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How real is your international (Polish-other) relationship ?


Seanus  15 | 19666  
19 Apr 2010 /  #31
Southern, I haven't had a Scottish girl in my life and I'm Scottish. USA, NZ, Japan, Poland and Thailand, yes. Encounters some of them, not relationships.

Besides, she was brought up in Spain.
southern  73 | 7059  
19 Apr 2010 /  #32
Why?Scottish girls don't look bad.I like that sea of flesh.
Natalka_84  1 | 11  
19 Apr 2010 /  #33
Just so happened that all my boyfriends have been Scottish...never really took much interest in Polish people before, they were "just there". I was brought up with friends of multiple nationalities so i tend to live & let live :)
krakowiak  
19 Apr 2010 /  #34
me Polish, my girlfriends in Germany up to now: mostly undereducated "Idol"-watching *******, some openminded dopeheads one can have fun with but no commitment and few openminded dopeheads one could spent the life with, but I blew it =(

same everywhere in the world I guess
southern  73 | 7059  
19 Apr 2010 /  #35
my girlfriends in Germany up to now

You sent all your gilfriends to Germany?Do Niemczy deserve them?
krakowiak  
19 Apr 2010 /  #36
No! Misunderstanding, I'm stuck in Germany for years. So I speak about me, Polish, and my girlfriends here in Germany, most of them beeing German ...

BTW: Not really unhappy about having blew it with those few I really liked. the older I get the stronger grows an antipathy towards beeing bound for life to a woman. wasn't that all the time.
king polkacanon  - | 57  
19 Apr 2010 /  #37
Polish downgrading to German Muschi?I understand your pain.
kalunia  - | 1  
18 May 2010 /  #38
I'm a Polish girl living in USA. I married a Turkish boy (visited his family in Turkey, had a wedding there etc.) All the Polish guys I met in USA seemed to be posers and ********, "being too good for anybody" and I refused to be involved with such men just because they were Polish. I think dating only within certain groups for the sake of "preserving Polishness" or what have you, is ridiculous. When I met my husband I knew he was a special man, who loves me to pieces and the nationality, religion, culture, simply didn't matter. I am very happy in my relationship :)
poland_  
18 May 2010 /  #40
So if I asked you the practical question is it better to have a girl from Poland,Czech,Ukraine or Russia,you could answer it would be better bargain a girl from Ukraine but probably I will get a polka because they are more available,sth like that.

Exiled you have to be a african or arab with your way of thinking or maybe a pimp. How about this - Maybe the the Polish girls are better for you because they have a higher value- European passport. Get a life you idiot...
southern  73 | 7059  
18 May 2010 /  #41
I'm a Polish girl living in USA. I married a Turkish boy

Polka with Turk?What a surprise.
nymph888  2 | 31  
18 May 2010 /  #42
when we started dating he knew within weeks I was "the one"....& I felt the same. Whats for you,won't go by you! Regardless of nationality!

good for you :) nice!
southern  73 | 7059  
18 May 2010 /  #43
When I met my husband I knew he was a special man, who loves me

I can hear the turkish laughter from here.
skysoulmate  13 | 1250  
18 May 2010 /  #44
So if I asked you the practical question is it better to have a girl from Poland,Czech,Ukraine or Russia,you could answer it would be better bargain a girl from Ukraine but probably I will get a polka because they are more available,sth like that.

Exiled are you being sarcastic or am I missing something? I often miss the clues for sarcasm so that's why I'm asking?

IF you're serious, then how can that be? I'm all for poking fun of women every now and then for them making us crazy enough to crave them most, ok all of the time but you're talking about women as if you're heading to the butcher looking for the best tenderloin you can get... Did your mama forget to breastfeed you and now you hold a grudge against all boob-equipped humans? I just don't get it... Or maybe you're a woman making fun of us men by posing as a guy? I still don't get it... I do get your screen name though - you must've been bedroom-exiled for life... ;)
southern  73 | 7059  
18 May 2010 /  #45
but you're talking about women as if you're heading to the butcher looking for the best tenderloin you can get..

You are swedish you should understand.Am I telling the truth?For example why do you go for Polki since swedish girls are better looking?
Seanus  15 | 19666  
19 May 2010 /  #46
It's very real when the drugs wear off ;) ;) What a strange title for a thread!
richasis  1 | 409  
19 May 2010 /  #47
Polka with Turk?What a surprise.

No doubt.
king polkakamon  - | 542  
19 May 2010 /  #48
I am sure that Turks despise Polki for being so easy.Polish girls feel that and try to avoid even Turks.Turks and Albos being selective!
Seanus  15 | 19666  
20 May 2010 /  #49
It's just a different ethic when they travel, KP. It doesn't make them loose, it just means that they enjoy themselves.
plk123  8 | 4119  
20 May 2010 /  #50
How real is your international (Polish-other) relationship ?

it's real.
wenttothelake  2 | 2  
19 Nov 2012 /  #51
engaged, daily affection (constantly), no big cultural divisions, snuggly
he is 32 and we have been together 2 yrs
Rysavy  10 | 306  
20 Nov 2012 /  #52
Define real... ^_^
seems surreal at times.

We are aligned near perfect and complimentary in the gaps. We were friends as close as skin and now betrothed. We plan carefully.
He is the Polish.I am the "other". A mix of Bohemian, Portuguese, Cherokee and Scottish. English was my third language before age 5.(I think English is his 4th?)

I like his pragmatic, practical direct ways, it suits my Asperger's very nicely. Yet conversely; even though abrupt with familiarity, he is poster boy of good manners. Always: Would you mind? Will this be alright? He asks 'permission' to sleep when in middle of migraine ^_^.

Yet under all his cynical pessimism is a firey romantic. I certainly enjoy being "beloved" "sweetest""cherished" and occasionally "my queen" "my lady" and "kochanie".

We have a couple of minor misunderstandings but they even out quickly since we are both pushy, were trolly buds too long to stand on "girl/boy rules. One of us will grill the other person to spit out what is wrong. Argh! Can barely stand the time and distance while he finishes his degree before coming to live in US.
Ant63  13 | 410  
20 Nov 2012 /  #53
In general polki are not a bargain.They just exist in massive numbers.

Never heard a truer statement. :-)

International relationships, I think are true test of metal for both partners. Cultural differences initially are funny but soon escalate into battlegrounds. It takes time to overcome these differences and find some middle ground and if you can survive that long, then it should be a good relationship. It's all about give and take and if you can't manage that, your unlikely to succeed in any relationship.

Trust is a major factor. If you don't trust the driver, don't ride the bus. I know plenty of people would find it difficult to trust someone speaking in a language they don't understand in front of them. The same people would have a problem if their partner was 10 minutes longer at the shops than usual. Not worth bothering with in my opinion. They failed to grow up.

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