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Polish boyfriends [77]
One BIG thing: you cannot trust what is being said in a language you don't understand. That is an incredibly dangerous position for you to be in. Lord knows what they are saying, but odds are it isn't good.
but after 16 years together I would have thought you had learnt enough Polish to understand the jist of the conversations? If not, then thats worrying. I am sorry you have had a negative experience, but just cos your partner is speaking his native tongue to his ex or female friend doesnt mean he's up to no good. Maybe yours was, but dont judge all Polish men by him.