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My boyfriend is on a Polish dating site


miranda
28 Jun 2008 #31
I guess that means I cant repossess it.

you cannot repossess but you can take him to court if he is not going to promise to pay the money back.

Become practical and write down how much money he borrowed from you, including the last loan. Write it down and if worse comes to worse, take him to court. It is your money.

He has no respect for you and he is gonna take it to th enext level if you resist playing his game.
I have been watching too much of Judge Judy.
Wroclaw 44 | 5,385
28 Jun 2008 #32
He couldnt get a loan so i took it out in my name but the log book is in his name so I guess that means I cant repossess it

Go to a Citizens Advice Bureau.
wildrover 98 | 4,451
28 Jun 2008 #33
I guess that means I cant repossess it.

I don,t know about Poland , but in UK the name on the log book don,t mean a thing...its just the registered keeper , not always the owner....If you paid for it girl , it could be said its yours....get a lawyer...now....
OP zabko 1 | 21
28 Jun 2008 #34
I paid for the car and have the receipt to prove it, he is the registered owner. God I am stupid. I think he will pay me back, but dont know over how long and I will have to pay interest.
Wroclaw 44 | 5,385
28 Jun 2008 #35
God I am stupid

No, you are not stupid. Unfortunately you have been played by a right twat.
wildrover 98 | 4,451
28 Jun 2008 #36
I paid for the car and have the receipt to prove it,

Then legally the car is yours....hang on to that reciept......you are going to need it.....What it says on the log book is not important...its your car....
OP zabko 1 | 21
28 Jun 2008 #37
thanks for your responses. You make it sound so easy and clear cut but I know when he gets home it will be a different story. I am sure that I may forgive him and try to forget about this. I do really believe that he loves me.
ukpolska
28 Jun 2008 #38
Before you talk about courts and stuff shouldn't you speak to him, seems to me as it is getting a bit out of control here.
southern 75 | 7,096
28 Jun 2008 #39
You have now to buy a present for his girlfriend.
espana 17 | 910
28 Jun 2008 #40
zabko have a romantic evening , put candles , have a bath with him , give him a massage , then give him blow job , then have sex with him , and clean his car after
wildrover 98 | 4,451
28 Jun 2008 #41
I am sure that I may forgive him and try to forget about this.

I hope it works out for you....but somehow i don,t think so....good luck....
fishstick - | 10
9 Jul 2008 #42
zabko..
sorry but it doesn't look good. If he put " looking for sex, love , romance" in his profile thats just wrong. If he was like u said just for fun, he should have put "friends and fun, blah blah blah" in his profile. Sucks, but if he loves you, why is he looking for love, sex on line?? I guess try to talk to him, try to work it out. Else, just get out. Its tought, and it may seem like its the end of the world. Just hang in there and good luck.
tornado2007 11 | 2,274
9 Jul 2008 #43
I have recently discovered that my boyfriend of 3 years who is Polish has been subscribing to a Polish dating website. I have asked him about it and he said that he is not looking for anyone else and that he is only interested in talking to people online and not meeting. Can this really be true? Any advice welcome, I am truly broken hearted.

listen love there are a few things you have to understand here, 1, your boyfriend is telling you lies. 2, he has probably already cheated on you before. 3, due to 1 & 2 it means he does not respect you, do you feel you can form a relationship based on disrespect.

When you have answered that question honestly you will then have to take the hard choice and get rid. It won't be easy i'm sure and i cannot possibly understand your situation fully, what i can do however is like the other people on this good forum prevent you from being hurt in the future. It is best to act now and be hurt for a short time than a continuation of hurt in the future.

Sorry it seems harsh but its just the way i say things

T
Seanus 15 | 19,706
9 Jul 2008 #44
He might follow Mick Jagger's logic, 'it seems very hard to have just one girl, when there's a million in the world'. Still, I wouldn't be so sure. Some guys go online to dating services out of boredom more than with intent
kingkong1 - | 27
9 Jul 2008 #45
Go to a Citizens Advice Bureau.

They're bloody useless they'll just give you a list of the most expensive solicistors in town and tell you to go there. Ofcourse it depends on the amount involved and if it makes economic sense to spend more to recover less.
plk123 8 | 4,149
9 Jul 2008 #46
try to get your money back and leave him

ASAP.

none of this sounds right to me at all. please consider everything and then move on. you deserve better then some jackarse.

if he was just looking for people to talk to or meet then he'd be here or similar places. i have never know any one who is on a dating site and not looking to date. someone is fibbing big time.

the car: if his name is on the pink slip (title) then you're kind of screwed but you could sue him for the dough. good luck and never, ever loan him another dime. try to collect all the money from him asap too. keep good records of everything, like someone mentioned above, just in case. hope you made him sign a doc when you loaned him the money. good luck and keep us posted.
JustysiaS 13 | 2,240
9 Jul 2008 #47
i know that when you love someone you trust them with everything, but until you are married or at least put it down in writing in front of some witness that you are lending them a lot of money, why would you just give it away like that? i mean i myself wouldn't just keep asking my partner to lend me money every now and again, especially if i knew he was overdrawn. it's sad to read about people being conned like this, when they are blinded by love and forget to use their head and common sense. it's unhelathy for a bloke to depend on his female partner like this, borrowing huge amounts of money. and how bloody ungrateful of that twat to go on some websites, PAY for access and flirt the days away with other women! i think i'd strangle him...
Seanus 15 | 19,706
9 Jul 2008 #48
Or castrate him
southern 75 | 7,096
9 Jul 2008 #49
Don't tempt them.What if she spits it after out of the window?
Seanus 15 | 19,706
9 Jul 2008 #50
C'est la vie
polishgirltx
9 Jul 2008 #51
zabko, as everybody already has said...i think he's cheating...that's sad and i feel sorry for you....but now it's your turn, play it smart and you'll win his game... good luck on your own...
miranda
9 Jul 2008 #52
What if she spits it after out of the window?

has happened before. Are you in danger Southern.LOL
southern 75 | 7,096
9 Jul 2008 #53
I will keep mine in iron shield.
miranda
9 Jul 2008 #54
whatever it takes man.
southern 75 | 7,096
9 Jul 2008 #55
We have only one.We got to protect it.
kingkong1 - | 27
9 Jul 2008 #56
I will keep mine in iron shield.

and sleep with one eye open as well for extra protection.Oh,and attach an alarm to it too.

Or castrate him

i think i'd strangle him...[/quote]
Or do both actually.
Ranj 21 | 948
9 Jul 2008 #57
zabko

You and Fireif seem to have a lot in common.....both of you are with people who cause you to totally lose all sense of reality.....move on with your life.....without the cheater!
wildrover 98 | 4,451
9 Jul 2008 #58
Perhaps her boyfriend IS Fireif...that would be spooky.....
Ranj 21 | 948
10 Jul 2008 #59
Or one of the girls he met online is Ania;) lol
ShelleyS 14 | 2,893
10 Jul 2008 #60
You and Fireif seem to have a lot in common.....both of you are with people who cause you to totally lose all sense of reality.....move on with your life.....without the cheater!

This girl has been with her guy for 3 years, you would expect a certain degree of respect and trust in that time...FuckwitFireif is just a brainless nob!

He is going to say you are stupid
he will get angry with you
he will make you feel paranoid
he will make you doubt yourself
he will make you feel bad for accusing him of these things
he will act hurt
etc etc etc

Couldn't have put it better...as for the loan, sorry but it might be more money to add to your debt..live and learn...

Wonder what happened to her?


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