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Hot Polish girls in clubs - why don't they dance/talk with the most attractive men only?


aphrodisiac  11 | 2427  
7 May 2011 /  #61
*goat-boy is very pleased:)*

pleased about the ability to dance or to pull lol
dtaylor5632  18 | 1998  
7 May 2011 /  #62
Well if I get enough clients it will be both :P
FlaglessPole  4 | 649  
7 May 2011 /  #63
pleased about the ability to dance or to pull lol

dance, the rest is like a gravity:)

Also with slavic girls better be serious and not use lots of humor.(except with czech girls).

I've met quite a few Russian girls; what a humorless lot with exception of some who hadn't actually grown up in Russia
aphrodisiac  11 | 2427  
7 May 2011 /  #64
Well if I get enough clients it will be both :P

how much would you charge for Flaggy to dance for me lol

I might ask him directly since I really despise the middle men lol and I might save a few lol
southern  73 | 7059  
7 May 2011 /  #65
In slavic countries the man is supposed to be serious and the girl do the fun.However there are some notable exceptions.
OP jarnowa  4 | 499  
7 May 2011 /  #66
Worked together for months when he was seconded to my office in the UK from the Warsaw office - so got to know him VERY VERY VERY well!! Actually I was very physically attracted to him...Fancied the pants off him - literally - he also got PLENTY of female attention from the other girls in the office too!

In your previous post you suggested that he was unattractive in terms of looks. Nevertheless you fancied the pants off him, so basically you're saying that you don't care about sh*gging ugly guys as long as their personality is nice.

You never heard the saying "if you can make a women laugh, you're half way into her knicker" ....sooooooooo true!

So you wouldn't mind sh*gging physically unattractive comedians like Rowan Atkinson, Jim Carrey or Eddie Murphy?

eez Jarnowa, what are you like?

You obviously see yourself as an attractive guy, maybe you are (I don't care).

But really when women run from you like you have the plague, do you not wonder?

I forgot to tell that i don't approach girls anymore since long.
So actually they merely ignore me now instead of running away. ;)

I'm inclined to think that getting ignored is their way of telling me that they don't feel attracted.
But i still hope to find out that Polish girls in fact ignore most guys who watch them and smile at them in clubs, even if she feels attracted.

Maybe only the most attractive guys enjoy eye contact and the rest have to find out if she is attracted by approaching her?

I really don't know.

So Jarnowa, turn the tables a bit here, would you have a relationship with an attractive woman who you were physically attracted to but didn't like?

No, her personality for sure is important.

Can you imagine sh*gging a physically unattractive woman just because she is a lovely person?
dtaylor5632  18 | 1998  
7 May 2011 /  #67
how much would you charge for Flaggy to dance for me lol

That depends on the sort of dance, naked chicken dances are quite expensive.

I might ask him directly since I really despise the middle men lol and I might save a few lol

Sorry, he is under contract. Break the rules and ill send round the boys to give u a good seeing too!
guesswho  4 | 1272  
7 May 2011 /  #68
basically she means one with a big cock...

no, I didn't but I guess ti crosses your mind a lot, doesn't it? lol
FlaglessPole  4 | 649  
7 May 2011 /  #69
Break the rules and ill send round the boys to give u a good seeing too!

you shouldn't have said that lol, now see the rules be blown to smithereens:)

no, I didn't but I guess ti crosses your mind a lot, doesn't it? lol

yep it's like a pendulum in the back of my head;)
southern  73 | 7059  
8 May 2011 /  #70
Generally with Slavic girls it is better to appear extreme.Being on the edge exciting.The more extreme and out of space the better.They don't like usual boring men.

In many cases they end with antisocial men.As a Balkan I appear naturally extreme.Here women prefer boring men because it means stability.
dtaylor5632  18 | 1998  
8 May 2011 /  #71
you shouldn't have said that lol, now see the rules be blown to smithereens:)

You are paid per client, any "others" who might help will have a share in your pay...
guesswho  4 | 1272  
8 May 2011 /  #72
yep it'slike a pendulum in the back of my head;)

some "boys" on this forum will envy you know alone for having this vision, lol

I meant now and not know, sorry
OP jarnowa  4 | 499  
8 May 2011 /  #73
I'm inclined to think that getting ignored is their way of telling me that they don't feel attracted.

