Polish girls want to be dominated. Fact?

Probably, a little. Just like all women everywhere.

If you don`t fullfill the expectations, they might want to dominate you. It is a sort of a final test to see if you deserve their respect. If you allow to be dominated, then you prove you are not a respectable guy.

But remember that domination over a girl must be based on certain real assets of yours: intellect, sense of humour, smell, looks, Rockefeller wallet, generosity, gentlehood, huge member etc etc.

Your assets were probably not enough for her.

Try to find another girl.

Oh yea we Polish girls love being Dominated *rolls eyes* I think you have been watching too many XXX films to come up with that one. Maybe the relationship fell apart because the both of you left the responsibility to make it work in the other persons hand...

It's a dance. Someone's gotta lead. That doesn't mean the same person has to lead all the time.

yeah thats little off.

I think you did good, I would dump her, she doesnt sound like a good one,
just stay friends, but tell her you lost your feelings now to since you were pushed away.

I wouldnt give her the time of day , your in Poland now, you have other things to get done and
there are other girls you can meet. Her loss.

good luck to you :)

You know, I've been feeling like I didn't fight enough. And yet if it did fall apart because she kept in contact with her ex and played both of us, I don't really want to put more effort into it. I *did* lose a great deal of interest because of the split, which came out of nowhere with zero warning or effort to try to fix it. But like an ass, I still care. I'm on the verge of telling her no, I'm not giving up this easily, and I don't accept your BS anymore, we're gonna make it work.

If it turns out the ex is back and she doesn't want to try because of this or any other reason, I can feel like I can move on having tried to fix it like a man. This whole "one mistake and I'm done and moving on" just isn't my thing.


Intellect, check. Humor, yes. Smell, like flowers. Wallet, amazing. So generous. Good balance of gentle and not-gentle.

Damn it, it always comes back to being ugly with the tiny member...

I would agree. I have seen too many people let the one they thought was the one get away. At least you would know the truth either way.

Why do you go so deeeply into relations Theory will be always stay a theory. How smart I am. I really am.

Say that again?

Smart am I?

What exactly does this mean???

Relations becomes relations during relations Marc. Not while discussing about them.

Exactly, why chat about these things on a forum when you could be out there having "relations" in the real world :D ;)

I'm a smarter smarty pants lol

That`s what is usual among Serbians, too. You rule or you are ruled. Just, being ruled by a girl/woman means that she actually don`t need you. then comes the first flute, second and one falling in oblivion... she seek to found real ruler of her wild hormones

might not be your thing, but think about how you came from a whole different lifestyle and walked into a cold arms!

I think you wanting to see if she is worth it, well I hope for your sake she is, maybe she made a mistake and felt pressured

who knows, but dont you think that as adults, even you would have said listen, I dont think you coming is a good idea, I think

you should find another place to stay, I felt embarassed when I read that, almost for you because of her, not that is my problem

but as the reader, you kinda put yourself in the shoes of the writer.. thats why you get so many different responses but all worth

thinking about.

you know her best, if you feel she isnt doing anything wrong, or she is confused, then trying is probably an option, but I hope

she isnt stringing you along till the next time then say goodbye.

she must be doing rather good for herself to have a place of her own and able to go out.

:)

lolzzzzz, you got it Pawian..

I just noticed that she's added her ex back on Facebook. This is a guy who broke up with her twice after one year of dating, who all her friends hated, who she said rarely could make her laugh, had real problems making her orgasm, and was a **** kisser.

As she quit her job for no reason back in January and has none now ("I just got sick of it!") and now clearly seems to be going back to this guy, I'm going to agree with what she told me at the breakup: "Maybe I'm just for some reason being entirely self-destructive." People get that way sometimes -- they feel like s%&*, so they destroy all the good things in their lives.

I feel a lot better suddenly and have decided to forget it. I'm not gonna try to get her back. Dumping me is the sign of a girl who doesn't like me. Going back to him is the sign of an insane person. I'm running as far from the nuclear meltdown as possible.

He gives her money that is all.Polish women keep their exes.

Wisdom.

Given that she was married before this guy, not sure how this is true. And you're insane if you think money has anything to do with this.

This is about a beautiful but highly insecure Polish girl who got dumped by an *******, hated herself and wondered what was wrong with her, then too-soon hooked up to a nice, funny North American to feel better about herself, but never got over the ex and dropped the new guy and went crawling back when the ******* asked her to.

It's just going to happen again, and maybe again, but too bad, no longer my problem. Cheers to the misfortune of others.

Dude. It's not his fault that she chucked you. Why all the anger at him?

From the way you talk about him I guess you made her love herself, all her friends loved you, you made her laugh (cos you're so funny!) and all the while you were giving her LOADS of orgasms and kissed her like you were some kind of love God.

To be honest she sounds like a d1ck. And you sound up your own a55.

A little humility in this situation wouldn't go amiss, along with a bit of self reflection and wisening up.

Sounds like a really fun relationship.

She probably prefered the polish kielbasa at the end.

Send her a photo of your nob and ask if she'd prefer that instead? :D

I second this wonderful piece of advice.

She wants you as a reserve in case the other guy stops the flow of money.She will also bang you from time to time but not more than once a month.

You really need to ask this? I think the guy's as human as the rest of us, but he unrelentingly attacked something I thought was special until it was destroyed. He repeatedly hurt her before she and I even met. Yes, she let it happen. He also repeatedly stalked me in the process. I can understand all that but don't ask me to like it. If you had someone you cared about, who was in a bad relationship with a guy, who dumped her twice, and she went back a third time hoping it'd be different, would you not tell her she's being insane?


Of course this is my fault, but I'm just telling you the situation. She would cry when discussing her self-confidence problems. When I'd say she's amazing, that she needs to learn to trust me and the people who care for her, she'd insist no, she's not worth anything to anyone. Yes, I did really like her friends, and I think they felt the same. Her two best friends have since contacted me saying they feel terrible and is there anything they can do. Both of these friends hated the ex. She would always talk about how much like her true self she felt around me, and how much she had hated pretending to be someone else before. I won't brag about kisses or orgasms but we did have some beautiful times together. Is that wrong to say? I can look back and confidently know that I didn't do a terrible job... sure, a man can always do better, and I'm sure I f#&%ed it up in the end by being too demanding and not immediately getting my own place, but I won't accept you saying I'm up my own ass if I tell you there was a lot of good in what we had. I can say that with confidence still knowing everything else that was wrong.


British Kielbasa, apparently. The ex was no more Polish than I am.


This repeated focus on money is bizarre. Can any of the sane people here explain it? Income is not a problem for anyone involved and we certainly weren't competing in gifts.


This is so insane it might... just... work.

As I pointed out to you in ' post 12 of this thread' you gave it to him on a plate by leaving to go stateside. Out of sight out of mind, he worked his magic - you lost, you can't kick a man for ' carpe diem '

lmao


Third! lol


we all have bad relationships, she isnt ready to let go of this guy, maybe he sweet talked her, who
knows, but until she is completely out of it with him she wont be entirely yours. so its good that your
seperating yourself, because it sounds like a whole lotta drama was about to happen.

keep your life on track, you cant save someone if they dont want to be saved.

You are inconsistent.First you say she did not get a new boyfriend and then you write she added him to facebook.First you say there are no financial issues and then you tell she quit her job and stayed with him.

Probably you appeared a little overcontrolling dominating to het slavic girls need air,room to function they do not want to be suffocated.

Words to live by. If everyone could learn this lesson well there would be a lot less conflict in this world.

I think he figured it out southern :)