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I want to know, how do I show the Polish women that Im interested in knowing her?



ImKevin    
20 Apr 2017  #1

Like, what sort of questions? especially when I want to text her? obv I know how to talk about nothing because its how I sorta encourage the conversation and direct it to go some place . But I dont want to appear that Im not interested. What kinda questions can I ask to know her more through text?

She has a child as well and is single, I am interested regardless but I don't know how Polish women are when it comes to dating or meeting new guys despite having a child. I would really really apprieciate it if someone can help me.


DominicB - | 1,822    
20 Apr 2017  #2

Why don't you just out and tell here that you are seriously interested in her? I can't see what beating around the bush is supposed to accomplish.

Her being Polish doesn't have anything to do with anything.
mafketis 16 | 4,027    
20 Apr 2017  #3

But I dont want to appear that Im not interested.

Relax. If she's interested she'll let you in very unambiguous terms (on the whole Polish women are not the type to wait forever for a man to make the first move).
Atch 8 | 1,407    
20 Apr 2017  #4

What kinda questions can I ask to know her more through text?

You can't get to know someone through texts. Anyway if you already know her well enough to have her phone number and are texting her regularly then do what Dominic says and just ask her out for God's sake and get to know her in the normal way. Also, it's true that her being Polish is irrelevant in terms of whether she wants to have a relationship. Some single mothers with a young child don't want a guy in their life and some do. Nationality doesn't really have any bearing on that. As for Polish women in general, when it comes to 'dating new guys' they are not at all shy. However be warned that once they decide to get involved with you they expect a lot of committment quite quickly. They expect the relationship to go somewhere - and fast, by 'western' standards.

To be honest though, you sound a bit too immature to be considering a relationship with a woman who has a kid. Just don't start anything if you're not ready to fill the role of step-father at this point in your life.
OP ImKevin    
20 Apr 2017  #5

Relax. If she's interested she'll let you in very unambiguous terms (on the whole Polish women are not the type to wait forever for a man to make the first move).

Would it be fine if I am the one who says good morning?
OP ImKevin    
20 Apr 2017  #6

Thanks for your response, I apprieciate it . And I really sound immature in what way? And for single mothers that do. Would there expectations be the same as what you mentioned later on your post? or is it different? and I only included nationality due to the fact that I believed each countries do things differently, there people have a more different style of culture and tradition hence why I mentioned the nationality part
Atch 8 | 1,407    
20 Apr 2017  #7

You sound immature in that you sound like a teenage boy with the old 'how do I let a girl know I like her' thing. You don't sound as if you have much experience with women.

Yes, you're right that there can be cultural differences but the cultural differences between Poland and western Europe or America or Australia are not that vast. With respect you don't sound like a native English speaker so I don't know what the culture is like in your own country but if you're from any of the places I just mentioned, then you should have no trouble interacting with a Polish person.

Now, without wishing to be unkind, you come across as one of the following, a) a kid, b) a simpleton or c) a troll. So that's all the advice I'm prepared to give. Best of luck with your romantic pursuits!
WhirlwindTobias - | 73    
20 Apr 2017  #8

If you don't know how to text a woman without asking how, then you sure as hell don't know how to help one raise a child. (Edit: regardless of country)

Find a relationship with less inherent responsibly.
OP ImKevin    
20 Apr 2017  #9

@Atch

Oh sorry . I didn't know how correctly to write the question, so I thought simply writing, "How do I let a girl I know I like her" was more of a broad question. And broad enough for me to explain what I trying to ask. I do have experience but I wanted to try and respect the culture and way of doing things in Poland hence why I put so much value in the nationality of things. But as you've said later on that it's not so much differences. I can understand and probably agree with that. I just however, don't want to come off as insulting and ignorant to one's nationality if you know what I mean. Perhaps, it is foolish of me to overthink the situation, especially in regards to the nationality. But, you know, being respectful is what I prefer which is why I kept asking silly things.

I am French American. Sorry for not making it clear.
peter_olsztyn 5 | 1,042    
22 Apr 2017  #10

how do I show the Polish women that Im interested in knowing her?

Just display a peacock train.

but I wanted to try and respect the culture and way of doing things in Poland

We aren't saints and angels ;)



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