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riki_rwanda 3 | 23
30 May 2011  #1
Hi,

I met a nice girl several weeks ago at AGH in Krakow, we had several phone calls and a lot of sms.

She is a very interesting girl, studying for as an Environmental engineer, and Finance we have a lot grey zones with each other and seem more then nice to meet the girl once more.

Bcs of my work I had not yet found the time to meet her, now I finally found the time to meet her around Wisla river.

Problem, not really a problem more an issue is that I am not use to the dating game, such as do I have to bring something or what to avoid.

Especially what do Polish girls like to do on the first date.
So would like to know some DO's and DONT's

Ps, Hope that I will not get the racial slurs from Jarnowa and co
gumishu 11 | 5,015
30 May 2011  #2
don't get too romantic on the first date ;)

well, I am joking a bit

go to a nice cukiernia that also serves tea and coffee - she may want to stay in or you can have a 'takeaway' cake (don't go for ordinary buns ask her what is the best thing) - you can then have a sit on a bank on a Vistula bank ;) and have a conversation - eating helps communication ;)

(you can have icecreams instead of bakery but don't go for plain icecreams)

these are just my perceptions and suggestions - think it over on your own - you can still come up with much better ideas yourself
z_darius 14 | 3,969
30 May 2011  #3
Polish dating tips

I never tipped or was tipped for dating ;)
ZIMMY 6 | 1,601
30 May 2011  #4
Especially what do Polish girls like to do on the first date.

1/They prefer to pay for the first date because they take "equality" seriously.
2/After they buy you dinner, they expect sex.
3/They'll appreciate it if you spank them.(this is when they say, "me Jane, you Tarzan")

Hope this helps
OmegaSupreme 1 | 5
4 Jun 2011  #5
Dos:

- Bring her a small gift. Flowers would be nice, but preferably something that she can stash away while out on the date. A small box of chocolates or candy would probably work well.

- Plenty of money. You're expected to pay for everything. If she offers to pay for anything, refuse. Such an offer is a test, and letting her pay for anything is an automatic fail.

- Plenty of compliments. Be sure to tell her how extraordinarily beautiful she looks, even if she doesn't. If you don't compliment her appearance within the first 30 seconds of meeting her, she'll hold it over your head for the rest of your life.

- Ideas of what to do. Polish women...well, all Slavic women in general expect a man to be a man. Know what you two are going to do for the evening. If you show the slightest bit of hesitation on your plans, she will then throw all of your plans out the window, drag you around town for the rest of the evening while every 2 minutes rubbing the fact that you're not a man into your face.

Don'ts:

- Forget to bring a small gift. Not unless you like the idea of all topics of conversation for the rest of the night being how you're a cheapskate and that she obviously is not worth a penny to you.

- Expect sex. Just....don't.
- Hint about sex. She'll then go on a 2 hour tirade on how you think she's a prostitute.
- Hesitate to pay. See above.
- Look at other women. Just trust me on this.
- Mention any women from your past. Regardless of how the date goes, she will quite literally hold this over your head for the rest of your life. Trust me on this also.

Those are not all-inclusive of what to do or don't do, but should give you a good start. Good luck!
jarnowa 4 | 499
4 Jun 2011  #6
Ps, Hope that I will not get the racial slurs from Jarnowa and co

Like i ever did that before.

I only asked you if you moved to Poland to chase white men's women.
You denied that and now look what topic you opened. The generic title of this topic reveals that you're not interested in just that one particular girl. You want to have tips for chasing Polish girls in general.

Otherwise you wouldn't ask questions like this:

Especially what do Polish girls like to do on the first date.

So i was right, you are just like many other African men invading white countries: trying to bed as many white women as possible. And don't call me racist again for simply stating the facts.
teflcat 5 | 1,032
4 Jun 2011  #7
riki. You have the measure of this poor bastard jarnowa. My advice would be to just be yourself. If you don't, then you are acting, and if so, you will either have to continue to be "in role", or later come clean and admit the fact. Take it slow and easy and, above all, have fun.
poland_
4 Jun 2011  #8
My advice would be to just be yourself

Good advice from tefclat, there is a hotel in Krakow called Hotel Pod Wawelem. They have a fantastic roof terrace, you sit there with an awesome panoramic of Krakow, Wawel castle to the left and Wisla river front and right. It is open roof so on a hot day it is the place to be, it is not high end prices and the food is good. She will like it. Enjoy
BBman - | 344
4 Jun 2011  #9
(you can have icecreams instead of bakery but don't go for plain icecreams)

you may want to explain "ice cream" in more detail to avoid any problems on the first date...;)
woodgey - | 28
5 Jun 2011  #10
Especially what do Polish girls like to do on the first date.

