That is not how you look for a wife. You walk up to the first one you really like at a party, in church, in a park, or a sidewalk restaurant and ask for her phone number. Even if she refuses, that day she will be telling all her friends about what happened.
Out of 10, 2 will. Or, better yet, give her your business card and ask her to call you. This is less threatening and means you are employed and not in a warehouse.
and wrote random rants online about how Polish women are golddiggers
How do those dots connect? Random guy posts random rants online and random women call his non-random boss?