I have recently discovered that my boyfriend of 3 years who is Polish has been subscribing to a Polish dating website. I have asked him about it and he said that he is not looking for anyone else and that he is only interested in talking to people online and not meeting. Can this really be true? Any advice welcome, I am truly broken hearted.
listen love there are a few things you have to understand here, 1, your boyfriend is telling you lies. 2, he has probably already cheated on you before. 3, due to 1 & 2 it means he does not respect you, do you feel you can form a relationship based on disrespect.
When you have answered that question honestly you will then have to take the hard choice and get rid. It won't be easy i'm sure and i cannot possibly understand your situation fully, what i can do however is like the other people on this good forum prevent you from being hurt in the future. It is best to act now and be hurt for a short time than a continuation of hurt in the future.
Sorry it seems harsh but its just the way i say things