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Need help in relationship with a Polish man [33]
Come on girl. Get rid of him!! He will always be dependent on you. Stand on your own feet! You have to get control of your life, Don't let him! It willl only get worse in time and you'll one day get so fed up that you'll get into a big argument and break up.
I know Polish people here in the US and even though they've been in this country for 10, 20 years, they still need help with letters, taxes, translations, etc. They always will feel that they are from a foreign country and everyone has to help them.
Find another friend. And even if he is Polish, he might be more ambitious and try to learn the english language so not to be dependent on others.
So it might be hard, but from what you're saying, this guy will be using you to help him in life and you get nothing in return. Many Poles are like that when they come to a foreign country. They think you owe them to help them get ahead, while your feelings don't mean anything. It is always them.
This is your life, you should control it, not him.