Polish girls attitudes towards sex.

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A friend of mine recently broke up from a year-long relationship with a Polish girl. He says he is glad to be out of it because of what he describes as her 'sexual hang-ups' and is advising others around him (he's British, living in the UK) not to date Polish women, because of what he experienced. I suspect his ex was not typical, so would be interested to hear from people here whether or not he's right.

The basic problem as he describes it is that his ex had been brought up to believe that female masturbation is absolutely, horrifically immoral and must never be done. That would be fair enough, except that it was combined with a high sex drive and a belief that it was his job to meet her sexual needs, whenever they arose. So she would call him up saying she was horny and ask him to come round and sort her out. Even if he didn't feel like it, or had other things he needed to do (such as working or sleeping).

It's not as if she was a devout Catholic, because she had sex with him and had been with other men before, despite being unmarried. He says she just believed that women shouldn't touch themselves sexually, I think because she saw it as men's job to please women and a sign of failure if a woman does it herself.

When he first told me I thought he was mad, because my experience of Polish women is that they are quite feminist-minded and self reliant, which would fit with having no reservations about masturbation. But I also remember reading here some comments saying that Polish girls are less likely to be single than say British ones, to the extent that they will steal other women's men if needs be. I half wondered whether that might be partly because of the thought that a woman should have a man and should not satisfy herself.

I don't think there's anything wrong with a woman not wanting to masturbate, but if it's in the culture of at least some Polish women, it would be useful to know about it.

Quite inconvenient in the middle of when he was giving his sermon on a Sunday, I guess.


I think so, they seem to marry much earlier, become mothers much earlier. I don't think there are many single women around after 22 or so here, not from what I've found. People do get divorced of course, but singles seem few and far between. In my experience, they're almost all married here unless total cows or last in the queue when the looks were given out. Whether they'd steal someone's man I don't know, but I'd think it no more likely than anywhere else, perhaps a little less likely because so many here are Catholic and have family pressure on them more than in some other countries, although this is not true of everybody, of course.

No, Polish women fap just as must as other women.

The thing about having a partner is half true though, a single Polish woman (especially over the age of 30) is shunned. It's hard (and boring) to explain, but basically it's because every social event that people are asked to here requires you to bring a guest, (weddings, christenings, etc. etc.) so it's handier to have a bf/gf (even if you hate them!)

I know of mates who were told not to go to weddings they'd been invited to coz they didn't have a guest to bring.

Crazy stuff.

Plus it's a lot harder to meet a partner here than in England/Ireland etc.
Like in England you can go to the pub/club with your mates and meet loads of different people even while just making small talk while waiting on your pints to be served, that doesn't really happen here, people go out of course, but they tend to stay within their own circle and don't mix in the same way.

So, when women do get a man, they tend to be very clingy...maybe clingy is the wrong word......clingy and bossy....Polish men knowing that their women are better looking and smarter so they usually just go along with it.

But yea, for the original question Polish women definitely wank.

Yeah blame on the woman typical. They haven't had been fitting company for each other that one is obvious. No need to go about talking rubbish just because hes libido has not been up for the job. Going by what they say on this forum British dudes seems to be sorry and queer lot.


Are you implying that Polish women are better looking and smarter than Polish men and they acknowledge it? Double fail.

You may not realise, but queer also means homosexual.

Yes, some of us are a sorry bunch, and few of us are Clooney or Robbie lookalikes with women swooning at our feet. And yeah that can mean our knowledge is more narrow than someone who gets sheep's eyes from women at regular intervals in any branch of Biedronka in Psie Pole. But, some of my observations are definitely correct, as are most or all of Smurf's.

Something is in this, and after all these years in Poland I haven't figured out why exactly. Single women tend to be invited much less often for social occasions here. My wife thinks this is because in other couples might look at her as "threat". Stupid thinking if you ask me.

How would you know?

better looking and smarter than who?

Well, in most countries women do get married early except for certain parts of the USA and certain parts of western Europe because women there are more career-oriented. In New England, it's rare to find a middle class woman that marries before the age of 25.

After reading OP's post a second time I realized that it is nothing more but an elaborated joke. Ha ha the joke is on me.


I recall distinctly that gentlemen from the British Isles are vaguely famous as being at home with homosexuality.


judging by what being said on PF those swooning women must scare those lookalikes into panic.


I have been talking about attitude and mentality not looks.


Some are correct and some are not; I have an issue with wrong conclusions rather than observations. Saying that I have no problem with your observations though.

clingy and bossy.
Most women are bossy. Polish women are expected to take a big share of responsibility for their marriage, children, household and husband. As they are being judged by those standards if there is something wrong or houses are not clean enough, it is because the lady of the house is not up to standard, some lazy or incapable twit. At lest that as it is seen in a society.

Husband need only to work hard, bring all the money home, drinking in moderation, no cheating on his wife and generally being good to his wife and hes off the hook.

[quote=]better looking [/quote]
This looks department depends on individual perception. I generally do not take male opinion about male looks with the exception of gays.
Few years ago a distant relative of mine went to Britain, she hasn't been well traveled, neighboring countries like Germany and such but nothing further afield. I happened to have a conversation with her on Skype. She said "My God, people here are so very ugly". A Question of perception - that all. Some types of looks are more general in their appeal and some not. Everyone have the right to his/her opinion but to be amend that Polish men are not good looking generally expressed by foreign males takes the biscuit. Ding dong!

I am quite sure a large percentage of readers of fhm.com in the 18-30 age group would be more than satisfied with a girlfriend who gave the ' come and sort me out call'.

