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daffy   
27 Feb 2007
History / Secret Society/Secret Police in Poland [47]

thanks Rafal - what about secret police or other 'such' discret orgs in Poland.

Its an interesting subject - ppl in the back ground who puil puppet strings

for jobs, for favor, for wealth, for crime, for better, for worse

some good, some bad.

interesting
daffy   
27 Feb 2007
History / Concentration camps: where did all the birds go? [10]

artur, tak, we only did a little on the gulags, but with the conc camps we were told that the gulags were another example of human atrocity and that was all we needed then

though now, more to learn would be bemeficial
daffy   
27 Feb 2007
History / Concentration camps: where did all the birds go? [10]

jimbo - where are you from?

I was schooled in the UK and IRE and i learned about the camps in a very, detailed, way
I appreciate this education as its good to give young impressionable youth the true horror of it so that it lasts them all there lives. lest they ever forget and repeat the past.

I would hope my children are taught about it too. never forget, never repeat.
daffy   
26 Feb 2007
History / Secret Society/Secret Police in Poland [47]

LOL well said - though im more along the lines of Communist Secret police - The catholic churches involvement etc. Freemasonry in Poland etc etc
daffy   
26 Feb 2007
Life / Non-verbal communication of Polish people? [10]

Oh god yea, Ive been to shops in Poland and it is the elderly are the worst at shoving and HITTING! whats with that!! - excuse me works MIRACLES!

The younger shop assistants LOVE the fact I am struggling with Polish and are very helpful and charming I must say! even the blokes were friendly!

In Ireland - it is not uncommon to say 'hello', 'how are ya' when you pass a stranger on the street. In poland, old habits die hard, i shocked some old fella when i did this and made some other girl smile

My girlfriend tells me it is just not done and that is why - i ask why, she just says, because.

it really doesnt answer the question
daffy   
25 Feb 2007
UK, Ireland / Polish night in an english club? No way....... [51]

er i think its fine too, im just saying not my number 1 place to go - in Ireland, the places that serve alcohol in the evening are usually loud and not conducive to getting to know the otehr person. just to drink and drink - infact - i think thats why they are so loud that you drink more talk less :)
daffy   
25 Feb 2007
UK, Ireland / Polish night in an english club? No way....... [51]

ah yea i hear ya dasla.

I dont think clubs are the place to find top women! (though it can happen of course)
Im like you in that i want to go to a place (without alcohol really) chillax and chat! :)
daffy   
25 Feb 2007
UK, Ireland / Polish night in an english club? No way....... [51]

I suggest you possible visit a theatre or some other social gathering that attracts inteligent, attractive, cultured British women, you might be suprised what you find there.

exactly :)
daffy   
25 Feb 2007
UK, Ireland / Polish night in an english club? No way....... [51]

going back in the summer.

id agree in a way - in the UK and IRE - the good looking, smart girls DONT go to clubs! :)

its not the done thing here now - you meet them at house parties and colleges etc :)

clubs are for binge drinkers now in our islands - pity but look, you see the same i do! UGH :)
daffy   
25 Feb 2007
Love / Foreigners in relationships with Poles - do your in-laws accept you? [66]

Give over - we all make judgements based on what little info we get and first impressions take ages to over-write. Ever met a person you just disliked from minute one but years later your best of pals!

As human beings - we catergorise, label and make judgements without intending or meaning too. We apply defaults, preceptions on experiences, past instances in a nano second

its behavioral science baby!
daffy   
25 Feb 2007
Love / Who is not looking a Polish woman .... :-) [17]

I wasn't looking for a Polish woman...I WAS looking for a woman (polishwomen.com) and i found many :)

It just so happened the one I found, who was the MOST amazing was in fact, Polish.
Which bodes well for my opinion as all her friends and family are wonderful too!!! :)
daffy   
25 Feb 2007
Love / Foreigners in relationships with Poles - do your in-laws accept you? [66]

Why do you automatically presume that we are against such marriages?

eh, my statement doesnt say that i presume YE are against such marriages.

i dont like that, that they felt I had to ask what faith i was, as they would have made a judgement about me, without ever having met me and THAT is what i dont like.

Im sure you can appreciate prejudice :)
daffy   
25 Feb 2007
UK, Ireland / Polish night in an english club? No way....... [51]

I really feel those who are racist are beyond ignorant. Please include, insecure

I disagree with the bouncer not letting them in, it would have made a great experience for them! In my city we have salsa nights, should we only let in latino's? (the answer is no btw :) all in!) Its a fun way to DIVERSIFY and have fun :)

I don't like people who make degrading remarks for the sake of it. peer approval. or misplaced hatred for the bad things in there own lives.