Anyone?

Is it true that Polish girls in clubs always avoid looking to guys unless they know them?
Marynka11  3 | 639  
8 May 2011 /  #74
Only if they are shy.
JonnyM  11 | 2607  
8 May 2011 /  #76
Is it true that Polish girls in clubs always avoid looking to guys unless they know them?

Sometimes maybe, but Polish women can be quite forward. Seriously (and leaving ethnic issues aside) if you aren't having as much luck as you'd like to, perhaps you're looking in the wrong sort of place. Not a nightclub, not a bar - maybe somewhere else?
OP jarnowa  4 | 499  
8 May 2011 /  #77
So there is no such thing as a "social code" in Poland that tells girls to make it difficult for a guy to find out if she's interested in him?

Sometimes maybe, but Polish women can be quite forward. Seriously (and leaving ethnic issues aside) if you aren't having as much luck as you'd like to, perhaps you're looking in the wrong sort of place. Not a nightclub, not a bar - maybe somewhere else?

I really don't know where to meet attractive girls in the weekend in other places than bars and clubs. Maybe a coffee place in a shopping center, but it's quite pathethic to sit and drink a cup of coffee waiting for lonely girls don't you think? ;)

Besides, would you stop trying to find a girl in a bar or club if you see less attractive guys than yourself getting lucky?
Wouldn't you think that it's just a matter of time, maybe a small change in behaviour, before succeeding yourself?
JonnyM  11 | 2607  
8 May 2011 /  #78
Wouldn't you think that it's just a matter of time, maybe a small change in behaviour, before succeeding yourself?

Yes. We all give out signals that are almost imperceptible. Both verbal and non-verbal - I don't mean just body language, I mean something deeper in our subconscious that creates the body language, the pheromones etc. Sometimes it's very hard to explain the reason for the ways that people can react to you. Watching what the most successful people say and do can be a help - just copying their behavious makes a small difference; copying their mindset makes a big one.

Most importantly, be very confident in yourself: be sure of your goal, understand that you will reach it sooner or later, be happy about that, think about the good things that it will bring, about how it will change things for you and why you want it, and again that you're happy about it - then you're more than half the way there.

It took me years to figure that out. To some fortunate people it comes naturally.
f stop  24 | 2493  
8 May 2011 /  #79
in case this has theory has not been put forward yet (I'm too lazy to read this whole thread):
Hot guys are a big headache. Odds are they know they're hot and other girls know it too.
OP jarnowa  4 | 499  
8 May 2011 /  #80
Ok i understand, but i don't see the point lowering your standards to below average looking guys just to reduce the risk of cheating.
f stop  24 | 2493  
8 May 2011 /  #81
it's not just about cheating... hot guys, and girls for that matter, often have a skewed view of the world, because the world treats them differently.
Havok  10 | 902  
8 May 2011 /  #82
Yesterday i witnessed again

This is the most ridiculous thread on this forum yet.

You people are so pathetic that i cant even make a joke out of it.

Whys does a girl doesn't wanna dance with you? Maybe because you are a fucktard? .... I'm sorry but how old are you 12? If you didn't figure it out how to be an interesting person by now you're bound do die alone.. Sorry bud.

Sausage party.... /ignore
mephias  10 | 296  
8 May 2011 /  #83
This is the most ridiculous thread on this forum yet.

Agreed, one of the most ridiculous,

posts: 86
Hot girls in clubs, why don't they dance/talk with the most attractive men only?

