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I have a crush on a Polish boy ~


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12 Dec 2011 /  #1
Hi ~ ^ ^
let me explain my situation. I'm from England and I'm a 14 year old girl. There is a polish boy in my school who I like alot. We have been good friends for about 7 months, and I've had a crush on him for atleast 9 months now. About 2 months ago, I decided to ask him out (note: He's got alot of girls who fancy him) and he said: No, I'm really sorry but I'm not dating anyone for about 2 months and I don't want the other girls to be upset. So we settled on being friends but he never mentioned how he felt. About an hour later (we sit next to each other in RE) he was acting like nothing had ever happened. He then asked if I wanted to go into to town with him, but not as a date. So that happened and it was fun. He also started messaging me on Facebook alot about homework. Then when he got a new phone we texted alot. He really likes MMORPGs and those sort of games, and I kinda do too, also I like Kpop and anime... This is relevant because he calls me nicknames like: Little Korea, Japan or Application... We also share a lOve for cake ~He once said my cakes were the best ever. I know alot about him and he knows loads about me. Then recently in the past 2 weeks he's asked me to places again ( still not as a date) but so far I've been busy ;_; but he keeps asking. He also uses a winky face alot when typing to me. And we play a game called Eden eternal together :P and the other day when I was ill at school he kept fussing over me. And once he said I was funny... And once I said - boo nobody likes me, and he said: I like you. He also waits for me if I'm walking or in the line for food and he gets our before me.And always wants to be in my group in class or sit next to me. But he never did say if he liked me... and I was wondering, what do you guys think? (btw, there has been alot more signs and things that have happened but these were the first in my head xD)
Meathead  5 | 467  
12 Dec 2011 /  #2
Never ask a boy out on a date, wait for them to ask you. Patience is a virtue.
Bluto  
13 Dec 2011 /  #3
Nonsense. Boys like girls enjoy being asked out. It's the 21st century not the 1800's.

Patience is a virtue.

Sometimes waiting too long means that you are too late.
isthatu2  4 | 2692  
13 Dec 2011 /  #4
Never ask a boy out on a date, wait for them to ask you.

B0ll0x !
Cant comment on the rest of the OPs post past about the second sentence.............teen speak is baffling to me these days :)
Edit, tried again.............sorry to break the news OP, but that boy may end up being your life long friend,but, Ive a feeling you will be sharing that friendship with Dorothy ;)
Sidliste_Chodov  1 | 438  
13 Dec 2011 /  #5
Never ask a boy out on a date, wait for them to ask you. Patience is a virtue..

Dating sites are full of childless women in their 40s who probably thought like this and "couldn't find the right man" :D
isthatu2  4 | 2692  
13 Dec 2011 /  #6
A 14 year old boy who communicates all the time,is surrounded by teeny girls,none of whom he dates,in fact says he will not date anyone for X amount of time.....

Loves spending time window shopping, plays games that dont involve Modern Call of Halo...loves Anime, shares your love of pretty Cakes, is kind and considerate when you are ill and has not made any innaprorpriate lunges.....in fact,he can talk to a girl.....yups,Im no expert, but, THE BOY IS GAY......
Marynka11  3 | 639  
13 Dec 2011 /  #7
Never ask a boy out on a date, wait for them to ask you. Patience is a virtue.

Very good advice. Better yet, wait until you are 18 and graduate high school. Boys are nothing but trouble. Didn't your daddy tell you that?
beckski  12 | 1609  
13 Dec 2011 /  #8
I'm from England and I'm a 14 year old girl

You're still just a pup. Take it slow and enjoy his friendship. You should praise being young & carefree for as long as you can.
shewolf  5 | 1077  
13 Dec 2011 /  #9
(note: He's got alot of girls who fancy him) and he said: No, I'm really sorry but I'm not dating anyone for about 2 months and I don't want the other girls to be upset.

He doesn't want the other girls to be uspset? What?
bledi  2 | 11  
20 Dec 2011 /  #10
THE BOY IS GAY......

I agree with isthatu :P
blackadder  1 | 114  
20 Dec 2011 /  #11
Sweetie you don't really need a boyfriend untill you're 18 believe me,most of teenage boys are all about sex,and those who aren't are probably yet to reach puberty.

But you probably will ignore our advices as we all did in your age :)
pawian  221 | 26015  
20 Dec 2011 /  #12
Nonsense. Boys like girls enjoy being asked out. It's the 21st century not the 1800's.

Sweetie you don't really need a boyfriend untill you're 18 believe me,most of teenage boys are all about sex,and those who aren't are probably yet to reach puberty.
But you probably will ignore our advices as we all did in your age :)

When in high school, I gained a girlfriend after she told me on the phone: I am calling to inform you that you are inviting me to the cinema. That was a very pleasant relationship, but ended after 6 months when she was too reluctant to give me the proof of love. :):):)

OK, I am joking now, to be honest, I don`t remember why it ended. :):):)
noreenb  7 | 548  
21 Dec 2011 /  #14
What is actually your problem about that guy?
50 50 chance  
30 Apr 2014 /  #15
Here are the possibilities. He may be teasing you or for real he likes you. When he texts you with that wink emoji he may be teasing you, he doesn't care what kind of emojis he put cause he knows you like him. He may like you too. I suggest you, but if you don't like the idea please don't use it. I don't want you getting into trouble. Try telling one of your "guy" friends that you trust and to try to flirt with you or say sweet things to you in front of him. See if he is angry sad or show any emotions at all. If he gets along then he may PROBABLY not like you. If he is sad or won't talk to you he may be jealous. I wish you good luck and go after him!!! Remember what they say NEVER GIVE UP!!!😃

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