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Trying to find friend (Lukasz Bezak) from Katowice


Welshie29 1 | 6  
12 Dec 2008 /  #1
Hi

I am trying to trace a guy I know who is from Katowice.

His name is Lukasz Bezak and he is 20 years old.

If anyone knows him and anyway I can contact him, can you please PM me as soon as possible.

Thanks.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
12 Dec 2008 /  #2
Have you tried naszaklasa.pl?
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
12 Dec 2008 /  #3
How do you know Lukasz Bezak wants to be found?

Usually if I guy goes off radar, he does not want to be found.

And that ladies and gentlemen is why I should not write on these type threads.
OP Welshie29 1 | 6  
12 Dec 2008 /  #4
His father told me that we should all stay in contact, or at least try. That's why I'm searching for him.

Have you tried naszaklasa.pl?

Can it be translated into English?
Wroclaw Boy  
12 Dec 2008 /  #5
SeanBM GOLD MEMBER

Chandler Bing!!
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
12 Dec 2008 /  #6
That's Mr. SeanBM to the non GOLD MEMBERS, ha ha ha
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
12 Dec 2008 /  #7
Are you sure he is 20?
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
12 Dec 2008 /  #9
How did you lose him and when?
What is your connection to the him?
What about the telephone book?
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
12 Dec 2008 /  #10
I have him, it's ok. It's being dealt with by PM. Good old Naszaklasa
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
12 Dec 2008 /  #11
How do you know you are not aiding and abetting?
Wroclaw 44 | 5,386  
12 Dec 2008 /  #12
His father told me that we should all stay in contact, or at least try. That's why I'm searching for him.

Are you telling us that he doesn't speak to his father ?
polishgirltx  
12 Dec 2008 /  #13
haha... so many questions to ask...

is it Bezak or Beżak? I found him on nasza-klasa.pl
OP Welshie29 1 | 6  
12 Dec 2008 /  #14
The first one. Bezak
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
12 Dec 2008 /  #15
so many questions to ask...

Well i find this kind of thing a bit strange.
It could be perfectly straight forward but how do we know?
This could be anyone looking for anyone for any reason, no?
Who are we to help track down some guy for a girl?
OP Welshie29 1 | 6  
12 Dec 2008 /  #16
He went back to Poland 3 months ago.

Are you telling us that he doesn't speak to his father ?

He does talk to his father.
polishgirltx  
12 Dec 2008 /  #17
ok....so he is on nasza-klasa.pl
register and type £ukasz Bezak, 20, Katowice... there is only the one guy...
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
12 Dec 2008 /  #18
Yeah, I've got it pgtx
Wroclaw 44 | 5,386  
12 Dec 2008 /  #19
He does talk to his father.

And you speak to his father.

But you don't know where he is.
telefonitika  
12 Dec 2008 /  #20
Usually if I guy goes off radar, he does not want to be found.

i will second they wish to keep off the radar for many reasons
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
12 Dec 2008 /  #21
It has been resolved.
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
12 Dec 2008 /  #22
You have just signed his death warrant.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
12 Dec 2008 /  #23
I've sealed his protection :)
OP Welshie29 1 | 6  
13 Dec 2008 /  #24
You have just signed his death warrant.

What is it with you? All I wanted to do was just find him. Anyway, you don't know him like I do. I'm not a serial man eater or anything.
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
14 Dec 2008 /  #25
I do not mean to be disrespectful.

The story you have given us is not exactly a tear jerker.

Why did the guy leave and not keep in contact? unless he did not want to be found?

A guy (Lukasz) you know is in Katowice, you both speak to his father yet you can not find him.
Why don't you just ask his dad?.

I'm not a serial man eater or anything.

Is that not what a serial man eater would say ;)
OP Welshie29 1 | 6  
14 Dec 2008 /  #26
It's alright I've found him now anyway with the help of Seanus. Guess this post can be closed now.
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
14 Dec 2008 /  #27
with the help of Seanus.

Aiding and abetting is a crime too.

I am of course joking.....or ....am....I?
Yes I am, of course (or am I)
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
14 Dec 2008 /  #28
What the eye doesn't see, doesn't hurt you (does it?) (doesn't it?)

Seriously, this thread can be deleted, she got what she came for and can PM me if she needs any further assistance.

Part of the forum is people tracing, sth Wrocław likes.
SeanBM 35 | 5,808  
14 Dec 2008 /  #29
What the eye doesn't see, doesn't hurt you (does it?) (doesn't it?)

Ignorance is bliss?

Part of the forum is people tracing.

When does tracing become hunting?

What I am getting at is (no offence Welshie29 this is not necessarily about this thread)

That people on here help people a lot, which is good but how do we know we are helping?.
There have been several "incidents" and probably dozens more of people asking for help, who if you knew the full details you would run a mile from.

I am not questioning people's good nature but merely questioning the legitimacy of some of the "victims" or "people who need help.

The path to hell is paved with good intentions.

Wroclaw likes finding family trees, he has a fantastic quote about it in his profile.
This is different. "Looking for the dead and putting meat on the bones. Family History".

I am not having a go at Welshie29 or Seanus, I would just like this to be a discussion.
Seanus 15 | 19,706  
14 Dec 2008 /  #30
I was joking, I don't see genocide with my own eyes but it does hurt to think what unspeakable horrors take place.

Yeah, I hear ya bro. Still, how do you know that the money you give to charity actually goes to charity? How do you know that your tax will not go on sth completely irrational and undemocratic? Funding warmongers is pretty serious stuff in itself.

There is a certain element of trust needed in many human relationships. Whether it be inherent or earned is another matter. You trust that you get paid, you trust that your partner isn't cheating etc etc. I had no evil intentions by helping Welshie. You go by what you read in this case, 'trying to find friend'. Much in the same way as I apologised to edward, he just wrote it in such a fashion that he was having a laugh. He told me that he wasn't so I offered my apology.

I have noticed that, whether it be translations or matters such as these, we are forever second guessing people. Context, mood etc etc. Hence my comment to others that a forum is ripe pickings for abuse and misunderstanding. Pawian agrees with me, teaching directly minimises the danger of this happening.

Let's try and give the benefit of the doubt once in a while :)

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