- People has different tastes, one is attractive for you may not be attractive for others
- Appearance is something more important at first sight, might not be important for many after you get to know each other,
- Most people are not going clubs to get laid but to have good time, So it is very normal a girl dance/talk with someone who she thinks she may have fun (even he is not attractive), this is not a contest

- Usually it is very easy to spot guys whose only aim is to get laid with anyone and they will be ignored by most girls

Instead of clubs first you should try to have some healthy friendships, Also it is not difficult to understand your observations are inaccurate and biased, I am also going clubs sometimes but I rarely see couples incompatible to each other.
Ice cold  - | 43  
8 May 2011 /  #84
Instead of clubs first you should try to have some healthy friendships,

Yea, he comes off as a control freak. Normal people are not gonna put up with that.
beckski  12 | 1609  
8 May 2011 /  #85
Hot girls in clubs, why don't they dance/talk with the most attractive men only?

Some hot looking-shallow people, are only attracted to hot looking- shallow people, just like themselves.
shewolf  5 | 1077  
8 May 2011 /  #86
If i start talking to a very hot girl she always quickly finds an excuse to walk away asap, so i want to know why some guys (like me) don't even get the benefit of the doubt,

Can we see your picture? Then we can give you our honest opinions. :)
Ashleys mind  3 | 446  
8 May 2011 /  #87
I agree... maybe Jarnowa could analyse something else in these women other than their knickers...
Chicago Pollock  7 | 503  
8 May 2011 /  #88
I know not all Polish girls are like that, but i wonder why so many attractive Polish girls talk/dance with guys in clubs that are way below them in terms of looks. Thank you for sharing your dating experiences. :)

Firstly, it's called spreading the genes around. If women only dated a certain looking guy we'd be "in-bred".

Secondly, you need to learn to be attracted to girls who are attracted to you. Quit chasing those who have no interest.
southern  73 | 7059  
8 May 2011 /  #89
hot guys, and girls for that matter, often have a skewed view of the world, because the world treats them differently.

I had already warned about womens opposite logic.

3.The girl supposes that the ugly guy will have a better character not too arrogant or self obsessed and having been through difficulties

OP jarnowa  4 | 499  
8 May 2011 /  #90
Most importantly, be very confident in yourself: be sure of your goal, understand that you will reach it sooner or later, be happy about that, think about the good things that it will bring, about how it will change things for you and why you want it, and again that you're happy about it - then you're more than half the way there.

It took me years to figure that out. To some fortunate people it comes naturally.

My goal is just to have a beautiful girlfriend and be happy.
Sometimes i think that i should go for some average girl, but the amount of mediocre and ugly looking guys with a beautiful girlfriend is simply too high to think that they all have something that compensates their poor looks. To some extent it must have something to do with hot girls having a very bad taste, for example, accepting that the guy is ugly just because he is big and muscled or because he's intelligent.

- People has different tastes, one is attractive for you may not be attractive for others
- Appearance is something more important at first sight, might not be important for many after you get to know each other,
- Most people are not going clubs to get laid but to have good time, So it is very normal a girl dance/talk with someone who she thinks she may have fun (even he is not attractive), this is not a contest

I'm sure most single persons not just go to clubs to have a good time. Maybe some single girls are not interested in meeting guys, but at least 90% of single guys go to clubs to meet women, not just to have fun.

So any girl should know that unknown guys approaching her in a club won't do that just for the sake of having a funny conversation, in 99% of the cases the guy is sexually interested in her. So a girl very well knows that she's showing interest in him if she doesn't walk away within a few minutes. So i'm pretty sure that i've seen a case of mutual attraction between a very hot girl and a very mediocre guy.

- Usually it is very easy to spot guys whose only aim is to get laid with anyone and they will be ignored by most girls

If they approach every girl then yes. Fortunately i am not such type of guy.

Instead of clubs first you should try to have some healthy friendships, Also it is not difficult to understand your observations are inaccurate and biased, I am also going clubs sometimes but I rarely see couples incompatible to each other.

Then you don't look good, because there's plenty of poor looking guys with a hot girl (vice versa it's more rare).

Some hot looking-shallow people, are only attracted to hot looking- shallow people, just like themselves.

If a girl looks good then she is shallow if she prefers guys who look a model?

Can we see your picture? Then we can give you our honest opinions. :)

No sorry, i don't want to be recognized as "that sad guy who can't get girls". ;)

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