Problem with my Polish boyfriend

Anytime. You made no mistake from what I can see :)

How about you email him (it's always way too emotional over the phone) and just honestly, but calmly, tell him how you feel about his behaviour? And then sit back and wait for an answer, whatever that answer might be. He is the only person who can explain this whole situation to you. And if he doesn't answer your email - that's an answer in itself. Good luck and don't let anyone on this forum tell you what your boyfriend is probably doing or where your relationship is allegedly going. :-)

that woman sounds like a tissue .....use once then throw away!

haha. If all of those people experienced the same thing they would worry, too.

Merged: Jealous Polish boyfriend

My polish boyfriend gets very jealous and moody if I talk to other polish men. He doesn't react like that to other races such as English, Asian, black, so I'm wondering what the issue is?

Dreamergirl, this is because he knows you prefer Polish guys :)
and Polish men are more of an Alfa male so that's another reason ;)

Hard to know where you get that idea from.

Personal experience most likely.

Or personal misapprehension. A very different thing, Wulky.

So because he knows I have dated other poles that makes him jealous?

You are right, maybe she has seen Polish men next to a foreigner like you who is as far from alpha male as quasars are from our solar system, then she would get quite a misapprehension. But the chance of that is rather small.

That's the first thing that came to my mind. Talk to him.

Oh, and one more thing:


English is not a race but rather a nationality as much as French, German, Polish etc.

Tell him to **** off.


Really !? I thought the English are a special species of mankind born to rule over the seas ...

Why would I tell him that?