All Polish women can't be nutters can they?

There has to be some nice polish women out there?, that aren't complete nut case's and out to drain some one dry?
Anyone like to hear my story?

Yeah, let's hear it. I sense it's probably about a Polish woman who ran away with some cash..

Go on..

This is not about someone draining dry or running off with cash, this one drained the life out of me! you still wanna hear?, if you have been with a polish woman would like to hear if that one was a complete nutter?

Yeah sure. Go ahead, we're all intrested.

ok you will have to bear with me, still writting out!

right, bring it on, then maybe we'll turn everything upside down and somehow prove that she's the victim. :)

no, I was kidding, i'm interested, too.

I’ll try to make this short with out going into great detail a little background information, my story begins when I met this what seemed at first to be a really nice sweet attractive polish girl working behind a bar in a Cheltenham night club, and you would guess the friendship quickly turned into a relationship. As the relationship progressed it was going well, we spent some time together. The weeks turned into months and that’s when things started to go wrong, because of her job in the nite club she started to have a little more fun than what could be allowed for someone who was in a relationship, a very loving one at that.

By the four month things had turned sour she was chatting up guys and I think she started to go out on dates with them?( as friends! Yeah right!)

well, nothing especially Polish in her behaviour, probably got bored and doesn't have the decensy or courage to tell you.
and have you asked her straight if what you suspect is a fact?

Hang on theres more!!! writting out as quick as I can

Sounds like she a little wild that is universal, you fell for her hard and thats easy to do with a Polish girl. Theres something about them, that should be the thread: What is it that makes men fall so hard for Polish women?

You in the Andrew mate?

By the four month things had turned sour she was chatting up guys and I think she started to go out on dates with them?( as friends! Yeah right!)

Anyway I ended up calling it off and she went home for the Christmas holidays and as it turns out that two days after she was there she ended up sleeping with a guy for four days and nights. That aside if I would be honest ending it really didn’t go well for me for a couple of months. So when she returned after the holidays. A couple of months went by I was fine about the spilt and was being civil towards her, I was making friends with other women, then out of the blue she contacted me to see if wanted to go out sometime, and me being the nice kind of guy that I am had no problem with that. So on the night we went out just as friends and it was going well, with in the first hour she was kissing me then from then on things started to come back round, we were having a bit of fun as you do! Then things started to get more and more serious and it came to a head when all these people questioned us why aren’t we together which made me wonder aswell. Then one night we were in this club talking to people who were trying to get us back together again, by this time we had sex several times before we got back together. Then it was time to make it official with each other, but agreed to not to tell anyone so for the duration of the relationship not many people knew that we were back together, and again things were going good. Then came Easter to most of the polish in this country go back home and she was one of them,

Ah.. women. They make the highs higer & the lows more frequent.

At this point I will give a bit more detail about her behavior, In the beginning she was great to be with she was warm, loving didn’t really show much affection but every ones different. So after a couple of weeks in to the first part of the relationship she began to change, the conversation was difficult not because of the language barrier. She would blow hot then be as cold as ice, and in the beginning they call it the honeymoon period this honeymoon lasted two to three weeks. Now don’t misunderstand me I know I’m a guy so like and having sex as much as possible comes with the territory so when she cut sex down to maybe once or twice a week it started to make me wonder if shes not giving it to me who is she giving too?

I asked her why she didn’t want to have sex as much as before and her reply was that sex wasn’t an important part of a relationship!! I’m sorry but I was gob smacked at this you see I’ve always been told that its one of the most important parts of it, it is how you show what you feel for the person your with?!

So I put it this way, the day I don’t want to have sex with you is the day to worry about because if I’m not giving it to you I’m doing someone else.

no offence, but looks like she is a little nuts and mentally unstable.I'd just run away as fast as I could.This is NOT a healthy relationship.

You don't say how old she is. Maybe the thought of commitment (if young) is scaring her. Wants to feel free by going/looking elsewhere? But at the same time enjoys the stability you offer. (Best of both worlds/eating of cake springs to mind)

I dunno mate. Look out for your own state of mind, prolonged exposure to that kind of behaviour could lead to undesired side effects.

She's 22 and I'm 33 now it was her who wanted a relationship and everything that goes with it! Marrage, kids etc etc!
My state of mind!? lol I'm talking to you from a metal hospital!!! LMAO!!!
This crazy arsed b*tch screwed with my head and luved it. I ended up loosing 3/4stone in weight ( which is not a bad thing really! needed to loose it, just not a quick as I did!)

I knew there was a reason I loved the NHS Broadband access in all mouse padded suites. :)


There is your answer then mate. Not all Poles, just this one.

You can mail me the fee. I do payInfidel :)

it doesn't sound too good. Are you still with her ?


Some people have the ability to screw with our head and the only thing we can do is to get out. Pronto. trust your gut feeling or whatever ist is you use when making a

decision:)
Looks like you are in too much pain already.


what's my share hun? 55% if I remember correctly. yahh.....

lol I am honoured you chose to quote me to highlight that point. A coincidence is all, i'm sure. <very broad grin>

Good to cross threads with you again M. How you doing, post exam euphoria still there?

how did you know? Now I understand why I am so.....whaaa......it is also the weather H.


the pleasure is all mine - I would say but I am speaking from experiance:(. those negative ones stay in our mind for a looong time - I would say.

How are you?

God I hate reading about similar situations, But have faith :)

yep.

