well, yes freedom and independence are important, but do all Polish women want to the mirror image of all things USA?
Frank, Poland is moving towards a New light. women still nuture men because
at times they require this , and play the role of oh poor poor sick me. lol
getting back to the point, here in the US , theres not many women who dont work
and have a career and attempt to do all these needed chores which are
exhausting after long hours at work. Physically, most women can do them, mentally
its frustrating to be the only one doing them when there is perfectly able
bodies adults who can pick up after themselfs and help out when needed.
generations change, it dont mean the values arent there, when a man says
your my princess, does he mean cinderella? do all the house work, and find
the time to get yourself all pretty for the ball?
we do what we can to keep the whole process going, but in all fairness, is this
a fair way for men to think , when women have to in this day and age have to
also work along side her husband and keep up the bills and have the housework
label branded on her, cook, take care of the kids etc.
when men who think this is the only way understand that they need a quick
reality check because this is how we become weary and fed up and say
goodbye and toss in the towel, then divorce rates might go down.
Women are taken advantage of just because of the label "homemaker"
and if you think about it, what kind of life is that for someone who is the
Rock of the family, and keeps it going.
I say ,more power to those in Poland who have gone above and beyond and
made these changes.
no matter what, we will always have those instincts of sensitivity and nuturing
for children and our husbands. its built in like you say.