the culture here was to take an absolutely massive mortgage on a huge property that you can barely afford.
I know what you're saying, but the couple I'm talking about are, in many respects, very typical of their type: university-educated, hardworking, the husband taking a second degree at weekends.
These guys are the ones who didn't fcuk off to England or Germany. They could have (they did for a while, to Belgium, to get the deposit) but they want to build a life in Poland, and I salute them for that.
Their parents' generation didn't have to feel that they were slaves to a bank, as they do. There's no alternative, I know. I just feel lucky that although I work no less hard than they do, I've been able to put a roof over my head without feeling like the bank is the Big Bad God in my life. And that, for me, is what's shifted in Poland. Church to Bank. (I''ve got one night off between 21 days' straight work and another fifteen, so forgive me if I seem a little emotional in my assessment of 'Polish Reality'.)
btw I celebrated the last payment by taking out another loan to buy a new old car (if you know what I mean). I've borrowed 20K over two years. The repayment will cost more,
pro rata, than the 50K loan. The bankers no doubt call this progress. Also, I have to pay 1800PLN insurance on the loan (didn't happen with the old loan). If I drop dead, the bank gets its money. So I'm paying for the bank's insurance. Win Win for the bank.