Oh yeah! they are horny all the time! there is no doubt! And I love that! I don't know what makes them horny like hell, but seeing them horny makes me horny! to be honest, out of all these girls ive met here, 9 out of 10 are ready to have fun with you even if you just came to know them after few pints!


yeah! smaerter I hope you mean in general.. and not professionally! ;)

OMG I didn' know our girls were horny like that...maybe the ones going for foreign guys!

Yea, according to my female friends they would agree.


Yea maybe Polish men don't acknowledge it ;)
Think about it, there are tons and tons of Polish professional models, not so many men. It's not a dig, it's just the way it is, take my homeland, we all accept that our women are heifers but the men are much sought after by foreigners who settle in Ireland. The vast majority of my male friends back home have foreign girlfriends/wives.


By conversing with them, Polish women are quite open and honest about their sexuality, back at home our womenfolk are a bit more repressed, it's starting to change though. I, of course, blame the RCC and it's terrible influence on Irish society.


Who wouldn't? ;)


:)

This looks department depends on individual perception. I generally do not take male opinion about male looks with the exception of gays.
Few years ago a distant relative of mine went to Britain, she hasn't been well traveled, neighboring countries like Germany and such but nothing further afield. I happened to have a conversation with her on Skype. She said "My God, people here are so very ugly". A Question of perception - that all. Some types of looks are more general in their appeal and some not. Everyone have the right to his[/quote]
I did not want to tell this, but for once I tend to agree with you more or less.


The same in my home country. But single +30 females are not shunned there for parties...and nobody expects you to show up with a partner at a "serious" social occasion.

OK, my embassy sends invitations for the annual party to Mr/Mrs. and Partner. But I guess that is diplomacy :)

Still it's better if your gf touches herself than other man (while you're far away) ;)

OK, I agree that is the way you see it. You are entitled to your opinion of curse but I think that is not factual. To be honest I as a male I never noticed that superior handsomeness of Irish men.

Anyway personally I have been perused by the women from all corners of the globe from all races and nationalities. So I must be an exception to your rule;somehow I do not think so; so there must be something wrong worth your assessment.

As for models; have you ever seen a model without mascara and close up. I have and believe me there is nothing to be proud of in most cases.

I don't often bring up the subject of masturbation when talking to females, but each to their own, I suppose.

And how do you know whether whatever it is they tell you is the truth?

Are you sure you haven't been phoning certain pay per minute lines and asking for someone to 'talk dirty' in a Polish accent?

What do they say, 'the exception proves the rule.'
Good for ya man, variety is the spice of life and the more women from different places the better ;)
As for models that's true of course, god bless photoshop.
I don't think Irishmen are particually handsome, just saying that when foreign women come to Ireland they usually try and score one of them, foreign men when coming to Ireland tend to balk at our heifer women, rightfully so too.


Why ever not, this is the 21st C, not need to be sexually repressed anymore and fell ashamed of natural behaviour.
You're never spoken about it with your partner? I find that strange.....actually I don't believe that if you've never spoken about it with any woman.

As for your last sentence, why would I call a number to listen to a Polish accent, I live in Poland, there are Polish accents everywhere. A very strange comment to make.

Even in the 21st century, I don't think it's something most people feel comfortable talking about.


Obviously, I talk about such things. Equally obviously, I don't know whether I am being told the truth, and whether the person I am talking to is representative of all Polish women. If you had a partner with ginger pubes, would you assume all Polish women had ginger pubes?


The comment wasn't a 'serious' one. Have you never heard of a 'joke' or 'banter'?

I find it strange too! I have some polish colleagues, and if we are in a group of foreigners including them, they can leave the conversation or they will just keep quite! Wierd... isnt it?

This is quite so but there are some women, models or not, who are naturally good looking and ironically make up can detract from that if used.


Pursued or merely perused? I think we should know, you unabashed Adonis!


Who would've thought that women don't want to chat about their masturbation habits with men in a pub, it's incredible how shy some of them are eh!! :D

yo yo yo, all men arguing here like some wise men in mosque, I will tell you something from woman's POW.

I can't talk for all polish girls, but being a bit of a country girl, I know what's going on in rural areas.

Church is to blame. And priests. And nuns! And society!

With all seriousness, if you managed to survive catholic education in Poland without having some screwed up expectations of sex - congratulations.
Hopefully these days with the availability of internet, some kids self sex-ed, but rarely (if never) schools in Poland have any proper sex education classes. Parents are equally embarrassed to explain themselves. And many feel much easier if the local priest explains to kids in vague words that 'sex is allowed after marriage only, for procreational reasons, and any act of "self-rape" (yup, self-RAPE) equals a trip to mr Lucifer'.

Boys can overcome this easier, watching prons together while drinking beer, talking about their penis sizes, but for girls, it's a taboo.
I know british girls don't mind watching, nor experimenting and some talk freely about this (imagine my cultural shock!), but in Poland, it's socially unacceptable.

Almost every European country has a significant amount of female models but you're right, Polish men are not exactly the most handsome on earth. The few that are handsome probably have German lineage.


Smurf, you sure you're not just having trouble getting Irish women? We have a lot of American women here of Irish descent and a lot of them are quite pretty. So either your description of women in Ireland isn't accurate or all the good-looking Irish people moved to America.

Pursued of course.

since when squared head is considered handsome?


he clearly does but he prefers to make it look like it's not his fault even at the cost of calling his own mother a heifer.

Naturally !

German men are the most desired of all foreigners by Polish women. The statistics back that up too considering marriages between German men and Polish women far outnumber marriages between Irish men and Polish women, or any other foreign men.

You have a way with words. You are using it to make your claims sound ludicrous and clownish.

hehe that honestly made me giggle


And that obviously has nothing to do with Poland boardering with Germany :-)