What do Polish men think about this.
I'm not Polish, but I think it's perfectly cool to answer your questions anyway..
Would they date a hot older woman.
I know I would..
Would it be frowned upon by your society.
Yes. But I don't care about what they say. That's what you get after a lifetime of humiliation. Nothing I've done was ever good enough, and even at the moments when it was plain to see for everyone that it was, it wasn't..
So this would be my advice to everyone: You shouldn't hide behind a mask and you should mind your own bussiness if it doesn't personally affect you in any way, unless your help can be useful or constructive. I would tell you to live your own life and be happy with everything you already have..
The best things in life are free, friendship and happiness being two of those things.
Would your mother be very upset that a 25+ be dating a 35+.
Maybe she would, actually I've heard her say numerous times that she wouldn't like it, but it's my life isn't it?
Would the family pressure be too much for such a relationship?
They would have to kill me to put an end to such a relationship. I think this would be anyone's answer when you really love someone. If you care more about what other people will say about you or your partner than you care about your partner, then you shouldn't get yourself involved in any relationship?
But, those are just my personal vieuws..