Oh really? Well, I should probably tell you that you've made yourself perfectly clear, painfully clear even, and that I'm merely trying to make sense to you about what a relationship should be about
50% Americans divorce in 1st marriage. Another 30% -40% divorce in 2nd marriage. I guess those could be benefit learning from you what a relationship should be about. There's no single formula for a relationship.
I am glad that most of you don't agree with my arguments. Because most people know the common sense about what a relationship should be, and look at the statistics of divorce. So, something different from the common sense may work, don't you think?
In your defense, being a provider is a good thing, but it can be a delicate game to not make it look like you're trying to buy her, or that you have nothing else to offer
That's not what I meant. I am not aiming for uggle, failing, apathetic.... I just wanted to remark that NOT many women (and men) are lucky enough to be that successful. Even though they may be beautiful, determined, work hard, but success depends on many factors, especially luck. My woman is beautiful, work hard,etc... but she's not lucky.
An escape hatch for you could be to share her sexually.
I answered this point in another quote of yours.
I confess, guilty to all the above charges. Hey... no one ever said Polish women were modest
Sure, but it certainly helps when both partners are perfectly honest about their priorities from the start, so you don't have to find out that you really don't belong to eachother later on in life. Whatever floats your boat!
We are honest, at least we know what we want from the other without having to speak it out. However, we do want to work towards a better relationship through hard work, patience, care, trust, responsibility, understanding. The start may be a mess, yet hopefully things will get better. We will have to plan for many possible situations. We're no longer young and partying. We're in middle age.
You have to believe me when I tell you that the sexiest characteristics in a man is his confidence and a sense of humor.
I have a feeling this girl is not doing much for your ego
Thanks for great advice. Confidence - what do you think? Do I have it? Sense of humor?
A woman and a baby were in the doctor's examining room, waiting for the doctor to come in for the baby's first exam. The doctor arrived, and examined the baby, checked his weight, and being a little concerned, asked if the baby was breast-fed or bottle-fed.
'Breast-fed,' she replied..
'Well, strip down to your waist,' the doctor ordered.
She did. He pinched her nipples, pressed, kneaded, and rubbed both breasts for a while in a very professional and detailed examination. Motioning to her to get dressed, the doctor said, 'No wonder this baby is underweight. You don't have any milk.'
I know,' she said, 'I'm his Grandma, But I'm glad I came.