Women, to me, are the greatest beings on this planet! I love them! there bodies, there souls, there nuturing, there guile. So many aspects! (and im told some women actually find these in men too :) )

As to race. I feel the need to remind people that if you think about it, the earth is but a grain of sand on a very large beach. We are so small (and getting smaller with advances in transport and tech) That it is foolish, petty & bigoted to 'hate' someone for where they are from!

I do believe it IS ok to hate them if in a due and fair process they are found to be criminals (but then, most of our criminals, are homegrown :)) and we latch on the ONE 'foreigner' and label ALL of them for the bad and wrong in our homes - its MADNESS!
daffy   
25 Feb 2007
Love / Foreigners in relationships with Poles - do your in-laws accept you? [66]

Why do you automatically presume that we are against such marriages?

i didnt presume anything, I cannot see where you got that conclusion from

I merely said that that is what her friends asked and it was funny! as neither of us, it would not matter as we love each other

and you dont have to 'choose' a faith to be married, you can just get married in a registry office without the interference of religion at all!

:)
daffy   
24 Feb 2007
News / The Polish Economy and its future [101]

I tell you in ten years you will see the changes take effect. In 20 years you will be an economic force as part of the EU
daffy   
24 Feb 2007
Love / Foreigners in relationships with Poles - do your in-laws accept you? [66]

I am 23, she is 23 (she is 2 months older)

We love each other. I am Irish, she is Polish. Her family were very warm and welcoming on the few occasions i have stayed with them.

The funny thing was, that all her friends would ask her (she told me) was I a catholic. i dont like that, i was raised a catholic but i would never let that hinder my love. Nor her's but she just said it was funny and typical polish reaction, i guess i cant blame them, I know it was an Irish atitude too.

It's a distance relationship at present. She is finishing her masters and i my degree and accountantcy exams. We hope to live together then. But my family and her family have been so welcome, supportive and for lack of better words - family!

Love, has no boundries. I believe this and am living this.
daffy   
24 Feb 2007
UK, Ireland / Heavy drinking culture in the UK - is it still the same in Poland? [69]

In Ireland too! I was in the Army reserver for four years ( a great experience) but when we were off duty in the middle of nowwhere - drink was all that was there!!! crazy!!!

And its a sad state of affairs in the British isles (geographically, not politically - this includes the island of ireland) Drinking culture is ridiculous!

And the eastern Europeans (not all) fit in very nicely to this! And from being in Poland - i can see the same culture is there.

I dont drink as much as i used to - maybe 3-5 pints over an entire night and maybe a short or two for special occasions but even then - i am prob not in the pub more than once a month!!

What are yer views? drinking level?
daffy   
21 Feb 2007
Feedback / Language thread feedback [3]

Oh thats just as good, as a newish member i guess i mad the 'no0b' mistake of not checking all the features :)

It does mean i have to look through it all so thats not so bad - but i wanted admin to do *ALL* the work :) (kidding)

THANKS! BARDZO!!
daffy   
21 Feb 2007
Feedback / Language thread feedback [3]

Hey, Can we possibly make stickies of the best, useful posts in this section?

like verbs, phrases, cases etc. and clearly label them as such?

And leave the individual questions below.

keeping the translation section to its own section again?
daffy   
21 Feb 2007
Feedback / Regarding an announcement on cleaning the forums [18]

For sure we won't have a moderator who takes action based on his/her personal preferences...

too true too true! i was a moderator of my university forum (one of many) we all had different opinons but all we ended up doing was cleaning and moving :) we did not abuse power as to do so - was to sign your moderatership death sentance - AND nothing could get it back!!!
daffy   
20 Feb 2007
History / What does it mean to be Polish? [46]

Feb 20, 07 [11:08] - Attached on merging:
What does it mean to be a Pole?

Culturally, societally, et al.

How do you feel it is seen abroad? how is it seen at home.

What expectations do you have of your society, realisations, dreams, etc.
daffy   
20 Feb 2007
History / Katyn- forgiven and forgotten? [111]

it is our responsibility to keep issues like Katyn alive,

so that it canot be let happen again. So many time in many countries there are atrocities committed and slowly but surely through awareness of the pain, suffering and evil of it - it will see an end.