she's not his "Missus".
You might want to learn the slang definition of 'missus' LOL
Nor does marriage seem remotely in the offing
That has zero to do with this thread. Of are you so old-skool that you actually believe that people must be married before they procreate? Lol
as he came between the girl and her family, and now she has to pick sides.
It says that nowhere in the OP, no need to make things up and put words in his mouth.
He's not even close to financial secure and seriously lacks maturity, and has an alcohol problem, to boot.
You know that how? Dude is working and paying his rent, seems like he's on top of his finances to me.
Also, he went on the booze with his buddy one night, hardly a drinking problem.
They knew each other for about a year before he got her pregnant. Very, very unlikely that this was a planned or desired pregnancy. I feel sorry for any baby born under such circumstances
How utterly condescending of you. Bit of empathy wouldn't go astray for a change mate.
Sorry, but I firmly believe that people who are not financially secure and mature enough to handle simple everyday situations
What the OP wrote about is hardly an everyday situation, the way I see it he handled the situation to the best of his ability, at least he though he was doing the right thing and he got taken advantage of by some ungrateful scrotes for trying to be helpful.