

In western countries there are shelters and various forms of help for women which are usually funded by tax dollars. That is not the case for males who have to "take it like a man".

batteredmen.com

Virtually all studies show that women hit men just as often as men strike women. The difference is in reporting these activities. Another difference is the unfortunate fact that when women hit or kick men it is often considered humorous. In a domestic scenario, personal relationships and emotions rule so 'size does not matter'. Men often do not strike back even though they could.

Life / Warnings about Life in Poland [71]


So you don't have a sense of humor; ok, but a grown-up adult wouldn't post something as stupid as this:


Yes, "loads of rapists" indeed.

Life / Warnings about Life in Poland [71]


The neighbor only said that because your knees were shaking.


Just the other day I was having a really good time and this Pole came up to me and began to pee. When I told him I was unhappy he stopped and said "sorry" and began looking for other signs of joy to pee on.


Yea, such a little thing this WWII; why don't Poles just forget about it?

News / Poland to ban Che Guevara image [55]

".Che Guevara .....a tee shirt with Bin laden on....Hitler anyone..... prefer Uncle Joe myself..."

Let the idiots wear whatever t-shirt they want to wear; it only exposes others to their stupidity and ignorance. Just because something is legal doesn't mean that it is a smart thing to do.

Life / Warnings about Life in Poland [71]


Beware of the Sasquatch colony although they are harmless unless provoked by female scent.

News / New York Post : "Polish" Death Camps and more [278]

Those who do not believe in an 'afterlife' won't get one. Those who do believe in 'something' beyond this existence will get one. How do I know? Heh,heh,heh,......

UK, Ireland / UK HATRED TOWARDS POLES GROWING? [122]


Not ironic at all; some 3 million Polish Catholics perished during WWII, now that's quite a bit of racism. Indeed, since about 1795 three countries (Germany, Russia and Austria) have been very racist against Poland. Additionally, minorities within Poland were also racist.

For example, one can rightfully claim that villages which were 100% Jewish (shtetls) and excluded Poles (who were sometimes called "cattle") were racist. The sword cuts both ways.

If anything Polish tolerance ranked high compared to other countries. Poles were not involved in the slave trade; Poles did not colonize parts of Africa or Asia, etc. Any honest assessment must include those things which so many ignore.

News / New York Post : "Polish" Death Camps and more [278]



Dershowitz represents Jews very very poorly. After listening to any one of his 'talks', one walks away hoping that all Jews are not like him (of course they are not but the impressions this man leaves are so negative).


Maybe G-d changed His mind about the homeland? I've often thought that Florida would make for a good Jewish homeland; it's a lot safer, has friendly Cubans, and all that military money could be spent on alligator leather goods.