All Polish women can't be nutters can they?

Don't you have real friends to help you get answers to those personal questions.

Seriously, are you Indian or something?

barr,

i would try to learn the reason she doesn't want. if it is money, forget it, she will never say it clearly. you'll keep guessing all other reasons. she will behave like a religious, like a nationalist, like a feminist, etc etc, but, she will never say money. if she is changing so much (having read your other posts and arrived at this conclusion), be sure, it is only one reason and it is money. she cant say you dont have money and therefore, she cant say she wants money. clear?

it's not money, she is seeing someone now, that's part of the reason, other is just we didn't get on great last time. I have asked real friends too, and no i'm English. See I'm anxious because last year I went out with a Polish girl who decided never to speak again, and she really meant it. So I am afraid that this one will be the same But surely they aren't clones right, they can't all be exactly the same. I'm hoping there will be room for negotiation with this one.

i dont like to insist on my reason. but, i still claim same. she probably found a better wallet. she probably created a reason to make a fight with you. look, if there wasnt money problem, i am sure she would be finding a way to make peace. imagine that yourself a very rich one. would you think she would be making fight with you? unimaginable. if she does, she would be quickly back to you. life is very simple, no need to complicate it with all feelings and relations.

Well we were just friends, maybe it would be different if I had different circumstances this last year (I've been out of work much of it) but it's hypothetical. She is actually an Au-pair and moving soon, getting a new number, so I'm wondering whether to go and confront her, or just wait for her contact or just e-mail her at some point.

you said it. you jobless now, so, some lack of money. and she is there with a hope of meeting a rich guy. she can return to you if she is unable to find a rich guy. but, then, will you accept her? i wouldn't do that personally (except if she says soc.. etc). so, no need to contact her. she is walking around with hopes. waiting her giving up her hopes is just a waste of time. she must be clever enough to see the real life and to give up the hopes. i havent seen any yet.

Barr...please trust me on this.....FORGET HER... i know its hard , but she is just a load of grief....find another one , and give yourself a break....She is either going to turn you into a doormat or a strangler....let the silly tart go...

So it is time to search for another girl.

If you like her talk and if she don't want don't insist. There is enough girls already in the world if you keep searching I am sure you will find who is also interested in you.If you show anyone that you so desperately want her usually it means you lost her already.

Polish girls are not aliens and they are not really different (more or less) than girls from any other nationality. So do what a real man should do.

a little bit off topic, but, still relevant.

be a real man? when i read such words i get it like "make enough money first to buy a girl who will fit your budget" OR "be a socialist who will claim money is less important than human."

which is better to chose?

The point is that we were just friends, I actually am seeing another girl. So I just wanted to keep this girl as a friend only

if you already have another gf, then, why keeping her in your mind? obsession. dont mind. she was after money. i telling the reality.

buuut, if you started new relation with other girl before finishing relation with her, then, you can blame yourself and i wouldnt be back to you whatever you do. if she was being with a poorer one like you, then, she was probably a socialist mind.. ufff, i am so unlucky to meet such a girl. people finding the bests and missing them.

surely you guys have some girls just as friends too, so I'm speaking in that way really. Still, men and women fall out for good, where as I've male friends I've known for a few years. Funny eh? Any female friends, mostly just come and go.

because you are obsessed with money not me. Luckily there are still values in this world which is more important either than money or than political choices.


Are you just a trol ? Or what kind of relationships do you have ? If you are with someone have respect it is part of being a man at least a good one. If she is your friend only you should not care if she says I don't want to see you anymore.

There's really no debate about this, All women are nutters!

hmm, what are those values which are not used for money yet? if there are still untouched values, some will want to learn how to use them to make money. let them be known quickly or hide better. ps: dont be personal to me. otherwise, i say this. i wont say be real man not to hurt you, but, be real.


you are confusing with real friendships between females and males thats about love/etc relations and bla bla relations. some dont like bla bla talks.

I am sure you know them family bounds, friendship there are too many things in the world which you can't scale with money. It is only important where you stand in your life you can either see good or bad. And people often make choices which one to see.

i have seen many old women and men who spent their last days in misery, crept on their knees. their sons/daughters haven't taken care of them at all even though they gave their capitals to their sons/daughters and even though they were very religious families. when it is about money you will not trust even your family members. this is pure reality. you can only cheat yourself or others.

I am seeing a girl, but it's not serious at the moment. I even speak to her about my friend and falling out with her. She understands I have or had a female friend.

There are few like this more good cases.This is your truth, if you want to believe it believe. Anyway it is going off topic. I know your opinions I just think different way and I think discussing it won't change anything so it is useless.

you dont see the global picture. you seeing only a local limited picture around you. ever stayed at a hospital to company an old? i done a lot and observed a lot. all misery. sons, daughters, relatives try to go away as soon as possible. i can read their faces praying them old fathers/mothers die as soon as possible cause they have works to do outside to feed their own children. i dont know which world are you living in. anyway, when the life gets harder with this crisis people will learn things better. my last word about this: money is symbol of selfishness though money itself isn't.

I can never quite understand everything you're saying nom

i answered your questions in my two posts above very clearly, barr. if you havent understood them, clear words of your same gender, how can you expect a girl to understand what you talking.

just a bit too in-depth sometimes for my tired brain, where are you from?

please, pay attention to the topic.

barr is too poor to pay anything including attention (joke, barr. am from asia minor.)

Excuse me, are they all nutters? Of course, sometimes everyone can go mad, I reckon it doesn't only concern polish females. I have to admit we can be a bit crazy at times and we can make it almost impossible for a man to understand us.But hey, it's a two-way street, we don't understand you,men either.And you can be nutters as well!

I remember dating a nutter. A real pain in the bum, couldn't stand his constant whinging. When I tried to ignore him, he went mental.Every time. Believe me, a real nutter:)

All Polish women can't be nutters can they?

Of course not. In fact, I have found that on average most Polish women are more sane than other women and when compared to western women it isn't even a close contest.

Now, some Polish women become westernized and that puts them into a different and more negative category.

mira; "it's a two-way street, we don't understand you,men either."

Perhaps this will help.

the-spearhead.com/2010/01/03/is-there-a-female-brain/

you "tried"?

(story goes like that... when mira realized he had a big wallet she decided not to "try" more as it was risky and she is married to he now.. happy ending... ok - joke mira joke.)

you see, it's very hard to ignore somebody when you live with them. how often can you go to your friend's and stay there until your boyfriend sorts himself out, eh?


I've never been with anyone for their money, I would usually date those tight-fisted...

with boxers? i know wrestling only. sorry.

Re to Is there female brain? I dont know but, mine is like fully feminine, occupied by one. (ufff, southern would love to say somethings here if he was here.)

My friend, this guy, has a wife and just sees escorts sometimes, haha, crazy but maybe better than getting emotions for new girls so can feel like sh1t when she sh1ts on you.