Polish girls attitudes towards sex.

I doubt that ;)


Oh come on, and men cheat openly? :))) Usually everyone who cheats does it "behind back".


Well, this is how it works in nature - a male is supposed to impregnate as many females as possible so his genes would survive. That's his role. And females are supposed to take care of the offspring. And so they need only one partner to help them.

This is what I meant. Men are poligamic by nature. Women - monogamic.
Those are basic instincts. Some can fight it, some can't.

Really? I'd imagine both sexes cheat a lot but I've heard an exactly opposite theory to yours, and this was while taking biology a while back in Sweden.

I tend to agree with pgtx that women cheat more than men. In my opinion especially those with more physical attributes then others do cheat.. They flirt more as well and make the men "fight for them", play "head games" etc. If the guy is young he will try hard to get her, it is just like a game to prove to other guys that he can. When he gets older he realizes it is just a bulshit he doesnt need and looks for more mature women who are themselves...or he will move to some far away land in Asia and live happily without this nonsense.

Maybe. But I suspect that men still cheat more ;)
At least in those more traditional societies.


Well, then it must be a quite original theory :) What does it say?
Btw, it's not "my" theory. It's a scientific/psychological/behavioral theory or something. Heard about it many times.


So now you're generalising? ;)

Listen, guys, it would by really great if all the opinions about men cheating weren't true. For women it would be a wonderful news :) But I'm just trying to be realistic ;)))

hmmm... read here :)
news.harvard.edu/gazette/2000/10.19/01_monogamy.html


such as?

Well, in science questioning old theories is desirable :) But still my observations both of the nature world and human world are different ;)


Polish, for example? :)
And probably in those more "hardcore" where a woman gets stoned for cheating and a man doesn't?

I don't mean that in more liberal societies men cheat less. What I mean is in those societies women probably cheat more than in those traditional ones.

because a theory is old, it doesn't mean it is correct...


how come? human is not nature?

:)

Maybe, I don't know, never gone that route and don't plan on it.


Oh boy, I'm just gonna stir things up now. lol

Well, as you pointed out the theory we all have heard so many times is that males are polygamic by nature to increase the likelyhood of fathering their offspring.

It's been a few years now but in one of our biology classes when human procreation was being discussed several theories were brought up on male versus female traits and behaviors. They were just theories but they all are theories - including the one you brought up. Anyways, one of the things our teacher, who was also a researcher talked about was how males are "quick to the point" while females are slow to warm up but once they do they can go on and on for ever and many are even multi-orgasmic. You know the rocket engine versus the diesel engine theory. In her view that behavior didn't support the "male spreading his seed" theory.

She said that nature does things for a reason and one theory was that females stay aroused for a much longer period because they were meant to mate with several males in order to increase the likelyhood of getting pregnant.

Maybe she was looking for an official excuse to fool around :) I don't know but the "theory" she brought up was as logical as the one you brought up.

She was a little bit of a femi-nazi so maybe her views were slightly skewed because of it BUT I don't think there's a simple explanation to it all.

PS. The link in pgtx's post # 509 seems to support the theory we were told about.

It's about time we agree on something. Everyone cheats more in the liberal societies.

The simple fact is that, to virtually any question using auxiliaries or modals, the answer is some...and some.... It's so easy to spark a discussion like this, though. Many Poles like to take the bait :)

It's not even in question if quite a few Polish women are vain, moody and ignorant. I've seen it a lot, period. I'm sure that many aren't. The discussion from there becomes percentages but none of us want or need to go there. Polish men don't help by constantly placing them on a pedestal which leaves no room for subjectivity and beauty being in the eye of the beholder.

I also share Paulina's thought that men may cheat more but Zbyszko got it right. However, I was really shocked to read that flirting (which wasn't even flirting) on the net is nearly as bad as flirting physically in a bar, with a view to getting sth. I'm sorry but light talk on a forum with no sexual intentions just doesn't compare with going to a bar specifically to flirt and pull. Not even close!

