Marek11111 wrote:
Get over it. You're really becoming a whiner about that.
he's a waste of time. completely useless posts. he's here for one reason and one reason only, to bash america. i bet he's another one that has never even been there. oh wait, don't tell me, he did the 2-week NYC-Chicago-LA half-ass tour with a Polish speaking tour guide and now he's got the whole country figured out based on that and Google.
guesswho wrote:
I wonder what it would be in our case
what do you mean?
nunczka wrote:
How do you as an American find todays Poland? Now that you have lived there for a couple of years, are you disappointed in the modern day Poland, as opposed to the Poland that was described by your parents? I know that I am. I lost any desire to visit Poland.
my mother is 100% polish but was born in america and doesn't speak a lick of polish. her father died long before i was alive but i spent my whole life before I left for Poland with her mother, she lived with me and my immediate family growing up.
to be honest, she didn't speak highly of poland at all. she came to america, fell in love with it and was a very proud american citizen. she didn't even bother to speak polish to me at home, saw no point. she visited in the 70's for a few weeks and said she couldn't wait for it to be over. obviously, that didn't dissuade me ;)
when i told her i was going to poland, she wasn't too happy. she knew what i was in for but was also happy i was "exploring".....but i still got a funny look when i told her.
as far as visiting once i'm back in the USA....to see my in-laws, that's about it. i sit around the apt. sometimes wondering what i will miss about this place and my conclusion is about the same as my wife's....we'll miss her family, nothing more. basically every aspect of our life is going to improve 100 fold once we're in the states so aside from maybe the odd polish dish here and there that won't be readily available there (not many poles or polish shops where i'm headed) i can't really think of something that i'll miss to be honest. BUT, i guess i gotta wait till i'm there, maybe i'll think of something.