Same thing all girls like to do although I don't know what that is. Find some place to go that shows you have thought about what she likes.
OP riki_rwanda 3 | 23
7 Jun 2011  #11
Good advice from tefclat, there is a hotel in Krakow called Hotel Pod Wawelem

Thx for the advice Warszawski, indeed the panoramic view was outstanding
ZIMMY 6 | 1,601
7 Jun 2011  #12
Same old nonsense; it's always what a man should do. What are the responsibilities of a woman on a date?
Is it enough for them just to sit there, maybe smile, and do the silly small talk?
sobieski 107 | 2,128
7 Jun 2011  #13
tips for chasing Polish girls in general.

You are pathetic. Related to Filip Dewinter by any chance ?
poland_
7 Jun 2011  #14
Thx for the advice Warszawski, indeed the panoramic view was outstanding

No worries riki_r, glad to hear you had a good time.
George8600 10 | 637
7 Jun 2011  #15
don't get too romantic on the first date ;)

true, but eventually all the Polish girls I have been with love romanticism... and even though this was probably correlated to their intelligence as opposed to ethnicity...they weren't as materialistic or obsessed with media labels as American girls were.
southern 75 | 7,097
7 Jun 2011  #16
With polish women on first date it is important to forget to bring condoms.
Seanus 15 | 19,706
7 Jun 2011  #17
Is that because you don't expect to get laid, southern? ;0
southern 75 | 7,097
7 Jun 2011  #18
It acts as a deterrant and a provocation.For example after the question did you bring condoms? sorry kochanie I forgot.So you test the rough dimension.
Seanus 15 | 19,706
7 Jun 2011  #19
Are you fibbing again? ;)
southern 75 | 7,097
7 Jun 2011  #20
Really in your experience when do Polki put it out?The 3 date rule applies as in western world but there are surprises.(to the positive direction).
Seanus 15 | 19,706
7 Jun 2011  #21
I don't date those who think they are above me, period! Besides, I am married!
southern 75 | 7,097
7 Jun 2011  #22
Besides, I am married

Married men are usually more popular.
sobieski 107 | 2,128
7 Jun 2011  #23
Why is that ? From my experience married men tend to fall asleep on the sofa watching the telly, instead of going clubbing. Could also have to do something with the age :)
NomadatNet 1 | 457
8 Jun 2011  #24
It acts as a deterrant and a provocation.For example after the question did you bring condoms? sorry kochanie I forgot.So you test the rough dimension.

Southern Assange, what is the testing rough dimension?
ZIMMY 6 | 1,601
8 Jun 2011  #25
Evidently, women do not have any responsibilities on a first date; only men do.
Midas 1 | 571
8 Jun 2011  #26
Well, Riki, I was kinda wanting to ask this question a long time ago and finally mustered up the courage, so bear with me, plz.

You're African from Rwanda, right?

I want to ask has the Simon Mol case made it more difficult for African guys to get "dates" in Poland? Or is it still like in pre-Mol days, an all-You-can-eat buffet?
OP riki_rwanda 3 | 23
23 Jun 2011  #27
Hi Midas, hmm I read something about this guy, but to be honest has been a long time ago, and I am more of one women at the time guy, don't need too much fuss, have enough of this by my own, with my child and the mother,...

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Good news is that the girl I met 2 month ago is really going good between us.

We have had wonderfull time with eachother and luckly she does understand my situations.

I would liek to surprise her for a weekend to the mountains, but I don't know if this is a bit to soon, we are dating now for almost 2 months,...

Maybe I should ask her but then the surprise is gone off course.

Any suggestion??
Rwanda_2
5 Oct 2011  #28
Hi Riki, you are still around? How is it going with your girl :)
OP riki_rwanda 3 | 23
11 Oct 2011  #29
hi rwanda_2, yes almost 5 months together time is going fast
Rwanda_2
22 Oct 2011  #30
This story should be an example for all of us, that true love and happiness can be found with a good polish girl.

Her family accepted easily the fact that you are also from Rwanda, what is the general opinion of her friends
and how they see you - as an exotic attractive man, as a future husband.

Was it easy for you and her at the beginning?

Did she accepted easily to spend the weekends with you at the mountains?

What were the biggest challenges you faced in your relationship with her?

All of us have to learn from your experience


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