THE POLISH DISEASE, wanna marry a Polish girl ? read on...

Your girlfriend sounds like most Polish women I know. Although, very few are actually rebels. They make their own money, they're independent, yet most of them are also very close to their families.

Actually, that's what I have seen since I was a kid. All mothers worked. They do take the maternity leave and then come back to work. I could see stay-home mums (nothing wrong about it) only in American films.

The difference nowadays is that there's more partnership in housework duties nowadays.
However, there's a growing number of whole families dependent on the social welfare, but that applies to both sexes.

Oh! I guess rebel was a wrong choice of words there given it can be taken in a negative sense. What I wanted to say was she is very strong-willed and independent. She doesn't take any **** from her dad/mom etc.


Yes, my fiance keeps telling me about the social welfare stuff.

I recently got deported snd out or the prison in u.s. where can I sign up in warsaw for social welfare and do I need to be zameldowany in warsaw?

I hope the Polish Police has a file of your criminal record.

Hy Guys, I am Asim from Dubai, lots of women tourists come here and I have met ........many...., but I didn't feel like that materialistic , Moody type..............in every culture, society and country people have different attitude so May be like that few are there....

I hope you are all will be fine, you written as you observe , listened, or practically happen with you......you share your knowledge, good, appreciate you guys

@Syed Asim

Syed...I think the ones you're meeting are a very bad representation. The ones who will leave Poland to go to a place like Dubai do that for a reason, they are not the norm to be sure. They are modern, empowered women, so the ones who are willing to go to a place like the UAE, where women are put in prison for being raped, or most recently a British citizen was imprisoned for spilling a drink on someone and touching their hip, the ones with dignity and self-respect won't go there. You'd have to go to Poland and meet real Polish women to get a better idea of what they're like. Of course the ones who goto a place as decadent as Dubai or Abu Dhabi will be materialistic.

Ha ha ha.. its a fun post from american minded person. American divorce rates are high becuase of such dudes. Calm down friend. Women are same everywhere. If your description matches then all indian women are same. Try to respect them dickhead. Your divorce is sure anywhere you go. Selfish mentality to settle down at 39 after ******* like anything.

Respect. Adjust. Compromise. Care. Love and then deserve for love.
And you will settle with love. You are ******* materialistic with wanting a women just for sex.

Learn. Wish you could have understtod this.

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yep its a disease alright.

Well this is all very interesting reading. I met my Polish wife just over 2 years ago and weve been happpily married for 1 year. Ive been married twice before. 25 years to my first wife whom I divorced, 3 1/2 years to my second wife who sadly died of cancer.

My Polish wife is a very caring sensitive lady, yes we sometimes have quarrels of which its usually due to family causing problems but hey who dosent.

I am an ambitious businessman who works very hard. My wife is always asking me to ease off a bit. Shes beautiful, caring, loyal, hardworking and dosent take advantage of any money we have. She keeps our home clean, she cooks fantastic and all my friends adore her.

I am a very honest and loyal man and care very much about other people. I would always help someone if i can. I guess im fortunate to have meet my Gosia and hope for a long and happy life together.

Much observation leads me to believe PL ladies do not get on with men who have sny kind of sense of humor. The more funny guy who likes to amuse himslef and others talking the more trouble ahead if you pair up with a PL lady. Oh, yeah they love to sit next you at a party, or maybe even date you. But marriage for them PL gals is a serious business of battling it out with their friend girls for position in the pecking order. So, your money high profile job social status matter, your conversation does not. Neither does your opinion or any kind of knowledge. Kindness, gentleness are kind of expendable too.

Wow mate you must have had a real bad experience.

Another thing PL women are vociferously opposed to is any kind of charity work, or voluntary involvement in community. Dont believe it? Talk to anyone who ever tried to collect donations for a sponsored feat for charity among them. If you every try it yourself keep a cellphone handy to share their facial expressions.

crikey sylvio is your experience in the city or the village ? both ?

@Sylvio
I dont know from how many women this experience of yours comes, but have you ever considered you might be hooking up with the wrong type of woman?

You mean do a full background check, vet whole family and all that?

The actual truth to this is Dutch have been terrorizing them for so long they just go along with itas opposed to suffering dutch disease.

Well I'm an English girl about to marry a polish guy!! He was treated as you describe by his ex wife!!
Hmmm best think hard!