My wife is a very nice woman and, as pgtx said, I am lucky to have her. I wouldn't even dream of cheating on her. Coming of age is important. When I was younger, I cheated twice but only because my girlfriends were being total bas*ards. Now I really want to make the marriage work and it was very hard for her to talk me into it in the first place. Just last night, my friend said I was difficult to talk to for my scepticism. My Profs even said the same when I was a teen. I took the plunge and with good reason.

I see that Poles who have travelled tend to be closer to where it's at.

SOUTHERN: Are you still here? I've gone back pages on this topic because reading your remarks kept me going thinking you will come out and admit that you've been regularly sniffing something normally not legal or good for one's general health especially mental. You can't be serious about any of this what you have been writing...are you? Is the world you live in a planet earth or something other? I really can't believe most (if not all) you pointed out, but to start with and going back some time....your observation that: in "richer cities" are many more attractive ladies is so laughable....hey Einstein; had it ever occurred to you that all the cities you have mentioned are large metropolitan or capitals? Means that chances of finding more attractive women are higher than elsewhere....simple stats man!

I agree with you here. An anonymous website where people joke about this and that is hardly what I'd call "flirting". Net-ing maybe but definitely not flirting... ;)

True enough. The other side of Poland is far enough away, never mind across the ash-ridden ocean. If I started to show interest in a poster from Gliwice, then I could see how my wife could sound the alarm bells.

I'm not into playing the 'let's catch you out' game.

Absolutely agree as well. Common Pauline this is not a confession in front of a priest....chill out a bit.

I think it was a bit of the' I'll get ye' way of thinking. The truth is, my wife and I are on a very solid footing and, given that she looks like the Polish Angelina Jolie (in some photos more like Sandra Bullock :) :)), why would I look elsewhere? She often gets that compliment, whether here or abroad. Her opinion of sex? Healthy :)

Does she have a sister who's single and who'd like to move to Hawaii? ;)

Eh, not that I know of ;) She has a brother, though ;) ;) He's married.

I'm expecting a barrage of replies from Paulina later, some more insinuations. Why is it so hard for many girls to say 'I like being rogered'?

This meeting between indigenous people of Balkans and slavic girls has happened millions of times in history so you feel the thrill when you meet them,it is an explosion.

And polish girls change their mind very often while czech girls always do what they promise.I will give Poland one more chance this summer.I have to embrace at least 4 Polki.But imagine my situation when 5 cesky are waiting to guest me at their homes.Hm,life is difficult if you are a Balkan.

King polkakamon, I have an advice for you: If you like Czech women so much - stick to them :) You'll do Polish women a big favour, really :)))))

Polish women appear out of nowhere.The first time I met them was when I was hunting Cesky and really everytime I try to pick up polish women appear,so this is no coincidence.

Polish women have their advantages though which you sense after a while without them.

Here is one of their main advantages.


I have to visit Kielce.

Oh no, you don't :S

Why?You are afraid I will steal all your girlfriends?

LOL

I'm not a lesbian :)

I think in Kielce there are enough normal Polish men, so I don't think crazy and primitive "king polkakamon" will have much success :) Well, maybe with some not very demanding girls, you can always try, at least (if you're handsome and won't speak too much so they wouldn't know what kind of man you are LOL) :)

As a straight male, I flirt my best with lesbians. :)

These girls are my weakness.


I never make this mistake.


Yes,if a polish girl does not like Doda I run out of subjects.Generally why Polki do not prefer polish men who seem intellectual and go for the barbarians?Hm,hm.

Note to self: Don't ever talk to other girls when you're happily married. Too risky!

Note to self: Talk to as many other girls as you can when you're unhappy with your marriage. Problem solved!

;P

Damn,my purpose of writing on this forum was at least met.I managed to present the foreigners how they really are.

Aren't you a foreigner? Oh, wait! Since we all live in different countries, we're all foreigners to eachother!

;P

Smartass.

Is this some kind of designation?A medal?