Been there. It's the way it creeps up on you months, years <insert time frame here> at the moment when you're least expecting it that bothers me the most.

Ah well. Journey not the destination after all. Just a shame we sometimes drive down a cul-de-sac, I hate reversing.

I'm well thank you, however, not reached the dizzy heights of waahhh yet. I suspect that is also weather related. Raining, overcast and windy. Can't have everything though.

How are you enjoying your biking? Menacing pedestrians yet? :)

edit: Once lt's money clears, your share will be on it's way courtesy of Huegbank

one dog so far:)also I had to change the bike, since the breaks didn't work properly(poor dog). Got another one, they sold it to somebody else so I got another one. This one I am keeping. It has been a long journey in the bike department. I wish I had better news for you:)

Maybe she has found a married man.

She would blow hot then be as cold as ice, and in the beginning they call it the honeymoon period this honeymoon lasted two to three weeks. Now don’t misunderstand me I know I’m a guy so like and having sex as much as possible comes with the territory so when she cut sex down to maybe once or twice a week it started to make me wonder if she’s not giving it to me who is she giving too?

I asked her why she didn’t want to have sex as much as before and her reply was that sex wasn’t an important part of a relationship!! I’m sorry but I was gob smacked at this you see I’ve always been told that its one of the most important parts of it, it is how you show what you feel for the person your with?!

So I put it this way, the day I don’t want to have sex with you is the day to worry about because if I’m not giving it to you I’m doing someone else. That’s was one or two little things that started the chain reaction down wards. Now when we had spilt up fist time see saw me with other women and according to her she didn’t like it made her jealous, which was not my aim to do that, it made her even more jealous when her friend started to become friendly now her friend managed to break us up in the first place, but in fairness I had more conversation with her than I did with my ex. So this made her do something about it and this came the second try, now up to the point of us getting back to together she would say things like I don’t want to loose you, you mean so much to me etc and things like that!

All the way though both parts of our relationship she really didn’t act like a girlfriend should act, I spoke to several different people and quite a few women and they all said the same thing it was not normal behavior. But when you’re in love you get blinded and don’t listen to what people say. Part of us getting back together was I had to prove myself to her! (How?) She didn’t know! But some of it was not to get jealous in I was proved myself time again not to have. Before I took her to the airport we managed to have an argument about her flirting with mine and her boss, I’m sure that he said something to her about giving him a blow job! Now Ive known this guy for 10 yrs so I was a little bit pissed off that he would make such a remark, but she took as a joke. Anyway got her to the airport so it was two weeks with out her, now this is where it went very strange! I wouldn’t hear from her as much as you would expect a so called girlfriend do contact you, she would never tell me that she is missing me but she would say that she loves me. It was her birthday while she was away and for some strange reason she won’t give me a address to where she was, it was because she thought I would turn up there! Now I’ve spoke to women about this and they said it would be romantic if their partner just turned up out of the blue. But she said she wouldn’t know what to say or do if I turned up there! Which again made me think what is she hiding.

Anyway she came back to the UK and I had to talk to her to find out what the situation was between us, she said we were a couple which I was happy about. It was then a couple of days later when I saw her and she wasn’t speaking to me so when I asked her what the problem was she said it was nothing. Then later when I jokingly suggested getting married she turned around and said that someone had already told her we were engaged!, and when I asked who said it she wouldn’t tell me, now I wouldn’t have gone up to the twat who said this and told him that. The bottom line is she took there word over mine and didn’t ask me why I would say that! So we ended up talking again and that’s when she told me that she really didn’t love me and didn’t like being with me and any other nasty thing she could think of. She came close to get a smack in the mouth that night even when she said she was pregnant and I would have nothing to do the it. We parted on a bad note it was only the next day when I got a text from her saying she was sorry about last night and hope I was ok and to have a good day. So when I rang her to find if I was speaking to the right person I said what you sorry for? You know what she said! It was for slamming my car door and nothing else!

So I fu*ked off for a couple of days to get away from it all a couple of days later I get a text from her asking me for all the things she still had at my house back even the things we bought together. So when I spoke to her she told that she had been in hospital for a few days, what for I asked!, its not to do with you it not your problem we are strangers now. So why did you tell me that you have been in hospital, no reply, then she said because you so far away it would have been nice for you to here.

So I left it at that, while I was I spoke to some friends saying having a good time etc! when I returned I got a phone call from her, she was going mad at me because people kept asking her had she heard from me! She was pissed off at me because these people knew more about where I was and what I was doing than she did! ( I Know!)

So she said well if you can go away so can I, which she didn’t she moved house and in to a house full of polish guys. Then rang me up on the weekend telling me that she was in love with one of them and asking me what should she do?

Is that normal behavior!
A word of warning if you come to Cheltenham and you meet a polish women call ania run for you life, that is one crazy arsed b*tch

This girl needs some spanking.She thinks you are weak and can put up with it.She wants to test you,how strong you can be.

Trying.... hard... not.. argh.. not.. to put.. sexist.. comment.. MUST.. RESIST...

And no, that's not normal behaviour in my book. I wish you best of luck in there, but it's not normal. And you know it.. you're 33 so you had previous relationships before. So you know what's normal & mental. Just hang in there.

Maybe you could give her phone number for people willing to taste polish madness.

There is no way I will get back with her, theres only some many times you can get fu*ked about by someone, Strike 3 Your OUT!